Another Sallie Mae Victim Seeking Wisdom/Questions on SOL

Posted by tipsy-cowgirl@reddit | studentloandefaulters | View on Reddit | 8 comments

Hi everyone, I’m another victim of Sallie Mae that’s defaulted on loans & I’m seeking some clarity or wisdom on what to do because this whole situation has been seriously impacting my mental health & I don’t know anyone in my personal life that’s going through this so I’m just lost on what to do.

I graduated 2021 & have over $200k in private student loan debt. I tried working with them after graduation to get on some sort of payment plan, but their idea of an “affordable” option was over $2500 a month, way more than I was even making monthly with rent & bills to consider. I looked into refinancing but got denied multiple times. I just became so discouraged & I panicked so I never made any payments.

Fast forward to know after dodging any & all calls, I got a call on my work phone from a debt collector that completely caught me off guard. He essentially offered the option to settle part of my loan for $35k which, again, I don’t think I’ll be able to afford.

Since I’ve already defaulted, I’m wondering if I should continue in this road since SOL in my state is 6/7 years. But, did I just reset the clock by talking to this debt collector? I made sure not to verbally acknowledge that the debt was mine, but I’m afraid by entertaining a settlement offer that I reset the SOL clock. Will looking into refinancing options/if I am able to refinance, will that also reset the clock? I’m just not sure if I should try to take out a loan/seek help for a settlement or if I should keep playing the waiting game. I would love to hear other experiences just so I can get some perspective. Thank you in advance for your time!