You Know?
Posted by Hawkeyes1976@reddit | AskAnAmerican | View on Reddit | 62 comments
I’m from the Midwest and I say you know after sentences a lot or ya know. My friend say it sounds like I’m from Minnesota or Canada. Can anyone verify that this is a common saying in either of those areas? Or is this a saying in a different Midwestern state?
The-Arcalian@reddit
on the Eastern seaboard, my maternal grandmother said it all the time
ShimorEgypt4227@reddit
Do it all the time. Y'know?
Upset-Win9519@reddit
I hear a lot of You know what I'm saying?
TheBimpo@reddit
Oh ya you betcha.
igorsmith@reddit
"Heck, Norm, You Know We're Doing Pretty Good."
PartyCat78@reddit
I read that in the accent. Hahaha
c1m9h97@reddit
Lol so did I
TheBimpo@reddit
Say hi to your folks for me.
HailMi@reddit
You watch a lot of Charlie Berens and Miles, doncha?
TheBimpo@reddit
More of a Joe Pera fan. Charlie’s pretty Wisconsin specific.
CannonWheels@reddit
wait, everybody doesn’t say that?
TheLastRulerofMerv@reddit
I'm Canadian and I say that too. Interesting.
I still don't think Midwesterners sound like us completely, but there definitely seems to be some cross over.
ElectionProper8172@reddit
Well, other people seem to think so. If I leave the Midwest, people will ask if I'm from Canada.
TheLastRulerofMerv@reddit
Yeah, I think a lot of that is perception though. Like most Americans think Canadians sound like Sarah Palin, or the actors in the movie "Fargo", but we don't. There are similarities but it isn't the same.
If you look up a video of Paul Maurice (coach of the Florida Panthers) that's a really good example. Or how Paul Bissonnette sounds like from Spittin Chiclets. That's how Canadians sound. It's very similar to northern US people and midwesterners in particular, but it's a little different. I can see how Minnesotans get confused for Canadians by Americans, but I really can hear that difference. You guys pronounce certain vowels differently and have a slightly different cadence.
ElectionProper8172@reddit
There are some things that would give away a Canadian. Like saying grade 10 or BBQ instead or grill. (I learned that watching trailer park boys lol).
TheLastRulerofMerv@reddit
Yeah our slang is kind of funny and almost immature sounding. I never realized that until I spent lots of time down in the states. Other ones I noticed (American to Canadian):
Colored Pencils = Pencil Crayons
Ding Dong Ditch = Nicky Nicky Nine Door
Freshman = Frosh OR First Year
Sophomore = Second Year
Prom = Grad
Pint = Mickey (when referring to a 375ml (12.6oz) bottle of booze).
There's a few more but they're pretty funny to learn about it. I don't know how the hell we diverged with this nomenclature because I've asked Brits about this and they don't use our nomenclature either for any of this.
ElectionProper8172@reddit
That is actually very interesting
malibuklw@reddit
From Buffalo (the Midwest of NY) and we say “you know” relatively frequently
PartyCat78@reddit
My cousin was raised in Michigan and the way she say Mom sounds like…. Mahm? and it’s nasally. It gets more nasal and AHHH when she’s talking fast.
msomnipotent@reddit
I'm from Chicago. I said, "Mom, you got any pop?" in front of one of her friends and the friend said she only heard goat sounds.
We also say "fronchroom" instead of front room.
neoslith@reddit
I'm from Illinois and it's very much a common phrase here too. I've tried to stop saying it because it doesn't make a lot of sense when trying to explain something.
Irak00@reddit
Maybe in northern Illinois but not central. People use that phrase but only when it’s appropriate..except my friend when she’s irritated & had too much to drink lol
Irak00@reddit
I’m in the southern Midwest & yes people ask, “Ya know?”, but I wouldn’t say it’s a frequent thing. My first thought was you’re from the northern Midwest?
DOMSdeluise@reddit
I don't think "you know" is region specific
Oenonaut@reddit
Know'msayin?
appleparkfive@reddit
I think we picked it up from the Brits during the British Invasion in the 60s. Because people like the Beatles would say it every other sentence. I don't think Americans always said it, but ever since then we have.
I could be totally off, but that's what I recall hearing anyway!
DOMSdeluise@reddit
apparently "you know" as a filler word is attested as far back as the 1700s so I doubt the Beatles are to blame lol
jcstan05@reddit
We say that sort of thing a lot, y'know?
Echterspieler@reddit
I'm from New York and I say it a lot you know?
bryku@reddit
I grew up in the Midwest, but when I moved away I noticed I did the same thing. I tried to fix it, but every so often I still say it, you know?
Welpe@reddit
It’s identical to “eh?” from Canadian English and Hispanic American English.
BankManager69420@reddit
We say it in the Northwest too
goblin_hipster@reddit
I guess it's just something we say, y'know?
shelwood46@reddit
At least we've mostly stopped saying ja der hey
Low-Cat4360@reddit
I'm not Midwestern, but is that "the other day"? In the South sometimes we say it like "duder daye" or "thuder daye"
Different-Produce870@reddit
You betchya
Building_a_life@reddit
You're aware that's a polite way to soften an assertion into a question, right? ...into a question, okay? ...into a question, correct? I say right and okay, almost never ya know.
Cincoro@reddit
It is wicked common...which should give away the region I am from. 🤣
rattlehead44@reddit
Haha I wish I could actually hear someone use wicked naturally in a sentence. It would make my day.
rattlehead44@reddit
I know a little of people that say “you know?” In the middle of, and after every sentence out here in the Bay Area too.
thereslcjg2000@reddit
I always assumed “you know” was just a universal part of the English language.
gogonzogo1005@reddit
I'm from the far east Midwest state and I say it way too much. My from CA husband will often tell me.. either politely "You keep saying you know again" or bluntly "no I don't know".
wooper346@reddit
No yeah
forwardobserver90@reddit
Yeah no
CupBeEmpty@reddit
It’s common here in New England too, you know.
I work with a lot of folks that speak publicly and it is common in the Midwest and New England as just kind of a placeholder.
dweaver987@reddit
Ya’ Know was a common pause while speaking when I was a teen/20s in the north east in the 70s and 80s. I moved to California in 1985 and it was much less common out here.
Vexonte@reddit
Bag
theflamingskull@reddit
Is that where you keep cream of something soups?
Vexonte@reddit
No, when I worked in California, my coworkers would laugh their asses off when I said it.
baalroo@reddit
Very common out here in the Great plains part of the Midwest.
HarveyMushman72@reddit
People around here say: where is Joe at? Instead of where is Joe? You know, is also used
QualityPrunes@reddit
You know is a bad habit. Such as saying “like” or “I mean”.
First_Joke_5617@reddit
Fargo?
Ok-Turnip-2816@reddit
Yeah no yeah.
OhThrowed@reddit
oh yeah sure, y'know.
Judgy-Introvert@reddit
I live in Washington and end almost every sentence with, “yea?” “I thought it sounded like a great idea, yea?” “I’m almost positive that’s what they said, yea?” For the record, it’s not a Washington thing and I have no idea why I do it.
BulimicMosquitos@reddit
I say it all the time, and I’m from one of the southern Midwest states.
Ua97@reddit
I say "ya know" a lot and a bunch of people do here as well. I don't think it's that limited to the upper midwest
Red_Beard_Rising@reddit
My favorite response to this is "No I don't. Please explain." People get really weird when you do that.
RioTheLeoo@reddit
I hear it a lot here too in SoCal. You know what I mean?
TCFNationalBank@reddit
"don't cha know?" is a Canadian stereotype so maybe. Especially true if you have the northern vowel shift
theSPYDERDUDE@reddit
Whenever I get on certain game comms and say certain words I get immediately asked if I’m Canadian so I think it’s just a “being midwestern” thing. I know in Minnesota some people say it a lot because I’ve been up there frequently for hockey tournaments, but I don’t know if that’s the norm or not because I myself do the same thing.