It's not that complicated to get your life on track. It's hard, but it's not complicated.

Step 1. Google current highest paying associates degrees. High paying fields tend to be in demand so it shouldn't be too difficult to find a job out of school. Find something on this list you wouldn't absolutely hate and could physically do. Trades are also a good option but will destroy your body.

Step 2. Go to community college with student loans. Live on ramen and dreams if you have to. If I can do it and pass classes, you can too. You just gotta put in a bit of effort.

Step 3. Start applying for jobs in that field. Do this every day until you land something. Ideally you'll have done some kind of internship or something to get work experience, but that's not always possible. Seize any and all opportunities you can, once you get your foot in the door and get some experience under your belt you'll be in a much better place to pick and choose jobs you want.

There, now you have a decent paying job for minimal time investment. The rest comes with having a decent paying job and a good work/life balance. You'll meet people at school or work, hopefully make friends, and go from there. Beyond a higher paying associates that comes with an in demand job that you could tolerate, fuck your desires. Seriously. I made this mistake and wasted years of my life, trying to figure out what I was "passionate" about. I didn't want to go to school for something I wasn't going to do forever, but you can always go back later to either advance your current career or pivot into something else. It turns out I'm not passionate about anything I can reasonably do for a living, and that's okay.