How are people so unprepared?
Posted by No-Ideal-6662@reddit | preppers | View on Reddit | 387 comments
I’ve been keeping tabs on bird flu, not obsessing over it but keeping tabs. Recently 3 dairy farms in California have been infected with several cases of human infection but thankfully no aerosol spread. I told my family this and that they should seriously consider just basic stuff. Having enough household goods to last 3 months so they can ride out any quarantine without exposure at grocery stores that kind of stuff and they brushed me off.
I genuinely don’t understand how you can live through covid and not take this as a serious possibility. I know Covid killed a lot of people including some of my family, but we “lucked out” that it had a relatively low mortality rate. If bird flu became aerosolized it would be disastrous. Even a 10% mortality rate would grind the country to a halt let alone a 50% mortality rate. My family just doesn’t get it.
Don’t get me wrong, my wife is on board, but my parents and sister and some of my wife’s family are just kinda “meh”. I know times are tough but they can afford to drop $100 on a case of rice and some hand sanitizer and toilet paper. It’s like they forgot about how bad COVID was and how much worse it could have been. Do any of you guys have any experience with this? What is your plan for family that will be unprepared if something like this happens again?
Medaphysical@reddit
If anything, covid showed people that you don't need to prepare for much. It was billed as a huge problem and most people had no real issues continuing to get their groceries and supplies.
Virtual-Feature-9747@reddit
I had no real problem but I think COVID did show what could happen if we have a "real" pandemic. Something much more deadly and/or much more transmissible. What if it was actually unsafe to go to the store?
hollisterrox@reddit
It was, and still is.
I think the answer to OP's question is right in this comment thread: people, even preppers, are happy to live in denial.
Right now, today, covid is killing 500-1000 people per week directly, but causing "long covid" in many, many times that number. 'Long Covid' is just a funny way of saying "disabled", and most Americans are just whistling past the graveyard when they go to concerts, basketball games, business conferences, etc.
I'm saying, it is dangerous to go to the grocery store today unmasked, and yet almost everyone is doing it that way, not even taking the simplest precautions.
Virtual-Feature-9747@reddit
I think we disagree on what 'dangerous' means. Do you also think lightning and sharks are dangerous? Yes, these things can kill you but you are not likely to experience them.
hollisterrox@reddit
If I see lightning within 10 miles of me, I do adjust my activity to reduce risk. That's a weird one to choose, you know, because it's not that hard to take a few steps to avoid that risk when it's present, and a lot of people do take those steps.
Also, 'dangerous' is a spectrum, for sure. Things can be more unsafe or less unsafe. Long covid is assuredly dangerous, and if you get COVID 3 times (lifetime), you are about 80% likely to experience long covid. Treatment for long covid is inadequate, so now you are disabled for years/life.
Eredani@reddit
I'm not downplaying the impact. I'm just saying that I personally don't consider COVID to be very dangerous in terms of a pandemic. It could have been much worse, and if we see bird flu jump to humans, we might see how bad things can get. 2% mortality rate compared to 60%.
As for COVID, we have vaccines and herd immunity. Are you thinking we should still have mask mandates and lockdowns? If so, until when?
hollisterrox@reddit
You're not the guy I replied to, get your accounts mixed up?
I don't know how you justify calling COVID 'not dangerous', that's a weird conclusion to reach at this point. Not only is it currently disabling thousands of Americans per month, it's also continuing to mutate. It could just as easily become much worse overnight, and everyone is just going to ignore it.
Also, I gave the example of an individual choosing to wear a mask to the grocery store, not a mask mandate. However, considering the economic benefits of a mask mandate, I think a government is justified in setting one down. I don't know what a lockdown is, I live in America, we never had those.
VyatkanHours@reddit
What on Earth ar you on about? America had plenty of lockdowns.
ObscureSaint@reddit
17 million people have Long COVID.
That would be a fuckton of sharks. 🤔
singlereadytomingle@reddit
Oh no, a doomer is here. The question is what is worse, a virus that has lowered to the level of a cold or mass cases of myocarditis in young men, from the supposed solution, who would have otherwise very rarely gotten infected. There’s a reason why people don’t want to get boosters anymore. Like 133x more likely to get myocarditis after the jab. Link.
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CypherCake@reddit
Supply lines got choked and blocked up for a bunch of stuff, all kinds of stuff, globally. Panic buying emptied supermarkets extremely quickly. So if you weren't already stocked up you had to join the bunfight or go without. And in a lot of cases supermarkets weren't able to immediately re-stock stuff.
For me the lesson was in how fragile our "just in time" and global distribution systems are and how quickly it can all fall apart. How quickly all the food can be just gone, leaving you potentially with nothing. There were people who suffered if they needed gluten free for example, and all the gluten free bread was taken.
But for most people? They saw they couldn't get some stuff for a few weeks, or prices got a bit high but hey, everything mostly carried on. And to be fair it did, because the situation wasn't that dire. The actual production and distribution still worked well enough for food and essentials, outside of the panicking masses gobbling things up. A lot of people seemed to take pleasure in wasting half of everyday day dicking about in supermarket queues. Noone wants to think about a pandemic bad enough to take down food supply.
AdditionalAd9794@reddit
It doesn't get much more transmissible than Covid, I believe it's estimated everyone in the world has had Covid an average of 3.4 times or something.
I think the only virus we've seen more transmissible than Covid was the swine flu.
Eredani@reddit
COVID has an R0 of anywhere between 3 and 8, depending on the varient. This is indeed quite infectious, but there are viruses with a much higher R0, such as measles at 12-18. Very contagious.
Medaphysical@reddit
To the general public, it was a real pandemic. So what happened during covid is as bad as it could get. Not that I agree, but that's what was demonstrated for most people.
I think food delivery and pickup has also created a false sense of security, especially when you ignore the fact that people have to work in the grocery stores and restaurants that cook/gather/package your orders.
BallsOutKrunked@reddit
I remember this meme about what we thought a pandemic would be: guy in a gas mask walking through a burned out city scape.
Versus what it turned out to be: people getting fat in sweat pants watching Tiger King.
lilith_-_-@reddit
Do you know how many folks are paycheck to paycheck? One 500$-1000$ bill away from disaster? Most Americans. Most. We are primed to be fucked
AntiTourismDeptAK@reddit
This is it. I had a friend visit this week who caught a view of my garage, which has two years of rice, flour, beans, dehydrated milk, for four people - not to mention five freezers of game meat. He laughed at my “Y2K shit” for a minute, and then later in the day admitted that he is jealous as fuck and lacks the means to prepare like we do. It’s not just income allocation, you have to have the income to start with.
Taway197569@reddit
You screwed up royally letting him see your food stash
VyatkanHours@reddit
You're being really paranoid.
itsgrandmaybe@reddit
You put yourself in a bad situation. He knows too much now, you know what you must do.
ClownCarrr@reddit
Remember it's for his and your own good.
TheGreenAbyss@reddit
Help him to prepare within his budget and gain a potentially valuable ally when SHTF?
AntiTourismDeptAK@reddit
Bingo. When it all goes down, the community around you will know you have preps anyway because you aren’t suffering like they are and you aren’t accessing community resources.
AntiTourismDeptAK@reddit
What do you think all the guns are for?
AntiTourismDeptAK@reddit
As another person noted, not at all. He’s from out of state. That being said, my direct neighbors (on my dead-end road) know I shot two moose this week because I showed up with a box of meat for each of them.
People can know you have supplies if you make them part of your team. There’s no surviving a long term event without community, and I live in a small community isolated from other communities by hundreds of miles of roads and dozens of river crossings that serve as choke points and inspection points. With a salmon river running through town and the ocean nearby, I just need my community to make it until the first spring when the fish come back.
This-is-not-eric@reddit
Not at all, having and building a solid community is vital to survival in the long term (if only to avoid incest)
Megatea@reddit
I'm going to steal this chat up line.
This-is-not-eric@reddit
Lord I hope it works for you, ain't doing me any favours sadly
ClownCarrr@reddit
Right On man! And surviving off 1.5 incomes that barely breaks even though VP Harris assures us Bidenomics are working. Just not working FOR us.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
That is fair and I am sympathetic. That said my family is not that. If they would skip 1 restaurant outing a week for a month they could by enough rice and beans for 3 months
lilith_-_-@reddit
You’re absolutely right. I think the lack of prepping is because these folks have never, well suffered. They’ve never had to survive an event this severe. So ignorance is bliss. Big reason for the store rushes the second Covid hit. I was a store manager and I had people I had to call the cops on. People willing to fight. Hell one person tried ramming their car through our front door for fucking toilet paper after we closed. Humans are dumb.
mumblified@reddit
I never got the toilet paper thing. I mean you can wash everything off if you need to. People were acting like it was more important than food.
lilith_-_-@reddit
Honestly I don’t get it. Mass panic induced by online social media probably. If I was so concerned I would have amazoned a bidet 🤷♀️
mumblified@reddit
Haha for sure. Also, the vegan isle was untouched at many stores. I eat meat, but the amount of people unwilling to even try vegan options and running around fighting over meat was absurd. We are very comfortable in our habits. I will be happy to eat some tofu or tempeh if it means not starving.
Illustrious-Nose3100@reddit
I laughed at all the people stocking up on milk. Like how long do you expect that to last??
ImJeannette@reddit
You can freeze milk and it will last for months. Plus, with whole milk you can make cheese. Stocking up on milk isn’t as silly as you may think
Illustrious-Nose3100@reddit
That’s makes sense. I don’t drink it regardless. The soy milk section was largely untouched ha
HilmDave@reddit
Black bean burgers are such a treat. And this is coming from a very much meat-eater lol.
lilith_-_-@reddit
They used to kick me out of eating the vegetarian options as overnight camp back in the day lol. These burgers were incredibly delicious but “it’s for vegetarians/vegans only…”
lifethreatz@reddit
They probably kicked you out because there were only enough for non-meat eaters, and giving the veg options to a meat eater would lower their supply.
lilith_-_-@reddit
Precisely
lifethreatz@reddit
I misunderstood. Are you vegetarian or vegan?
lilith_-_-@reddit
No you’re fine, I’m neither. Well I was here and there hence liking the food but at the time I was not
dependswho@reddit
I thought you were going to say because they made you toot
HonestMeatpuppet@reddit
They’re great! It’s most certainly not a hamburger, but it’s delicious as a black bean patty. No sense in pretending
TomSmith113@reddit
Agreed! Specifically relevant to preps, the company Ready Hour makes #10 cans of black bean burgers, and they're surprisingly good. They'd be straight luxurious in SHTF.
sheeprancher594@reddit
My daughter is vegetarian and I've been wondering if those are good. Is it a loose mix or actual patties?
TomSmith113@reddit
It's a dry mix. Just add water and form the patties.
sheeprancher594@reddit
Thank you!
Imagirl48@reddit
I’ve tried Augason Farms black bean mix. It’s a loose mix that you form into patties. I’ve had better luck making soups and pasta sauce with it.
d4rkh0rs@reddit
I never missed the paper, but the naked aisles tripped me out.
lilith_-_-@reddit
This naked isles are coming back in the next 5-10 years and will be normal. That’s what scares me lol
OldSoul825@reddit
I bought a bidet bottle on Amazon. Works great and greatly reduces need for TP.
hzpointon@reddit
I made one out of a plastic coke bottle
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I’m terrified of the splash touching my hand
wamih@reddit
My dad and Grandma ran out during peak lockdown and has a compromised immune system so we were being super careful... I didnt have a car at the time and it would've been a $70ish uber round trip.
"Why dont you just hop in the shower after?"
"Jesus, I never would've thought of that"
People's problem solving has been diminishing over the last couple decades.
mcoiablog@reddit
During Covid lockdowns, my friend's husband was craving pasta with meat sauce. She had pasta, onion, garlic, and sauce but no ground beef. I said I have a roast you can have. She said what good would that do me. I said put it in your food processor and it becomes ground meat. She couldn't believe it. She had some burgers that she did it with. Burgers that are made from ground beef. SMH. Lots of people cannot think outside the perfect little box.
AggravatingMark1367@reddit
Funny but also… a little scary
sheeprancher594@reddit
This. During an extended ice storm event in 2008 in my area, the kids ran out of marshmallows. I bebopped down to the nearest grocery store and it was bare. My first encounter with that. I've always kept an over-the-top pantry, so it was no big deal for us. What surprised me most was the fact that everything premade was gone. Ingredients to make stuff was barely touched. A lot of people canNOT think outside the box.
Tsukuba-Boffin@reddit
What I hated is that even though I knew we didn't have to stock up for some mysterious reason and freak out about it, we still got pulled into others' lunacy. Because they went nuts and started hoarded it, then we DID have to start worrying about it when it should have been a non-issue since we had to worry about stocking up ahead of the hoarders. It was so stupid, like people thought they were going to get sonic mega-diarrhea with covid and be defecating just continuously 24-7.
JenFMac@reddit
Hell hath no fury like privileged people who may be marginally inconvenienced.
TomSmith113@reddit
That's a great line, and I'm gonna steal it! 😂
JenFMac@reddit
All yours friend.
lilith_-_-@reddit
I know some folks who prep heavily and they came from foreign countries. Where you had to drink and bathe in streams and hunt and kill for food. To defend themselves from cannibalism in starvation amongst other issues. The one I have in mind most has a bunker and years of supplies stocked up.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Make that man your friend lol. He probably has a wealth of knowledge and wisdom on this kind of thing. All my grandparents are kinda like that. My abuelo was a child soldier in the Salvadoran Civil War and he is one man I want on my team in an emergency. Think Daniel in Fear the Walking Dead but irl
lilith_-_-@reddit
Hell yeah you’re absolutely right. Man’s could have my fucking body and I’ll be his slave it worker if he wanted as long as he kept me around lol. But yeah naw I plan on kinda watching the show on my own and probably offing myself depending on the situation. I had 3-4 days of food stockpiled and I had to dip into it to eat lately so yeah :/ not a great outlook for myself but I’m happy to know some folks that will probably be just fine and I’m rooting for them. I don’t want to be a parasite I’m already a financial one being disabled
smellswhenwet@reddit
Talk to neighbors about disaster preparedness. Start your community now and then you’ll have people to help you if stuff goes sideways
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Don’t be so hard on yourself. You prepared for an emergency and when a financial emergency hit, you were able to handle it. That’s what we do this for. Just keep working and getting your finances right and the preps will come. You got this!
lilith_-_-@reddit
Thank you, and they slowly do. I only work 15.5 hours a week but i slowly add things up. Thank you again
Oldebookworm@reddit
Yeah, my “preps” aren’t actually for a pandemic or civil unrest, necessarily. I’ve been hungry and don’t plan on going there again. And it’s a good thing because my paycheck has been cut by 400 a month and my stockpile will see us through until I can make a course correction.
thefedfox64@reddit
I'd say the same about any budget. We can always find something to cut back on, but at some point that ain't living. That's something else. If you'd skip just buying x every year, you could take your family on vacation. Or you could stock up for them, or you could sell and downsize your house and be off the grid. Or retire early. I will say, about rice and beans, it ain't all that, and you'll get scurvy by month 2 if that's all you are eating.
AggravatingMark1367@reddit
Scurvy is pretty avoidable if you know what wild plants are edible and in season (many have lots of Vitamin C and are widespread)
Rice and beans can be supplemented
thefedfox64@reddit
100%, but you gotta do more than say "rice and beans" as if that's all one needs. You could grow fruit trees, even herbs can help prevent it.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Haha we’re Latino homie we already eat rice and beans every day 😂 no I do agree, there needs to be a balance. Take vacations, take the wife to that restaurant she’s been eyeing, all that jazz. Also have savings account, have a retirement account, have a firearm and have a food stash in case you need it.
KarlMarxButVegan@reddit
I live in an area with hurricanes. My specific town was severely damaged by back to back hurricanes in 2004. My parents went without power for two weeks and many went longer than that. Very few people here are prepared. When a hurricane is on the way, you can find people pumping gas into plastic Publix bags. I'm not even joking.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
That sounds… unsafe tbh…
KarlMarxButVegan@reddit
It's not very effective either 😆
EscapeCharming2624@reddit
I doubt for most people it's a money thing. The "meh" says it all. I just do what I want and don't talk about it. We live in a rural area and go to town once a week, so I just try to add a bit at a time. Once in awhile to Costco. I wonder sometimes if the denial is something to do with people who are highly social. I have in-laws who just cannot stand to be home alone and insist on visiting when sick.
XFiles93@reddit
Honestly, people don’t realize how understaffed emergency services are relative to population size. If trucking/shipping halts for just 2 weeks most major institutions, including hospitals and food services fail. Americans don’t realize just how fragile it all is. We are not good at taking no for an answer. We throw tantrums and get what we want, or we pay a fee and get what we want, we threaten others and get what we want. Life can’t be manipulated that way, Americans don’t get it. The toilet paper and flour scarcity of 2020 is looked back on as a novelty. People don’t want to get it because the truth is too overwhelming.
Look how ugly people get during rush hour traffic or mall traffic during the holidays. Prepare yourselves for how nasty and desperate people will get when shit really hits the fan.
Wutsalane@reddit
Really just 2 years after Covid and people don’t know hospitals are understaffed? That’s been a large talking point for years noe
XFiles93@reddit
I’m referring to all emergency services. Take a CERT class.
AnHistorical4219@reddit
Now throw in living on an island in the middle of the Pacific where the barge only comes twice a week and provides 85% of the food...
crazyredtomato@reddit
Money is not the only factor. Sometimes burying your head in the sand is more comfortable than being aware of risks. And preparing for something also makes it more real. Maybe they don't want to because it then seems like a real possibility.
"It's probably not that bad," "it won't happen to me," or "it will last my time."
It's human to (want to) suppress negative experiences. So they "want" to forget them and therefore don't want to take future measures.
You need a certain situational awareness to look a bit further ahead.
TrickyInteraction778@reddit
This. A $1400 mechanic bill just set me back months.
lilith_-_-@reddit
I can’t even afford mechanic work. I have to do it myself and I’m fucking disabled working 15 hours a week :/. It kills me to do it and I usually need some help(muscles for hard painful stuff) but like yeah. My cat(and love of my life) almost got put down recently because I only had 400$. I was luckily provided money by my father.
030708@reddit
The dollar sign goes in front of the value, like this: $500
lilith_-_-@reddit
https://youtu.be/E2kJtIIYmXc?si=riRI7h5pwXDubixZ
030708@reddit
Yeah I'm not clinking any links.
lilith_-_-@reddit
Ron Swanson “I do what I want” reference
030708@reddit
I don't watch TV.
lilith_-_-@reddit
Same. I just saw it on here as a meme
TomSmith113@reddit
This. I budget as much as possible into prepping, but that amounts to about $100 on a good month, and that's living in a dual income apartment in the kinda crappy part of town. 50 years ago, a blue-collar worker like myself could afford a house, 3 kids, 2 cars, and maybe a vacation once or twice a year. Now? My wife and I both work full time just to barely scrape by on our two bedroom apartment with one 20 year old junker car between us.
The_Darkprofit@reddit
Don’t forget that you were describing a US worker during a post war boom. There weren’t many places in the world 50 years ago that you could get a 3/2 with some land in a safe area and raise a family on a laborers paycheck.
TomSmith113@reddit
Irrelevant. The U.S. has been either at war or in a post-war leading into a new area for its entire history. The U.S. has been at war for 93% of its history, at peace for only. This country is and always has been in a perpetual state of war/post-war periods, and today is no exception.
The problem is, (at the simplest possible level,) For U.S. citizens: late stage Capitalism For the rest of the world: U.S. Imperialism
The_Darkprofit@reddit
You need to be able to do some deeper thinking before you can mark irrelevant the greatest period of modern prosperity and government subsidized growth and development the world had seen to that point. That’s what everyone refers to as the post war (WW2) boom and to not understand that is a fault of your education.
TomSmith113@reddit
You seem to be mossing the point, so let me make it more explcit. The cause of prosperity 50 years ago is irrelevant, not that the effect of the post-war boom itself was irrelevant.
It is completely irrelevant "why" 50 years ago, a blue collar worker could have "the American dream" and can barely scrape by on two income now, what matters is that that is the case.
I'd have thought that was quite clear given the context of my original post. Apparently not.
Maybe it's not that my position needs deeper thought, but that your reading comprehension needs improvement? Food for thought.
bangedyourmoms@reddit
It's not going to be survival of the fittest, it will be non-survival for the least fit.
Venusdoom666@reddit
Survival of the fittest.truer words have never been spoken. All the fittest are locked up in jails. Wait till the power grid completely fails…
Adol214@reddit
I love how they don't have cash for 10 bag of rice, but have guns, shotgun and assault weapon.
donnieCRAW@reddit
I have guns...and six months of food for the family. I'm a little lacking on the nuclear bunker thing, but I guess I'll just take "muh assault weapon" (BTW, is that the one with the front thing that goes down or the back thing that goes up?) and take all of my neighbors stuff. But wait, just a moment, he has ASSAULT WEAPONS (I think the ones with the front things that go down). OK, I guess plan two is in order, you know, the one where I have to provide for myself.
Maybe you should get rid of that broad brush you're painting with.
TheMorningDove@reddit
And you’re basing this off of what exactly? Your feelings? What is the difference between a “gun” and an “assault weapon”? Do you believe everything leftist news feeds you?
Everyone I know who is into firearms also has some prepping skills and supplies. I have personally found that firearm owners are much more likely to be preppers than non-firearm owners.
I believe it has to do with accurate and realistic assessments of risk. Virtually no one carries a pistol everyday with the mentality that they will need it. You carry because in the very rare situation where you need to use a firearm you will likely be saving your own life and the lives of your family/friends. Prepping is the same, I don’t store a ton of clean water thinking our water supply is going to shut down tomorrow, but in the rare case it does I want to save myself and my family/friends.
Guns are not the enemy and trying vilify gun owners or make them seem unprepared just shows your own ignorance and self-entitled arrogance.
ecouple2003@reddit
You're not from Texas, are you? Or, as Lyle Lovett said, "That's right, you're not from Texas."
I've had guns all my life. However, lots of people are under the impression that a gun makes them 7' tall and bulletproof. They have a place, but buying multiple guns may make someone believe they can just take what they want rather than prep ahead of time and that's a very dangerous mindset. For everyone.
Just my two cents.
TheMorningDove@reddit
But that's the thing, I am from Texas. I live and work in Dallas and I don't know a single person who believes that a firearm alone is going to get them through some sort of SHTF scenario. I don't hang out with gang bangers, but I also don't care if those people survive. Responsible Texans know what's up.
ecouple2003@reddit
DFW is a little more civilized than most of TX as is Austin, Houston is still a gamble, but there are people all over Texas that can't keep their kids in good clothes but have a couple of grand worth of guns and always looking for more. Guns, both reported and not, flourish in Texas and unfortunately not for the better of the public.
As I said, I'm fine with responsible gun ownership and control but they're not the be all and end all of prepping. Just a part.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
You said nothing incorrect. Guns shouldn’t be the staple prep, but the odds of you needing to defend yourself are equal to or higher than a nuclear attack or extinction level pandemic
Jazzlike_Emu8178@reddit
If shits hit the fan, military will take over government, ressources and facilities that produce those ressources.
Big-Preference-2331@reddit
This is true. I sell life insurance on the side and can't believe how many people are living on very tight budgets. In some cases at deficits.
No_Reporter_5023@reddit
Because at no time in our history have we ever had to be prepared. Other than a few localized natural disasters it’s never been necessary. It’s smart and I am moderately prepared for power outages or the like. But not since the depression or ww2 have we ever not had food water fuel and the rule of law.
It’s human nature. My basement never flooded and then one year the rains came hard and my eavtroughs weren’t right my sump pump failed the grade of the soil around my house was horrible it was just complacency. Since then me and most of the neighbours are out there cleaning gutters testing the sumps etc.
Its easy to be ready for what we deal with day to day year to year but to prepare for something that no one alive has had to be prepared for it’s understandable
SirDankOfDankenshire@reddit
I'm poor that's why
hotmama-45@reddit
Yeah....Covid was a breeze to walk through... I applied for unemployment in May of 2020...because of Trumps "$600 bonus", I was making $1000/week for several weeks. My grocery store had everything. The only things that were hard to find was vinegar, Clorox wipes, and alcohol pads. By the time May of 2021, I had paid off all my debts and had $50000 in my savings.
Covid was a walk in the park...wasn't stupid enough to get the vaccine so my health stayed in tact.
Yes, 2025 is going to be chaotic due to months of civil unrest...so everyone should have at least 2 weeks of water/food stocked up. Other than that, one will be fine. Being in a solid community is going to matter more than anything!!
Remarkable-Meal-1099@reddit
What's the most reasonable way to cook the rice with no power?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Well for short term, a rice cooker with a power bank, a propane or butane burner, or even a charcoal grill could work. That said in an extended SHTF scenario wood will be the most sustainable options. Back to the basics ya know
alt0077metal@reddit
Stop catastrophizing every little thing. It's not the end of the world. Covid wasn't the end of the world.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I agree it wasn’t a very deadly pandemic. It was a trial run. If you ran out of certain goods with a pandemic with a .7% mortality rate how do you think you will fair with a pandemic with a 10, 25, or 50% mortality like the bird flu has. I ran out of eggs, ground beef, and household cleaning products. So I learned the lesson and became a “prepper” by stocking up a 3 months supply of food, water, and cleaning products.
That said it certainly was a catastrophe. 1.5 million Americans were killed by COVID. That is more than the Civil War, WW1, WW2, and all of the top 10 deadliest wars in US history combined.
ClownCarrr@reddit
For my learning from COVID Long term living and doing so has continued to be important Think of what you'd really need and how just Any work in that direction is worthwhile . I've seen uncounted ppl spread across all the age decades that truly believe it's never going to happen and the Feds will handle it. Fools have been in all our clans forever, Noah had 'em and we do too. Family I believe suffers more though where most of my clan believe it's never going to and the few that have will accept those that haven't because we are family. Maybe I'm more blessed I'm alone now and my family's on the Northern West coast. I am planning on it all to go to hell and life with kerosene heat and lamps will be our normal Hopefully the terrorist mobs will gut the cities before comming this far out All you can do is seek Gods direction and stock up for the worst Oh and learn how to make your own bleach from powdered popl supplies.
ClownCarrr@reddit
Yup, join or volunteer once in a while at your local Community Hosp..and learn the reality of daily under staffing, call outs on the regular and the dire need of any hospital forced to take Medicare patients at the current 27-25% of the total bill imposed by our Fed. govt with the reality of you'll have to make it up via Surgeries yet your County hospital only has 2 surgerical rooms .
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Honest question, assuming you are in healthcare, ems, national guardsmen, etc, at what point do you say “fuck it my family comes first”? My wife is about to graduate nursing school and it’s a concern for us
ClownCarrr@reddit
in my heart your Family come only ever 2nd to God's will, leading after you've confirmed it. Helps if your wife, forever date mate, is a believer too but not necessary.Family, per God, IS your main thing and now's not too late to do so. We all get a fresh start every day. After working in our county hospital for these past 11 yrs, there's ( ALWAYS) more than enough work even if you managed to pull two 8 hr shifts . Do it now, putting your Family first I meant After 11 yrs here it's more than what's not replaceable when it's gone . Yes, I'm speaking from experience and the gift of being married to my best friend, for these past 33 yrs. And am adjusting to her passing 15 mos ago. I'm happy to still have a career there, welcomed to work till I die and for the social I may. Income helps too. I hope you Do put them first as everything else important (WILL) adjust. May you both live far into your 90s and enjoy living in Family first
DefyTheOdds_80@reddit
I'm a single Mom of two teenage boys and I WANT to prep now that we are in our new home. We have no friends or family as we are 3k miles away from my Mom and my kids Dad for good reason. My biggest barrier to preparing is my youngest son feeling so much anxiety and talking about self harm when he hears me and my oldest son arguing with me. We argue because he refuses to keep things organized. He is impulsive and bored and who the hell knows why but with a kitchen with food, he goes and raids what little is left of food for prep! I'm so frustrated with my situation because I grew up in S. FL. We were always prepared given the hurricanes. I brought up the vaccine mandate in conversation in the car and my oldest said " you are still stuck on that?!" I don't get it!!! He knows better! He's the biggest and strongest in the house and he is the joker. The youngest and I stress while he feels bad about his actions but he doesn't change. This is just a single Mom who is homeschooling and raising men to the best of my ability but without having the physical presence of a man in the house or or lives. I just can't get through to them without inducing more arguments and anxiety. Frustrating is an understatement.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Wow that is tough, I’m glad to hear you are making it happen to the best of your ability. You sound like one tough mama! In regards to prepping food and water, maybe it’d be better to prep raw ingredients that make inconvenient/shitty snacks? Like no kid wants to crack open a #10 can of plain white rice or black beans but they’d absolutely tear up a case of chef boyardee or fruit snacks. Not to mention it is cheaper. Could that be a better prepping option?
DefyTheOdds_80@reddit
I'm working on it. This house has a lot of deferred maintenance and I'm managing our new health challenges with going animal based and eliminating pasta and bread. It is insanely expensive but this is what we need to do right now. I'd like to buy half or quarter of a cow for us and as prep but I have lost food due to a power outage before. This means I need to make jerky and canned meat and at this moment - I can't keep up with daily meals. They help, they are good kids. They are just teenagers who are on extremes opposites with prep and I haven't found a way to manage either. Parenting teens is already a moving target. There's so much I did in 2020 but then we went through several moves and now that we've been in the home for a year. We are getting our health and my mental health improved. But I just feel like I'm out of time and unable to discuss things with my own kids which is insane to me! They are well behaved but there is that missing element of healthy fear that I can't provide. I am just going to keep doing what I can every day. This house has a bunker area of all things. However, we are testing positive for mold toxicity and it may require all new flooring which is not related to the amount of deferred maintenance. I can't start on organizing any area as everything needs work and now I need to wait for the next step from our Dr which is for the house to be tested for mold. We need a miracle but at the same time, it is a miracle we are this far. I mean I have sheltered them from so much. We left every summer of hurricanes in FL. We don't watch TV so the entire two year lockdown they were in our yard and we were doing our normal things. I took up drinking in the evenings and now the new challenge is communicating with an overly sensitive teenager and a know it all jock type teen. Thank you for letting me vent. We will make sure to figure out something soon. I mean yesterday was late -soon! 😋🙏🏻
ImJeannette@reddit
Also, I hear how overwhelmed you are. My opinion doesn’t matter. But, for whatever it’s worth, keep up the great work! I am super proud of your efforts and accomplishments.
ImJeannette@reddit
If you can, prioritize buying a power bank and solar panels. Most power banks can be charged off your wall socket. And, if you do some research, you could buy one that is big enough to power your deep freeze/fridge during emergencies. The solar panels can help you keep them charged up while the power is out. Power banks can be expensive but with a bit of planning you can have backup power.
InstructionAlive1220@reddit
Safety fridigity I guess. Not just in big disasters but small things like a loose cupboard or a spare umbrella at work/school etc
(My parents did not care about the loose cupboard. It fell on me btw)
AZ2986@reddit
Covid was a wake up call. Even a small snow storm where I live is a wake up call. It's amazing how quickly people realize they are unprepared for anything and clear the store shelves. During the poor air quality from wildfire smoke last year, air purifiers sold out in less than an hour after the air became smokey where I live.
FenceSitterofLegend@reddit
They lived through covid and figure they can survive any pandemic.
False. Covid was a nood level difficulty pandemic.
Dumo_99@reddit
Ya live n ya die man.
Previous_Zebra_9802@reddit
And speaking of the SHTF… what about when, NOT IF the banks fail. It is written
Goongala22@reddit
For a SHTF situation, I’ve invested in supplies and bullets. Because if people come to take gold, all they’ll get is lead.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Imma feel like a damn fool investing in my 401k instead of gold and silver lol. For real though I should pick up a few silver pieces and have maybe 2k in cash.
ClownCarrr@reddit
how will 3 mos workout well thinking back on our COVID lockdowns and how to took over 18mos to get basics? Any reason you're not planning on a much longer prep period?
Previous_Zebra_9802@reddit
I get the same reaction. They don’t want to hear it, even when I mention the grids going down, and to be real we can’t trust the nations who hate us, I’ve been prepping for years. Sterno spam, rice beans, water…That’s a big one.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Yeah these conversations made me realize… I don’t have anyway to heat my food if the power goes out. I have been so used to gas I forgot my new house is all electric. I gotta get a Coleman
Big-Preference-2331@reddit
I think some people are living in their own SHTF right now. Inflation is suffocating a lot of people. Did they prepare for it? No. Nobody came on the news and said “we are in a national emergency. Everybody stop spending money and start saving for the future.” Instead everybody is trying to act like everything is fine.
Main-Engineering4445@reddit
I was just telling my wife that I look around and feel like I’m taking crazy pills. Why are people still eating out and going to do things? It’s so fucking expensive but people just keep going. We’ve completely cut out going out unless it’s for an occasion.
obviousoddball@reddit
"Most people don't believe something can happen.... Until it does."
After Covid, I learned my lesson. Not even prepping for "the end of the world" but just preparing for a job loss etc. If people don't see how fragile the supply chain/system is by now, it's simply because they don't want to. I know, understand, and respect the fact that times are very difficult for a lot of people, including myself but it doesn't take a whole lot to buy ONE can of soup or ONE roll of paper towels or any other basic household every now and then when you go to the store, then put it away in your "emergency stash." Those very same item's that people lost their shit over during covid and were quite literally willing to do harm to get.
Frequent-Youth-9192@reddit
We absolutely did not fucking "luck out" on Covid, wtAf?. The World Health Network just issued a PSA about Covid causing AIDS, which we've known for over 4 years. Yeah, Covid causes fucking AIDS bro. And the version from Covid is faster and more aggressive than the one from HIV. Its still killing millions, just less so on the acute infection and over the years following it. Children are developing diabetes, young people are getting diagnosed with full blown dementia, Parkinsons, accelerated cancers, dropping dead from blood clots and pulmonary embolisms. Yeah, turns out Covid is actually a chronic infection seeded deep in our bone marrow, organs, tissues, even in our bones.
I suggest you catch up all that you missed cause you clearly have not being paying any attention or keeping up with any data on Covid and have no idea that we're still in a massive ongoing pandemic that has only been getting worse.
I would much rather die from an extremely deadly bird flu on the first round than live with Chronic Covid. Thats a much quicker, easier way to go out. Long Covid is fucking torture.
smellswhenwet@reddit
I also believe it’s Normalcy Bias. The belief that things will continue as they have been.
Led_Zeppole_73@reddit
Covid never really affected anyone in my family, except for the TP issue, which wasn‘t a big concern for us at any point and shelves never went bare. If anything, it was the mass hysteria that was the hardest to deal with.
midtier_gardener@reddit
Same. Gonna admit that I was caught up in it too, as I saw the clips of ppl dead people in other countries on the news. I'm not prepping as much for the bird flu or mpox because I honestly don't think it's that big of a deal. Maybe I'm wrong.
I have the essentials and able to bug in for a long time, as long as electricity holds.
Resident-Welcome3901@reddit
Its interesting. The stats indicate that the USA had 103 million cases of Covid, and 1.9 million deaths, highest national numbers in the world, compared to .4 million Americans killed in WW2. And it wasn’t really a big deal. Maybe because the people were mostly older and sicker. Taught us that epidemics are only really problem if the toilet tissue runs out. We have pretty fucked up priorities, do we not? Maybe the next epidemic will target children, or hot chicks, and we will reach different conclusions .
midtier_gardener@reddit
I don't live in the US, almost no one died of Covid19 here. Died WITH, yes, but not died of. Absolute majority of those who died had at least 1 comorbidity like advance age or vascular disease.
Resident-Welcome3901@reddit
So if someone has a comorbidity, it doesn’t matter what finished them off. Killing someone with a comorbidity shouldn’t be a crime, because they were going to die anyway. Well, gardener baby, we are all going to die anyway, so maybe we shouldn’t discourage people from killing on another, or bother treating disease: we are all going to end up In a maggot’s belly anyway.
midtier_gardener@reddit
But how does me prepping or not prepping affect their chances of getting or dying of covid?
ObscureSaint@reddit
Oh, ok, I see where you're coming from! Makes sense. Disabled, old or sick people don't count. Got it.
midtier_gardener@reddit
Oh please ofc they matter. What does that have to do with me prepping for mpox, birdflu or covid?
Nothing I could have done could have affected or not affected their chances of getting covid.
WombatCombat69@reddit
Not sure where that guy got his data but the CDC website says since 2020 there was rougly 1.2 million deaths. If the cases that were confirmed were the number he said then you need to add in all the non confirmed cases and the mortality rate is less than 1%. The shutdown was worse than the actual virus. I dont know a single person who died of COVID personally.
Jetpack_Attack@reddit
I thought I could have a higher chance to get COVID/die due to being somewhat obese so the threat to my life really got me exercising in a converted fashion for the first time in my life.
Still do, even if the frequency isn't as often now.
J701PR4@reddit
Where we live the toilet paper thing was an absolute crisis. It was nuts; people were shoving and yelling at each other over a pack of four rolls of off brand TP that felt like it was made of sandpaper.
I now keep four boxes with 48 rolls apiece all the damn time. Never again!
Jetpack_Attack@reddit
Hilarious they went after TP here but not the wet wipes.
Converted me.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
For real! And the riots were in my city so it was a crazy time for me. Couldn’t find any ground beef or eggs for weeks either.
WombatCombat69@reddit
Riots? Where was there riots for that stuff?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I don’t wanna dox myself but every major city in SoCal burned
WombatCombat69@reddit
No problem, I just don't remember any riots where stuff was burned down other than the George Floyd one. Mostly just protests about lockdowns, vaccines and masks
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Oh yeah I’m talking about the George Floyd and the Kenosha one that sparked riots across the country. It was crazy
Led_Zeppole_73@reddit
Completely the opposite here. Got a half dozen eggs from the backyard every day, two chest freezers one loaded with local grass fed beef, the other with garden veggies. Very quiet out here and the best was when I was one of the very few on the road in the city. Surreal.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I hear that it was really weird how the dynamic changed in my family. It went from me warning them to stock up and that it was coming, then after 3 months I looked at the data and was pretty much like “we are safe guys” and they were still freaking out.
Eredani@reddit
How are people so unprepared? Same way people are buried in credit card debt or student loans. Same way substance abuse is out of control. Same way so many marriages end in divorce. Same way we have an insane number of people in prison.
Most people are not very good at risk assessment, critical thinking, or strategic planning. The average person is kind of a fuck up. I've had my share of fuck ups buy I've learned from them.
/braces for all the downvotes
BeautifulTypos@reddit
Also, a lot of people would rather spend their precious little freetime and cash having fun, being social, and not thinking about the 'End' of things. People are stretched very thin as is, quite possibly by design but who can say.
grubslam@reddit
Emergency kit not needed, earthquake kit not needed, fantasy where death is quick, being crushed in building collapse is preferable to stockpiling. Plans are hard apparently and the more normal is it right now, the more resistance to anything cRaZy
CypherCake@reddit
It's like people who say they'll off themselves if they get terminal cancer or a dementia diagnosis.
grubslam@reddit
Zoikes!!
DesertPrincess5@reddit
And I was just going to call AAA today to renew Earthquake insurance lol. I had lots of TP stores when panic hit last time, just would buy when finding a sale whether I needed it or not. Just keep calm, but aittle extra now if possible.
sheeprancher594@reddit
If an earthquake hits, surround yourself with tp
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
In the family conspiracy theorist for some reason even though I was 100% correct about COVID back in December 2019 and found myself dishing out my N95s. Some ppl just can’t read the writing on the wall
armacitis@reddit
You know the difference between a conspiracy theorist and the only guy in the room paying attention to what's going on? About 6 months and occasionally a Freedom of Information Act request.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Literally all the shit you’d be banned on YouTube and FB for saying in 2020 is openly reported on in 2024 by CNN. I hate it here sometimes
Background_Wear_1074@reddit
Herd mentality is a very powerful force, the desire to belong to a group, an ideology or religion. People will choose their ideology over common sense, proven facts or science. Ever try to argue with a devoutly religious person or a MAGA devotee? They're all cults. My wife was born in a religious male dominant cult. Fortunately, her mother took her and her 9 siblings out of that community when she was 7 years old but her father mostly raised the older boys. Her father, mother-in-law, aunt and uncle all died of covid within one year because they refused to get vaccinated and believed all the crazy conspiracy theories about covid. None on my wife's older siblings will get vaccines of any kind still to this day even after all the deaths in their family. So, I sympathize with those who are frustrated by their friends and family who refuse to prepare for adversity. But, like the saying goes, "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink".
Taway197569@reddit
If you think those are cult like, you should try arguing with a leftist sometime, they take the cake.
Background_Wear_1074@reddit
I can always identify a cult member (or a person with the potential to become a cult member), not by their political leanings or their ideology or their religion but by the ferocity of their defense upon sensing an attack on any tenant of their beliefs, no matter how minor. This is because a cult is built upon false hoods that can't be defended by logic or facts. It is like a house of cards. If one card (or belief) is attacked and found to be untrue the whole system of beliefs becomes suspect and their unity is endangered. If their unity fails then their sense of belonging is devoid of meaning because there is no longer a coherent group to belong too. They become naked to the eyes of truth.
Taway197569@reddit
Look at this wall of cope....talk about ferocity of defense upon sensing an attack. Nice projection though. The hypocrisy and disconnect is very strong, 10/10
Background_Wear_1074@reddit
I rest my case.
KB9AZZ@reddit
Your reason aside, to me it makes sense that everyone should have enough provisions for at least two weeks and probably two months. Having a small buffer in your pantry is not crazy it's smart. Anything can happen not just a pandemic and you may not be able to just go to the store. Furthermore your digital money locked up on your plastic card may also be useless. This can happen from a loss of infrastructure, or the banks/government may just decide you don't get to spend your money.
A relatively small amount of dry goods and canned goods will last you a long time. Having some cash is helpful, gold and silver too. Silver coins at $20-$30 each are great trading/bartering tools. Other items will work too.
PeacePufferPipe@reddit
It only takes an additional $5.00 per grocery trip to buy a big bag of dried beans or rice. After a very short while you're going to have enough servings to feed a family of 4 for 3 months and it'll all fit in the size of one upper kitchen cabinet. I did just that until devoting an entire closet with restaurant style wire racks for a proper food pantry. It amazes me how people complain they don't have money to buy food preps. They're probably out buying fast food, cigarettes or vapes and alcohol too.
franky290@reddit
I tried to tell my parents to stack up
I've been slowly stocking up myself. I could have bought more I've been focused on paying extra on the principle of my condo to pay off quicker.
So far I've been slowly stacking up everytime I get paid
Here's the list I have 28 canned chunk chicken breast 20 canned sardines 5 canned ravioli 11 canned black beans 10 canned green peas 8 canned fruit cocktail 4 canned pork and beans 8 canned of crushed tomatoes 3 canned of pineapple chunk 12lbs of rolled oats 5lbs of Peanut butter 40lbs of jasmine rice 20lbs of pinto beans 5lbs of popcorn kernels
3 can openers manual 100 paper plates 96 of plastic spoons 40 plastic forks 40 paper cups 16 plastic cups 9 boxes of baking soda
50 rolls of toilet paper
I'm going to order water containers and buckets to soon. I just don't know which containers to choose yet.
Im stuck on choosing which power generator to use for the condo. I'm trying to make space, but my place is not big
actualsysadmin@reddit
If storing fuel is hard you can go with a solar powered battery. Get a watt reader and do some math.
I use a Honda 2200 for a fridge, freezer, large window AC, and TV.
franky290@reddit
Planning to get the reader. Not sure which water container to choose. Don't want it to leak
actualsysadmin@reddit
You gotta be careful in a condo with how much weight you are putting per square foot. When I lived in apartments I just stashed cases of water around the place, stayed in a place with a pool ideally, and had a water BOB for the tub. I never actually used the BOB, because reusing them is near impossible.
franky290@reddit
Can't bob be puncture that easily? How much to spend for water containers?
actualsysadmin@reddit
Yes it can puncture easily. It’s not intended to be moved from your bathtub.
Harder water containers can cost a lot. I keep bottled water, ways to filter water, and I am renting a home with a pool.
I think the most cost effective way to store bulk water is an IBC tote but 275 gallons of water at 8lbs/gallon can get heavy.
franky290@reddit
Yea I don't think I can fit the ibc at my condo. Especially HOA would see it and complain.
I would have chose aqua tainer. But I heard it can leak
BatemansChainsaw@reddit
Don't stack the aquatainer on top of each other and you'll be fine.
franky290@reddit
Very well
actualsysadmin@reddit
Have you considered just getting one of those water buckets like you see people filling at the store? The drinking water containers. They are 5 gallons and you don’t need a machine to get the water out, just gravity.
wpbth@reddit
Covid wasn’t bad. The media said it was but I’ve been to places that don’t have drinkable water on normal days.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Idk for me it was pretty rough. No toilet paper, eggs, ground beef, hand sanitizer, or cleaning supplies for weeks and the riots didn’t help either. I’ve since gotten tf out of Cali so that probably does change things and my family didn’t experience that. Definitely plays a part in their thinking it wasn’t “that bad” but for some of us it was a genuinely concerning time.
wpbth@reddit
Fair points. I didn’t have any of those issues, but I thought something was going on in China early due to work. The riots “march” in front of my house and did try to destroy the target, Best Buy and other retail stores that were 1 block away from me.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Yeah for me the riots were crazy. Ppl throwing bricks at passing cars (some old lady almost died from this), brawling in the streets with cops. I remember watching an Instagram live of someone at the riots and seeing the cops start shooting rubber bullets and tear gas, then 1 second later hearing the shots in real life. Idk if traumatized is the right word but it definitely left an impression on me.
wpbth@reddit
Yeah none of that shit bothered me. What are you going to do when it’s right in front of you
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Well I hunkered down in our pad, closed the doors, monitored the situation, and had my rifle loaded. Police were next to useless for me. I drove to work out of uniform (I was in the military at the time) as not to make myself a target, and carried a pistol with me. As long as ppl left me alone (which thankfully they did) I would leave them alone. If someone started throwing molotovs at my house or something crazy I’d meet deadly force with deadly force. Same concept for if a group swarmed my car or something. It was a scary time.
jackknife402@reddit
I think most of the riots were because of the race war going on at the time.
l1thiumion@reddit
"Subject to constant stimuli, one becomes numb."
Jetpack_Attack@reddit
Comfortably numb even.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
This is what the comment section is showing me. A lot of ppl are saying COVID wasn’t bad at all for them, but for me in inner city SoCal it was a really scary time. The riots, food shortages, it wasn’t like an apocalypse but it was real and tangibly affected our lives.
l1thiumion@reddit
I'm seeing a lot of comments from people with a very small world view. In 2020 alone, the US government printed $3 trillion, or one fifth of all dollars in circulation, to keep monetary velocity in the economy. We're still seeing the effects of this today with inflation, interest rates over 6%, and groceries at double the price of what they were before.
Taway197569@reddit
I wish more people could truly grasp what the central banking system does and its ramifications and its ultimate end game. Its like trying to explain it to a rock whenever i talk to most people about it.
actualsysadmin@reddit
It’s not terrible when you look at the micro level, but the macro level it’s hugeee
xXJA88AXx@reddit
2 words... Normalcy Bias. Yesterday and the day before that, the same. So today and tomorrow will be the same. No thought would indicate otherwise.
sheeprancher594@reddit
Had to scroll down too far to find this. Didn't want to duplicate an answer, but this is it. The mind boggling part is most people learned nothing during the coof.
xXJA88AXx@reddit
Honestly, there is a "bug" that goes around about every 100 yrs. I already had masks (washable and reuseable) N99s. I learned from history.
Jetpack_Attack@reddit
My father gave me N95s at the start of COVID and then was somehow against them months later and criticized wearing the masks he gave me.
Super_Bat_8362@reddit
"Everything's fine today, that is our illusion." - Voltaire
throwRAsquirrel810@reddit
erm COVID is still bad
wortcrafter@reddit
I’ve got one relative who wouldn’t survive the grocery store being closed for 2 days. We ended up helping her out with a few things during COVID, but she was very good about resupplying us once the issues were resolved. I’ve accepted that she just doesn’t have the capacity to organise for herself (age is a factor).I’ve since redone my calculations for storage of consumables including her plus my family, because I know it will happen again.
Everyone else - I leave them to their own devices, and they can sort their own messes.
actualsysadmin@reddit
My first year I lived away from my parents I had to work thanksgiving and not spend it with my family. I realized everything was closed down to eat out and some of the grocery stores were still a nightmare.
I went to Walmart to buy some hot pockets and I couldn’t get to check out so I had to buy something from the jewelry dept so they would check me out, then I brought the watch back the next day. Meanwhile I’m starving because I worked a 12hr shift and hadn’t eaten all day.
That’s when I realized I needed to start keeping shelf stable foods around the house to prepare even if I hadn’t gone grocery shopping this week.
wortcrafter@reddit
I don’t talk about my preps to non-preppers, but anyone who asks, I will happily explain that you don’t need global SHTF for your preps to be useful. A small localised disaster or personal tragedy (like not being able to buy groceries because of a holiday 😁) could be when you need and appreciate your preps most.
normaninvader2@reddit
Someone blocked me online because I said I was slightly concerned over the Ukrainian Russia thing and how easy it would be for say a nuke or large attacks in Europe. Also said the political stuff in the US could turn into civil war as it seemed heated and that would affect us in Europe. Then 2 weeks later trump was nearly killed. All I said is it might be worth having some extra tinned food, provisions as this person lived in Iceland where everything is imported. Your going to eat the food anyway so why not have 3weeks worth of supplies.
HipHopGrandpa@reddit
You’re not wrong. Ukraine invading Russia now with U.S. & NATO weapons pushes things a bit closer towards the danger zone. I get why Ukraine is pushing back for bargaining chips. But it is a scary situation.
normaninvader2@reddit
I think it's natos doing, planning and helping. They'll probably sit tight and be waiting to see who gets elected in the states.
singlereadytomingle@reddit
Nukes are not what they say, filmed on model sets to fear monger everyone into compliance.
normaninvader2@reddit
Would it cause widespread panic if one went off. Absolutely.
pf_burner_acct@reddit
Like...a Russian attack on NATO? The probability of that is as near to zero as you can get. Russia is not engaged in conquest. They're resisting NATO expansion.
I've heard this, and I don't agree. I do not think we're anywhere near close to Americans shooting Americans in what most of us (probably) expect a civil war to look like.
appsecSme@reddit
That's absolutely BS take. They attacked a sovereign nation and have engaged in conquest.
Ukraine has the right to decide what alliance they want to join. It's not part of Russia. The NATO excuse doesn't fly.
pf_burner_acct@reddit
No, it's a fact.
Russia has been absolutely clear on their position concerning NATO expansion. We have every reason to think they're serious. They slapped us once by annexing Crimea. They slapped us again when we tried to make moves in Georgia. Now they're slapping us again in Ukraine by seizing the eastern third of the nation, which gets them their warm water port and land route to it before we finally integrate Ukraine into western economic and military infrastructure (which we will do).
Ukraine has every right to choose the direction for their nation. 100%. You are right, and even Putin agrees, as he's said as much. But Russia, and all other nations, can defend themselves. We were prepared to go ape over Cuba. What is happening in Ukraine is similar to the Cuban Crisis. NATO wants troops on the Russian doorstep. Russia has warned for nearly 20 years that such a move is a direct threat to Russia and that they would take action to prevent it, as they have twice already (Ukraine #1 and Georgia).
The notion that Russia is on an empire building spree is absolutely stupid. They are defending themselves from what they see as a hostile alliance encroaching on their borders, because that's what's happening.
Look at where they focus their military actions. It is into border nations that NATO has expressly stated will join NATO which will disrupt the status quo in the region and directly threaten Russia.
So, you're wrong.
appsecSme@reddit
They can be clear on their position, but the still do not have right to annex another nation (something they have done).
What you call "slapping" is in fact conquest. It doesn't matter that you euphemize it. Russia's "doorstep" is not in the sovereign nation of Ukraine.
They are not "defending themselves" by any means, just like we wouldn't be "defending ourselves" if we attacked Mexico for talking about allying with Cuba.
You are just re-stating and re-phrasing Russia's illegal, and immoral intentions as if that somehow makes it OK, or means they aren't engaging in conquest. None of that changes the reality of what they are doing and what they have done.
pf_burner_acct@reddit
You can believe anything you want. The facts are the facts.
This was forecasted in 2015, by the way. So, you know...you're wrong.
appsecSme@reddit
You are hilarious. All of your "facts" are Putin utterances about his beliefs.
I have presented actual facts on the matter.
And again someone forecasting that Putin would aggressively attempt conquest in Ukraine does not make it justified. At that point Putin had already annexed Crimea and South Ossetia, and regardless, the fact that Putin engaged in conquest after saying he'd engage in conquest doesn't justify it.
morgothra-1@reddit
You are a patient person, far more than I can manage with these creatures. Good on you.
pf_burner_acct@reddit
I don't think the prospect of nuclear war over strategically unimportant portions of Eastern Europe is hilarious. I think this is exactly what happens when you have pathetic western leadership.
The idea that this is anything but a gross failure of western foreign policy is idiotic. This is a massive strategic blunder on our end. Only China benefits.
Don't be stupid.
normaninvader2@reddit
Regarding nukes it would be suicidal but it would only take one misread sign as an attack for return fire to happen..even if it was a tactical Nuke the panic and pollution could cause run on banks or shops.
If there was a civil war in the states id see as states going independent and attacking each other, They are as big as countries in their own rite.
Led_Zeppole_73@reddit
I stock a lot of tinned food fir my family but we eat very little of it day to day. Insurance is all it is for me.
normaninvader2@reddit
Stock rotation for me. I like beans, corned beef, tuna, soups so if I eat some resupply. Nothing mad but I do live in an area with alot of natural resources and farms.
Led_Zeppole_73@reddit
That helps. I eat local beef, fish from our pond, wild game, backyard poultry, produce from the garden and we have several varieties of fruit trees, bushes and several kinds of nut trees.
nagini11111@reddit
If you want real answera to your question and not some circle jerk, you should ask your questions in different subs.
ToePasteTube@reddit
I's called natural selection
Slowlybutshelly@reddit
If the police in Gaza couldn’t help others being kidnapped; what are we all to do?
Slowlybutshelly@reddit
The fact that people keep eating birds and McDonald’s is beyond me:)
MeisterX@reddit
My wife is one of those "if you see them running, run" people when it comes to infectious disease.
She doesn't get too excited about most stuff bur does worry about COVID.
Wouldn't sweat too much on most diseases especially in short term. It's when something novel pops up with local human to human transmission.... That's when they hit the button.
Correct_Change_4612@reddit
I can’t afford to drop $100 on anything that isn’t directly related to my immediate survival or getting to work tomorrow
MaguroSushiPlease@reddit
I don’t think of it as dying. I think of it as leaving early to avoid the rush.
Open-Attention-8286@reddit
Normalcy bias. It's a documented phenomenon. Selco describes how in Bosnia, people got shot driving to work, because they couldn't process the fact that things were bad enough to skip going to the office. Even when they watched every car that drove onto a bridge get shot up, they still drove onto the same bridge after them, because they thought they still had to get to work.
BTW, I was thanking God when the mortality rate for covid dropped, even as the infection rate skyrocketed. When it first started showing up outside China, the mortality rate was higher than the recovery rate. By quite a lot! I kept calling difference between them the "Oh Shit Number", because every time it updated, my reaction was along the lines of ". . . . Oh shit!!!"
If covid had stayed as bad as it looked in January 2020, 90% of the people infected would have died. I had family making fun of me for overreacting. The same people who later claimed I wasn't taking it seriously enough. The same people who, I guarantee, will be making fun of me for overreacting when the next disaster strikes. Hell, these are the people who made fun of me for not wanting to go on a long drive, one day after a storm flooded half the roads in the area, and State Patrol was begging people to stay off the freaking roads!
Some people just can't adjust to things too far outside the norm.
Taway197569@reddit
I was so disappointed once i realized the mortality rate was a lie, and covid was in essence a scam and hyped up power mechanism for the governments to tighten the shackles farther. I was promised tens of millions dead by that first May
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
The EXACT same thing happened to me. I told my family about this in December 2019 when videos were coming out of people dropping dead on the subways. I stocked up (but I should have already been stocked and suffered for it) and my family said I was overreacting. Then by September 2020 I realized that the lethality for my demographic was negligible so I started going out. By this time my family was freaking out telling me I was going to die 🙄 all very reactionary but not very proactive
BradBeingProSocial@reddit
At 10% mortality, I’d be suspicious if grocery stores would still be open. Who would risk their life for $10-15 per hour?
actualsysadmin@reddit
Rent to the corporate overlords is still due
BradBeingProSocial@reddit
Debatable. Rents were suspended for a while last time
actualsysadmin@reddit
Just paused, they were still responsible for it. Like putting it in escrow.
Zopheus_@reddit
Many people are willingly oblivious. Years ago I came up on a car crash that just happened. A car hit a utility pole and broke the pole. The only thing keeping it suspended was the power lines. No one was critically injured and the driver and several bystanders were milling around the car. I tried repeatedly to get them to move from under the power lines that were only feet from overhead, dangling. No one would listen. Someone else had called 911 already but I also called the utility emergency number just to ensure they had someone on the way. … sometimes you just can’t help people when they’re determined to not be helped.
Taway197569@reddit
Dont interrupt/circumvent natural selection. We have been doing that for around 120 years now and its proven absolutely disastrous
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Standing around watching a power line that ready to fall on you is a perfect analogy for this. I think I’ll buy an extra case of rice and beans that I can divy out cause I don’t think I have the heart to tell them I can’t help them. But you’re right at the end of the day I can only do so much.
appsecSme@reddit
Don't Look Up!
Katherine_Tyler@reddit
Been through similar. A transformer exploded and caught on fire. Live wires were on the road. I could not get drivers to turn around and take a longer route.
workingMan9to5@reddit
Expendable cash and appropriate storage space are both necessities for prepping. They're also rather difficult for a lot of people to achieve and maintain. For most people, the plan is to live until you suddenly don't anymore. What difference does it make wjat kind of accident or disaster it is that finally takes you out, if you weren't really living to begin with?
avid-shtf@reddit
My wife told me to quit trying to bring my extended family onboard when it comes to basic preparedness. I warned them till I was blue in the face about getting prepared about Hurricane Beryl and I was ignored. They were without electricity for a week and drove all over Houston trying to find gas for their cars just to have some ac and charge their phones.
We all live on the gulf coast and know the dangers of hurricanes and they’re still unprepared. I also mentioned bird flu and monkeypox. They’re still not interested. I tried to get them to start small. I said get whatever you need to stay home for one week and build from there.
I feel like a huge portion of our population lives day to day. Someone in my wife’s family has to go to the grocery store if she decides to make dinner that day. Otherwise they go out to eat. Apparently these are the people fighting to get in line at the gas stations and throwing hands over the last four pack of one ply toilet paper.
thefedfox64@reddit
I'd say, prepping wise, the smartest and best choice is...not living in hurricane prone zones, in states with power grids worse than 2nd world countries. But that part of prep is overlooked, and instead people do what they can. Which is exactly what you are arguing against here. You want them to do what they can, and they are, which is failing in your eyes. In my eyes, just living in that shit hole of a state is failing. Live and let live
Katherine_Tyler@reddit
In my mind, the only way to deal with a hurricane is to get out of the way.
That being said, my husband and I live in an area not prone to hurricanes, tornados, earthquakes, drought, etc. However, I am very aware of the New Madrid fault. If that slips the way it did in the 1800's, I'd say the eastern 1/3 of the US will be shut down for months. (Think of all the bridges that cross the Mississippi. After a major quake from New Madrid, I would expect many of those bridges to be unusable for some time. Some possibly beyond repair.)
Taway197569@reddit
fingers crossed
thefedfox64@reddit
Yes, but that's not something you can prep for, unless you are owning a bridge lol
Katherine_Tyler@reddit
That is one reason I have about a three month food supply. With those bridges out, groceries, medications, etc, will quickly run out and then panic will set in.
I do understand not having enough money to buy extra. I am fortunate that in recent years we have been able to do this.
thefedfox64@reddit
Oh yes totally.
avid-shtf@reddit
Moving is my top choice. The grid is shit and hurricanes are getting worse. I’d move today if I were financially able to. Moving to another state, uprooting kids from school, and finding a new job take a huge financial toll compared to buying a couple cases of water, having a full tank of gas, and 10 lbs of rice and beans. Moving away is in our 5 year plan after the last kiddo graduates. Until then we’re making sure we’re as prepared as we can possibly be.
thefedfox64@reddit
Sure, but just like you have that situation, so do many others. That's why I'm saying about moving. You don't need to make the same money, you can tighten your belt. Kids can make new friends, etc etc. To me it's the same as "stop going out once a week" mentality. Lot of people don't want to sacrifice certain things. What's important to them is what they can control, usually. Don't be so quick to cast a shadow over prep
avid-shtf@reddit
Not really an apples to apples comparison but I see where you’re coming from. Moving out of the state, uprooting kids, finding new jobs (even jobs with a lower salary) vs. having a week’s worth of food and water is a significant difference.
My point is that society as a whole has become too comfortable and most aren’t even prepared for natural disasters, extended blackouts, or sudden unemployment. You don’t need to have an off grid super bunker with a year’s worth of food preps. Just enough to provide for your family within your means. Personally I make a trip to the dollar store once a month and spend $20-$40 to add to my stash. My extended family that I specifically mentioned is very well off compared to me and they have the financial means to at a minimum have a portable generator and a pantry full of non perishables. They choose not to and have the mindset that things will never get bad enough where they’ll need any preps of the sort. They choose vacations to South America and designer clothing. There’s a balance in life for everything. Taking care of your family in a stressful situation should take priority regardless of your circumstances.
Gold-Acanthisitta545@reddit
The issue is not prepping...the issue is they're gonna come to you to supplement after you forewarned them to do a basic hurricane prep and was ignored. They know better, the entire Gulf Coast knows better. Learning to "go without", as my Mother would say, is a lost art of sorts. We, as a whole, are overly spoiled in quality of life and have no clue of how bad it WILL get. Covid was a warm-up, and quite frankly, Houston will never get their act together. Just imagine the crime when ppl don't have fast food for 3 days and out of wipes/diapers and formula. It happens every single storm.
All I can say is, lock the door. It's only a matter of time and I'll be the first to absolutely NOT share my resources after I properly prepped for my family.
avid-shtf@reddit
Well said. I always imagine people on mood disorders that don’t have more than one month’s prescriptions available. The schizophrenic guy down the road, the person on antipsychotics keeping them in line. Even the father desperate to get his hands on some baby formula could be a potential threat. Some people break before others. Some are waiting to be let off the leash and act out sick and heinous behavior.
I’ve always said there’s a fine line between a functioning society and complete chaos.
thefedfox64@reddit
Fair point.
06210311200805012006@reddit
Bro, this. This 1000x. But anyway, there are shitloads of folks who lived through Katrina and don't even keep a gallon of fresh water handy. It boggles my mind.
actualsysadmin@reddit
The sewer water they walked through went to their brain
KAJ35070@reddit
I am with you on this entire concept. On topic but not family. Someone I do volunteer work was without power for 48 hours recently (storm related). No plans in place. They out ate the entire time, family of five, can't even imagine how much that cost, no effort to save any perishables. It was in the mid 80's, no battery operated fans. As she was telling me all this, I could not help but shake my head. Any prompting from me would not be well received I commiserated with her the best I could in the moment.
actualsysadmin@reddit
I mean, I’d probably just eat out too if it’s an option. Less work.
CypherCake@reddit
Some people have the disposable income for a few days like that, it's an adventure more than a problem. If she was crying about it but can't recruit a few braincells to figure out some backup plans, there's not much you can do or say to help.
Kiss_of_Cultural@reddit
Worry fatigue.
Covid never left, but less than 20% of the population still masks in public, largely individuals with preexisting conditions that put them at higher risk, but honestly the scientific studies on covid show its way worse than most people realize… but the gov and corps tell us to get back to normal and everyone is eager to feeeeel normal.
Fear is scary, so peope dont admit it. They dont face it and prepare.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it’s reasonable or necessary for people to be locked in there homes all the time for years straight and not go to vacations or restaurants. I just wish my family had a baseline level of awareness. Like they weren’t worried in 2019 when I told them about COVID, overly worried in 2021 and freaked out that I took my wife to a movie, and now are back to acting like a pandemic is a one time deal and nothing like this could never happen again (let alone still happening as you’ve pointed out). Genuinely don’t understand why some ppl are so reactionary
Zealousideal_One1722@reddit
We literally do not have an extra $100 to spend stocking up more stuff.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I hear that, I am sorry times are tough. At least you are here and it’s on your mind. I guess I am making this post more for people like my family who can afford a baseline level of preparedness and choose not to. I totally understand it’s expensive, I don’t have a ton of discretionary money, I’ve just been picking up a case of water here, a bag of rice here, etc over the years
mbcisme@reddit
What’s more than that, have you seen all the talk about the financial crisis that’s coming at the end of the year/the start of the new year?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
We are very clearly are headed into a serious recession (probably already are in one but they won’t say that during an election year). We have 2 first world powers currently at war with eachother, 2 other first world powers ready to go, 3 consecutive shitty American job reports, federal reserve doesn’t know whether to lower or raise interest rates, I mean it’s not looking too hot. The main “prep” rn is really to pay down high interest debt and have an emergency fund.
mbcisme@reddit
I’ll be honest, for me it’s have plenty of dry good, rice, beans, canned goods, etc while you still have the buying power to get what you want at the store.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Huh I hadn’t thought about that. Thanks for the insight! Yeah I think it’d be worth it to get a chest freezer next. I have all this rice and beans and spam and a few readywise buckets… but I don’t really eat that shit. Most of my diet is chicken and steak and broccoli. Like is it more likely the power grid fails or that I get laid off and can’t afford meat anymore? Or that the supply chain gets disrupted and certain produce is unavailable?
mbcisme@reddit
Idk where you live or if you even enjoy the flavor but we pretty well only eat deer. When we got married it was out of necessity, but then it became preferred and now it’s the only meat we do eat. Anyway, the point I’m trying to make is consider taking up hunting?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I’ve always wanted to go deer hunting and just haven’t gotten around to it. I have ARs and stuff but I just inherited my Great Grandpa’s old Springfield 1903 that he used for deer hunting and it still works great so this would be a good time to learn.
shutterblink1@reddit
I was in Brazil in July and got parrot flu. I was alone and don't speak Portuguese, and I'm 70. I came back with pneumonia and have been in the hospital. I had no idea burd flu is in the US but it is horrible. It has had me sick for 7 weeks and scarred ny lungs.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Wow I am so sorry, that’s scary. I really hope you feel better soon and praying for a swift recovery.
kyledukes@reddit
People are and always will be reactive and not proactive
Kostrom@reddit
Cost, mostly. I have a pretty decent go bad and some water, but I can’t really afford to “prep” like I want to. Also the house we rent isn’t big enough to store large amounts of food or anything
Imagirl48@reddit
Sometimes being very creative with space is helpful. I live in an 800 square foot house so have really looked at where and how to store items. I already used under my bed to store many items but an example of space you have but don’t think about is the box springs of your bed. They’re generally metal rails with 8-10” or so of space between the top and the bottom. I lined the bottom with luan (very thin plywood) and store long term food items there. I have to remove the mattress to access it so it’s not great for regular pantry items. It’s also hidden. No one sees it. For non renters: A regular can of food is 3” wide. I’ve taken an entire 8 x 10 ft wall and installed 1 x 4’s vertically along it with access points at the top, middle, and bottom. Put luan over entire surface for strength and then 1/4” sheetrock to paint back like the rest of the room. Access points look like decorative molding. I lost only about 4” of depth in the room but gained massive storage space for canned goods (I’m still stocking it) and it’s all hidden. It’s easy to access everything there and I can keep rotating my canned goods. I keep water stocked in my laundry room (in wine bottles) along with a few different water purification methods and am working on a DIY rain catchment system that accommodates three 55 gallon drums. The house also has a pull down attic door access. I keep the attic for storing non food items—toilet paper, paper towels and plates ,etc. Space can often be found with some extra thinking.
oxprep@reddit
Or they are prepared and they're just not telling you because that's OPSEC?
Adol214@reddit
Most never suffer real crises. And don't even know someone which did.
Anyone which live an economic collapse, civil war, etc does prepping without even calling themself prepper.
I knew a WWII survivor. She had 3 to 6 month of food, plus was almost self sustain in fresh stuff. She never mentioned potential war or prepping. That was just normal to have.
Today People take as granted too much. Instant delivery of any good, super market with thousand of variant of the same product. We live in age and time of opulence. Most assume this is normal and will always be. Most assume that any glitch Will be minor and short lasting.
Even here you see people which prep assuming internet and phone will be available no matter what.
People don't realize that no electricity mean no internet for example.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Yeah I’m seeing that in comment section how ppl say “COVID wasn’t bad”… like maybe for you? I was in an inner city in SoCal it was pretty rough for me and my family. No toilet paper, eggs, ground beef, or cleaning supplies for weeks. Rioters burning business down the street and fighting cops, attacking random ppl driving to work. It was a scary time. My family also has a lot of generational trauma, abuelo was in the Salvadoran Civil War and my great bubbe survived the pogroms. For some reason my parents got sheltered or forgot that this shit can happen.
sheeprancher594@reddit
I think a lot of areas of the country had empty shelves and shortages when the supply chain had issues. I also think a lot of people have very short memories and/or don't want to bother with their personal responsibility to be prepared, at least to some extent, with the resources they have.
cmiovino@reddit
3 months is actually a decently long time. I mean, thinking about it, that's like not exiting your house starting now until the beginning of December. Even for an intermediate person doing this a while, that's a bit of task in reality.
You can try suggesting 2 weeks to people. Maybe a month at most. 3 months is a quarter of a year and people can't fathom not going out once a week to eat.
With all that said, I don't try to get people on board. You just come off being some lunatic to most people. If they don't want to prep for anything, then they don't need to and you shouldn't be out suggesting it because they'll be running to you when anything actually does happen. Even if it's the COVID toilet paper squeeze and they know you have extra.
Also another suggest - I'm certainly not out looking for news and thus worrying about things. I obviously do get prepared myself and have things, but knowing about the 3 dairy farms in CA doesn't bother me. In fact, I didn't know and don't really care. If you care about all these little things like this, there's always something going on, and too much information. Just prepare for the worst and when something really does hit, you'll know. Don't go searching for things to worry about. It's not good for stress.
reddit_tothe_rescue@reddit
A case of rice and some TP is a pretty different level of prep than 3 months of household goods. Maybe some of your family hears you talk about the higher level of prep and thinks you’re talking about doomsday, when you actually want them to prep for Tuesday.
crazy-bisquit@reddit
This will be my new saying. ”Not for doomsday but for next Tuesday”
I keep telling people: “prepping is not for the zombie apocalypse. Think about how many times the power goes out, some places it’ll be out for three or four days and once in a while, it’s out for a week or more. Prepping for a disaster doesn’t have to be a huge disaster, but you should at least be ready for a week or two. It’s not that much and it doesn’t take up too much space.”
Then they get this look like a lightbulb went off on their head. So I feel like if we changed the narrative a little bit more people would prep more.
reddit_tothe_rescue@reddit
A) I’m just parroting the “doomsday vs Tuesday” thing people around here say a lot. I didn’t come up with that!
B) They wouldn’t admit it, but some people actually do appear to be prepping for a zombie apocalypse. You see people stockpiling ammunition and a year’s worth of food like the end of civilization is about to happen. Gives us rational peppers a bad name!
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
To be fair a 50lb bag of rice, 50lbs of beans, and a bulk case of TP is sufficient for 90 days. Not living amazing but it’ll do. But yeah I try and avoid the advance water filtration and nutritional advice. I just want them to keep it simple
Mountain-Status569@reddit
You remember how many people had their head in the sand during Covid? “Essential businesses” would never shut down in a bigger crisis because people would riot. I remember when Denver announced the liquor stores would shut down… response was so angry that the decision was officially reversed just 50 minutes later.
Even if 20% of our population was wiped out in a week, people would keep on keeping on because “I’m still fine though” and “this is all manufactured by (insert least favorite politician or corporation)”
gtzbr478@reddit
We’re still "during COVID"
Mountain-Status569@reddit
You know what I mean.
embryoeggnog@reddit
I am completely unprepared, only recently started looking into it and planning, I’m armed well enough but I’m have 0 supplies/rations
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Jump on it brother can’t eat bullets. I love my guns, the news might even label my collection an “arsenal” but COVID was a big gut check for me.
embryoeggnog@reddit
I plan on getting started once I get back home from this work trip
McShagg88@reddit
Lol. This sub is wild.
Flagstaff_infection@reddit
If I could use a biblical reference here, the story of Noah and the Ark comes to mind. During that time, God warned Noah that a global flood was coming. He instructed Noah and his family in how to build the Ark and prepare for the coming flood. At that time, Noah was distraught. He thought that surely he could save others. He begged and pleaded with the neighboring people to prepare and “save themselves”, but they didn’t listen. They only laughed and mocked him. I’m assuming most folks know the rest of the story.
It rained for 40 days and nights. Noah and family drifted around for like a year in the Ark before making landfall again. Anyway, my point is, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. All you can do is present facts to people and advise them to prepare in some way. If they don’t, well that’s on them.
There are countless other biblical examples about preparedness, by the way. It’s a good book and worth reading.
gtzbr478@reddit
The difficulties at the beginning of the pandemic weren’t that bad (some shortages, but most people could go to the grocery store) and it didn’t last very long when it was an issue. They don’t see a scenario where they’d need to rely on what they have home and not be able to get more for weeks or months.
MadRhetorik@reddit
A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky, dangerous animals and you know that. Couple that with the fact that most of the American population is 1-2 paychecks from total oblivion and you have a recipe for chaos should anything happen. Generally speaking people who are already into prepping tend to make sure they have money in their budget available to prep. Most Americans live in a bubble and are under the impression that this ball can’t stop rolling.
Spectres_N7@reddit
I would also believe that the majority of us would die from other issues before any real SHTF scenarios actually occur.
bassta@reddit
Covid just showed me how important is to stay cool, have money and know people. A relative of mine got bad, didn’t want to call ambulance, next day they had problems breathing but no available ambulance. I’ve paid private ( and very hard to find ) ambulance, paid for the best doctors. When he got into the hospital they gave us 50% chance to live through the night. I had to find expensive and hard to come by drugs for the hospital, because they were run out of. He lived, but couldn’t done it if it wasn’t for me and my wife - thinking clearly, solving problems and having enough money on hand to pay through.
No amount of guns or canned food would be any good in this situation.
SMB-1988@reddit
I’ve been watchingbird flu too. Mentioned it to my family and my mom‘s response was that it’s been around for years. She’s right. I remember it being a thing when I was a kid. I was in 4-H and not allowed to show chickens some years because it was coming through our state. I’m 35 now. It’s been around my entire life and probably long before that. Since Covid, the media has been hyping bird flu up, but it really has been around for a very long time. I still see it as a threat. I still watch and prep. But I understand why some people are not concerned at all.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Yeah it’s not something I am super worried about, but I wasn’t worried about SARs either. Ik a lot of people didn’t really see the affects of COVID but in my area in California COVID walloped us. It was rough so just the thought of that happening again but with a significantly higher mortality rate is concerning for sure
4Wonderwoman@reddit
Because bird flu has mutated and more types of mammals are getting it, humans are at an increased risk. My first career was as a Clinical Microbiologist.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Oh wow that’s crazy. I know cows have it. Is it being spread cow to cow? Would you say bird flu is a pretty significant threat?
4Wonderwoman@reddit
Not known yet how it is spreading among cows.
4Wonderwoman@reddit
“The H5N1 influenza virus currently infects large numbers of both wild birds and domestic poultry is influenza A (H5N1). This influenza A found in birds – commonly referred to as avian influenza – is a highly pathogenic strain in birds, which means it causes high rates of death when birds are infected. Avian influenza H5N1 virus has spilled over from just infecting birds into a wide variety of mammals. Since 1997, more than 900 human cases of influenza A (H5N1) that spilled over from birds have been reported in 23 countries, with more than half of these cases resulting in death. Symptoms have ranged from mild disease to severe or critical disease and death. Fortunately, we have not seen sustained human-to-human transmission.” From https://tephi.texas.gov/training/selected-outbreaks/avianinfluenza#:~:text=This%20is%20the%20first%20time,possibly%20infect%20humans%20more%20easily.
This article then covers the cows..,
WasteMenu78@reddit
It takes mental work to prepare and sometimes people would rather trick their minds into thinking everything will be okay so they don’t have to do that mental work. Ignorance is bliss sorta thing
4Wonderwoman@reddit
Well said
smeebjeeb@reddit
A lot of people, wrt COVID, are now "fool me once", which means their pendulum swings toward ignoring grand announcements of coming doom.
OldBayAllTheThings@reddit
Most people I have worked with and have known in my life don't even have 3 days of preps let alone 3 weeks or 3 months. People have been raised to rely on the system.
There have been 2 notable exceptions. Mormons, which see prepping as a moral necessity, and immigrants of many different varieties. Those that escaped from socialist/communist countries tend to stack the deepest, even if it's just basics like flour, beans, rice. etc. and they didn't even see it as prepping - just saw it as a cheap way to have cheap food on hand. All the ones I talked to basically said the same thing in different ways. 'Buy it when you see it, because you don't know when you'll be able to buy it again'...
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I don’t know which one of these Redditors downvoted your observation but I have noticed the same thing. Both my abuelos and bubbes fled communism and they do the same thing. Raise chickens, hunt, have dry packed goods and never throw out food.
OldBayAllTheThings@reddit
It's Reddit. I think people downvote posts just because they don't like what's being said, even if it's true, or not even the view of the person saying it.
eg I'll post I saw a thingamabob on sale at Costco. I'll get a downvote because someone doesn't like Costco, a downvote because someone doesn't like the thingamabob, a downvote from some dude that hates Capitalism and another from someone who hates 'big corporations'.... and 2 upvotes from people who like the thingamabob and will go buy it now it's on sale. :-p So, I end up with negative votes despite it being useful/helpful. :D
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Ah I see you’re probably right.
“I don’t like religion” downvotes
“I don’t like Mormons” downvotes
“I like communists and socialism” downvotes
“I don’t like immigrants” downvotes
“I enjoy missing the entire point of the comment” downvotes
HappyCamperDancer@reddit
My richest relatives are the least prepared. They have net worths of $3-5M and they are "meh" --they have maybe 3 days worth of food. Plenty of space and resources. Yes, I know the difference between how people can appear, how much you spend vs how much you earn and they are NOT paycheck to paycheck.
We have significantly less, but we do have resources and yet we have 4-5 months of food and 5-6 weeks of water. Plus we have a good emergency fund if we need to bug out.
Illustrious-Nose3100@reddit
Do we think the bird flu will become a major issue?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I don’t think so since it has been around for decades and never had a human to human spread. That said if it did jump to human to human it would absolutely devastating. Now do I think a pandemic that is more deadly than COVID and just as contagious is going to happen in our lifetimes? Yes I do especially in America.
America is so militarily dominant, the only meaningful way to fight America is with cyber or biological warfare. Not only that, there are over 8 billion people in the world now and exponentially growing. The opportunity for bird flu and other pathogens to mutate or pop up only grows exponentially as well
TheCarcissist@reddit
The opposite of crazy is still crazy..... like it or not there is still a stigma around "prepping". You look just as crazy to them as they look to you.
The fact is, there is no point in hoarding a ton of food if 90% of what people eat is from restaurants and fast food. They aren't buying rice and beans since most of these people have no idea how to cook them or think "it takes too much time"
black-sentry@reddit
The moment an emergency strikes, your opportunity to research and prepare for it is over. Helping others accomplish their preparation goals is something we believe in at Black Sentry. Thanks for your efforts to do the same.
CypherCake@reddit
A lot of people just don't want to think about this stuff. Even getting people to discuss and write a will can be like pulling teeth.
COVID was bad, but not the worst. I think it's given people a false sense of security.
SweetBrea@reddit
Hell. Less than 1% and our government will grind the country to a halt.
Your family has been desensitized to this as most people have.
Imagine your whole life you're told "Don't touch the stove. It's hot." Then one day you do touch the stove while it is off and you suddenly believe you've been lied to. You're not going to take claims about the stove being hot seriously because you haven't experienced such.
The overreaction to covid, which as you point out had a quite low death rate, has caused people to not take claims about pandemics seriously. They lived through covid and besides the overreaction from the media and government, most people were completely unaffected by it.
Living through covid IS why they don't take it seriously.
CypherCake@reddit
Where are we getting this narrative that COVID wasn't that bad? Are we just ignoring all the stuff that happened and going with direct personal experience? Oh you didn't lose a grandma or two? Oh you didn't end up with long covid? So suddenly it wasn't that bad? Good for you I guess?
I'm not necessarily even defending the lockdowns as they had their negatives but jeez the ignorance it takes to claim COVID wasn't that bad.
I worked for a hospital during COVID. I also saw the news - the endless bodies in the streets in places without the ability to manage the issue, overrun ICUs everywhere. I read about paramedics in New York being called to one sudden death after another. This was what was happening, it wasn't "overreaction".
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Very valid point. I learned from COVID that the world can change very rapidly… but some people got the opposite message that “pandemics aren’t that bad”.
H60mechanic@reddit
I try to be prepared but with my best efforts. I don’t have anything to spare most months to buy much of anything. I am always looking for free stuff. I have 3 months of MREs from the National Guard. I have some lifeboat rations that are “expired” that came from our survival kits in the NG. I have saved the “expired” water purification tablets too. I’m doing what I can but life sucks right now. Everything is far more expensive than it ever has been. I don’t think anyone is ever fully prepared.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
You are more prepared than 90% of the population good job! I have half a box of MREs from my time in the Marines and another 2 boxes of humanitarian aid MREs I found on sale ($35 for 2 boxes). They are really convenient and will help break up the monotony of rice and beans and canned chili or if I need to gtfo of dodge they’re really easy to grab and go.
Only-Location2379@reddit
I appreciate this post as I haven't known about this. I've been having to use some of my preps due to being in hard times but I'm gonna have to stock even more.
AdditionalAd9794@reddit
Just food for thought, I don't know where the 51% mortality rate the WHO claims is coming from. But thus far in the United States, recovery rate is %100. We have not seen a single death mortality rate is 0% within the states.
To a degree, you and anyone else who suggests 10% or %50 mortality is oversensationalizing the situation.
Most likely the bird flu will be like covid, most of us will get the sniffles, it will be a mild cold with some achieness. While the elderly or people with otherwise compromised immune systems will be at risk.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I hope you’re right but I also want my family to be prepared in case you’re wrong. I underprepared for COVID, even as underwhelming as it was. I’d hate to make that same mistake
AdditionalAd9794@reddit
Just my opinion and anecdote. But if your anything like me it wasn't so much the virus I was underreported for, but the government and societies response I was under prepared for.
I mean you can do all the social distancing and N95 stockpiling you want, but if it's anything like covid, you're probably still going to face infection eventually regardless.
I think the things to prepare for are the cause and effects of the government response. Are you ready for more lockdowns, shipping delays, price increases, are you an essential worker, what about the economic effect and inflation that followed covid, how can you prepare to face that again.
Figure with bird flu, there likely won't be any chicken or eggs at the store
OnTheEdgeOfFreedom@reddit
I was shocked at the number of people who openly believed that Covid was fake or overblown. There are 1.2 million dead in the US alone. If you don't know someone who died of Covid, you live under a rock; yet some people are still in denial. But even more shocking is the number of people who have decided it's no longer a big deal, and have slacked off on vaccination. Surprise, Covid has spiked in the US - we're back over 1,000 deaths a week. Preparation pays off in the long term; ignorance is prompt about presenting a steep bill.
Some people will just never understand basic prepping, or even basic math. And there's nothing you can do about that. Herman Cain awards abound to this day.
Two points about you post though. First, there's zero evidence that Bird flu is going to become human-to-human transmissible. By every measure, it's just not that easy for humans to catch it - it takes direct exposure, like handling sick birds - and the mutations needed to make it jump from human to human just aren't very likely to occur on their own. In epidemiology there's no such thing as never, but this particular disease worries me a lot less than a new Covid mutation might.
Second, an error in the opposite direction - you wrote "if something like this happens again".
When, not if. Pandemics are inevitable; the only question is the timing. Will a new one happen in your lifetime? It depends on your lifetime, but one could happen tomorrow - or not for 100 years. But it will happen, and as we pack more and more people into the planet, continue to concentrate populations, fly people around constantly, and continue to disturb habitats, the odds go up constantly. We will always have pandemics; the only questions are When and How Bad.
If you haven't prepped masks, sanitizer, and the ability to isolate to the degree possible for weeks at a time, you don't understand basic math. Because this is statistics at work, and many of you are quite likely to see another pandemic in your lifetime. And since masks make good sense for wildfires and dust storms, and a store of food makes sense for everything from supply chain issues to layoffs, it's not exactly wasted effort, regardless.
Accomplished_Size398@reddit
It's california, they poison their own food. Don't eat anything from california.
willie195@reddit
You need to double your stores. When the shtf they're going to be coming to you for help.
crazy-bisquit@reddit
I just don’t admit what I have. As far as people know, I have enough for a week or so.
Dacklar@reddit
Self-reliance is a fading idea. People think someone else will take care of them. There are people who have no idea where their bread comes from or how it's made.
TheHeatWaver@reddit
It’s because the general public has the memory of a gold fish. It’s why corporations and politicians get away with whatever they want.
premar16@reddit
Sometimes it can be in the delivery of how you bring it up. I am in the middle of a conversation online about the wonders of keeping a pantry (2 weeks or more of food and supplies) I was surprised by how many people joined in saying they actually do this in their homes already. Even more people were there asking questions and learning so they could start. Everyone may not be a "prepper" but there are many people who may have things in their homes ready for emergencies. They may just not call it prepping. I would never tell someone to get 3 months of supplies. That mentally seems like a lot. If you suggested 2 weeks or 1 month. They may have been more willing to get started
Opcn@reddit
I'm not endorsing these arguments, but just to understand how someone could go through covid and still not be stocking up:
Virtual-Feature-9747@reddit
"The population is less likely to lock down for months, even if a new pandemic as bad as covid happens"
The population or the government? We are already seeing some schools doing remote classes again due to a spike in COVID cases in some areas. There is a curfew in effect for some areas of the Northeast due to Eastern Equine Encephalitis (EEE). The government will never waste a good crisis or an opportunity to exert control and authority.
Your other points have some merit but could be debated.
Opcn@reddit
Either, both. Remote schooling is inconvenient for parents but not nearly as severe a measure as shutting down all the non-essential businesses.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
My family is definitely in the last camp. I think the NatGeo prepped shows gave us a bad rap like we all are obsessing wannabe infantry Republicans but we’re not. Just have some extra rice and beans and water damn guys
thefedfox64@reddit
I think that's true....but... which side do you leave towards since you said it. Any military background for you? Or do have certain tendencies about religious views that should be enforced? I've seen a few people call put the negative connotation and then fit it like a glove a week later when it's not about prepping but about who to vote for, or what it means to "take care of your family"
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I definitely fit some of the stereotypes. Former Marine, gun owner, amateur competitive shooter, registered Republican (though this is the first year I will actually vote Red) etc. I’m also a Hispanic Catholic and Ashkenazi Jew that enjoys gay bars even though I’m straight and dresses like a cholo so idk man I can swing in a couple different camps I suppose.
At the end of the day, just like everyone should ideally have a savings account of 3-6 months of expenses, everyone should ideally have 3-6 months of food and household goods. That’s all that prepping means to me.
thefedfox64@reddit
Fair enough. So...you kinda the stereotype is what I'm reading. Stop giving us a bad name lol.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Alright 😔 I’ll stop being prepared dm me your address so i can send you my food stores, I’ll see you as you drive passed the bread lines I’m waiting in
thefedfox64@reddit
Given the size of our population maybe we should start rationing food cause our insurance costs way too much, with all the health issues that come with obesity. I have a bit of a gut myself, but hot damn I can still get in and out of tiny cars.
chillaxtion@reddit
They’re extremely prepared to take a loan out to go on their Disney vacation, though.
Sobsis@reddit
Many can't afford to stock 3 months of food right now.
Many would rather spend money on other things
Many prefer not to let fear rule their lives.
It's good to be prepared but don't let it run your life eh?
Environmental_Art852@reddit
Tell him honey is better. This is just something I read. 1 tsp of honey daily will keep you alive. Can anyone help me figure out if this is true?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I mean honey is good, great even, but it’s all sugar. 1 tsp is 64 calories so youd need like 20 tsp’s or about half a cup of honey to meat your caloric needs. No protein ir fat, all carbs.
Environmental_Art852@reddit
That's what I thought. Thank you for the confirmation.
Hairy-Situation4198@reddit
Because constantly planning for bad things to happen is a huge mental drain. The level of negativity that most preppers have is much higher than the average person. Honestly, sometimes I wish I could think like the normal person and just enjoy life instead of constantly being on the lookout for the next thing to be prepared for.
That and a lot of people are broke broke.
ResolutionMaterial81@reddit
I just sent this to family a few minutes ago....
"If H5N1 ever goes H2H.... mankind will be in for a rough ride. Over the last 20+ years, H5N1 had a CFR of 53%!!! vs only a fraction of a percent for COVID-19."
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
How do you get tamiflu scripts?
ResolutionMaterial81@reddit
Sure, Mexico or possibly Canada. But in my case a personal physician.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
You just tell them you have the flu and prescribe it?
ResolutionMaterial81@reddit
Nope, told him I wanted a script on hand for emergencies. Basically the same as Jase.
Reader-xx@reddit
Converting someone to prepping is about the same challenge as converting someone to your religion. They have to come to it themselves. My family no longer gets the benefit of my information because they laugh at me for it. I'm the crazy uncle who thinks the world is coming to an end. And yet I was also the crazy uncle everyone called when my 21 year old niece was stuck in a sky scraper apartment with no power or water when they had the big snow storm a couple years back. How I was able to tell her to "find" water, how to cook her food on her balcony. Then after asking about how to prepare for it again they ignore my lists and do none of it because it's a "one off" it will never happen again.
mlotto7@reddit
Live through Covid? My family and I thrived through Covid. One big psy-ops and not even a good one at that. We traveled, had entire parks, trails, campgrounds to ourselves...ordered large amounts of Au and Ag at a deep discount and bought stocks that were devalued.
Bring on the bird flu. Keep watching the news!
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
My brother, I 100% agree COVID was used as a political tool. I also agree that COVID was not as bad as the media made it seem. That said, COVID was very real, still doubled the mortality rate of influenza, and left a lot of families broken.
I think of COVID as a test run. It could have been a lot worse. If something like the Bird Flu got aerosolized, it would have the infection rate of COVID with a 50% mortality rate. That is billions of people, so no don’t bring it on.
ExtensionInitial6012@reddit
I dont think people really change their behavior unless they are really forced to, and even then, they sometimes don't even do that. You should check out the book 'Journal of the Plague Year' by Daniel Dafoe, the dude who wrote Robinson Carousoe. It's a nearly first person perspective of the last round of Black Death in London. Nothing ever changes.
chrs_89@reddit
It’s scary to think about that sort of stuff, so most people don’t. It’s been like that for as long as people have been peopling
United-Advertising67@reddit
It's because the rest of us learned the correct lesson from covid, which is that it's stupid to waste your time on this earth cowering in terror at home over things you can't see.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I agree take the vacations and go to the parties and restaurants, but have the bare minimum to not have to be waiting in a FEMA line in case something bad does happen. I think the proper lesson is have the right balance of preparedness and living in the moment
United-Advertising67@reddit
Nobody waited in a FEMA line during covid.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Correct because COVID wasn’t that bad. The next pandemic or grid down or whatever comes could be that bad hence the point of prepping
CatchMeIfYouCan09@reddit
Paycheck to paycheck is real.
Secondly, about of people are under the assumption that "everything will be fine, we lived thru covid and it was fine"
I get that they're family and or sucks but frankly any time of need that arises in which prepping was essential to survive will simply cull the herd and provide more resources for those of us who actually attempted to circumvent tragedy.
We have provided family and friends with packets of information that gives them lists of basic essentials and the best places to find them; contact info for everyone in the group; and Evac locations and routes if bugging out is necessary. You know what else it has? Our rules. Clearly defined and laid out for everyone to know ahead of time.
Those rules include (but not limited to) the expectation that YOU are responsible for YOU and YOURS and their supplies and food. That WE will not be sharing ANY of our resources with you or your family and will have no problems not providing the locations of the next step of bugging out and leave you behind if you've proven that you're leeching off of our hard work and prepping.
Secondly, everyone contributes. Everyone. If you don't then you're not welcome. Don't show up expecting your needs to be met and to sit and vacation this crisis away.
Andr1yTheOne@reddit
I know how you feel. I'm in the same shitter. My family gives no fucks except maybe my mom. Everyone is in the state of mind, "whatever happens I'll deal with it later".
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Yeah I’m gonna stock a bit extra but I can’t afford to factor them in completely. Hand them a box and say “goodluck” is about I can do
Andr1yTheOne@reddit
My family will take whatever I'll give them but I'm not sure if they will ever use the stuff I give or even remember that they have it. Or if they take it seriously.
chumley84@reddit
Fortunately diseases that are highly infectious tend to have low fatality because diseases that have evolved to infect humans don't want to kill us.
Personally I'm more concerned about manmade disasters civil unrest/nuclear war/another lockdown
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
This is interesting. To be honest I really am not concerned about a war or nukes in America, if I was in Europe that’d be completely different. America is such a world power with such defendable ports and logistics centers I don’t think anything like that could happen here at least for now. Civil unrest is definitely more likely especially with the contentious political climate but that’s a pretty simple solution, don’t leave the house and have guns and training. I really am more concerned with a pandemic/biological warfare and a cyberattack/grid down scenario. China and Russia can’t put boots on American soil but they sure as hell can hack us
chumley84@reddit
Even a relatively "small" nucular war (think India and Pakistan) would cause a global nucular winter
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Huh I’ve never thought about it like that. How does that influence your preps?
EffinBob@reddit
"Nuclear," and, no, it probably wouldn't.
Ruthless4u@reddit
Time and money.
A lot of people realize it can happen again but it cost money for supplies and time to learn what you need.
Individual-Ideal-610@reddit
It is interesting, and a lot of people don’t exactly disagree with some basic stuff but then never do anything. Then a lot of people also just blow it off. I think it’s one of those things where they rarely think about it, and when they do, they don’t do anything.
Like the thing we all have done where it’s like “oh I need/should do/get that” but don’t do/get it, next thing you know it’s 3 months later and somehow this repeats for however long lol.
NoUseForAName2222@reddit
I can't control what other people do. I can only control what I do. No sense in worrying about whether other people are prepared. I will be.
hopeoncc@reddit
I'm always trying to tell them, look ... Compared to what it could do for you in a time of need ... During those BIG moments when you wanna be at your best and have every resource available you can when things get complicated ... To keep them from getting more complicated ... Just create this and store that ... It takes up the space of a backpack or a few gallons (just a few even) of milk and you can forget about it until you need it. It takes suuuuuuch little time and effort. Just switch storing all these things separately, and store them together here.
That's not even mentioning the benefits of having, say, duplicates of things that are helpful to already have on hand even if there isn't an emergency.
It's like just think about all that you rely on or brings you comfort in life ... Notice how without light you can't see in the dark, or how valuable your phone is to you and how quickly you would lose access. How are you gonna cook those things in a power outage? How are you gonna wash your clothes that have filled up the hamper? Shower? Stay warm? Stay cool? And what's funniest about it all, is they say they'll "just" deal!
Bahahahahahahaha y'all have trouble "dealing" even when there isn't an emergency! Bruh! Be real!
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
My dad stocks canola oil because it’s “so high in calories” and I asked him if he planned on living off straight canola oil and he said “yes” with a straight face… like come on pops let’s be real here you can’t survive without Dr Pepper rn let alone in an emergency
J701PR4@reddit
At least he won’t have to worry about constipation!
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
My dad will be the only survival of the HVC pandemic (Human Viral Constipation)
CarbonGod@reddit
Because people make it through everything. Not everything is the end of the world. Have basics in CASE. Others just don't think things will happen to them (how many asshats run stop signs, speed, drive like fuckers....they think they will never get caught or kill anyone)......so prepping is the least of their concern.
That's why.
Beast_Man_1334@reddit
They probably think or know that you will help them because you're prepared. Sometimes people don't bother because they have people who will give them stuff.
TheAncientMadness@reddit
surely i can just get food from the grocery store and turn on my tap for water when shtf?
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
Surely you can! They would never cut the power to save resources or workers would never choose to stay home instead of go to their underpaid jobs in a pandemic… surely no!
-TheycallmeThe@reddit
Most people are more concerned with how they are going to eat next week to prepare for anything else. It's a tough world put there man.
Utter_cockwomble@reddit
Immediate family (spouse, kids, parents) will be as prepared as I am. Parents only live 5 minutes away and their house is one of our bug-in loacations.
Extended family? They can figure their own shit out. Shared DNA doesn't mean I owe them. If they're short some TP, ok. But I'm not prepping for the whole clan. They're grown-ass people that I'm not responsible for.
Technical-Guava-779@reddit
100% agree -> 'They can figure their own shit out. Shared DNA doesn't mean I owe them.' I'm going to print this sentence on my entrance door !
tits_mcgee_92@reddit
The hard reality is that you can't make anyone do anything. It sucks, because we want to do what's best for our friends and family, but it's much easier for some people to ignore the truth until it's actually happening in front of them. Sadly, by then, it's already too late.
Not to mention many people in the U.S. are living paycheck to paycheck. Telling them to buy a 3 month emergency supply when they can barely afford to put food on the table just isn't a realistic possibility.
No-Ideal-6662@reddit (OP)
I 100% agree with you and if we weren’t taking a family vacation to Florida in a few weeks and if they weren’t posting all their fancy meals I wouldnt fault them for it lol. It’s just not a priority for them. At least my dad is kinda receptive but he’s under the impression that, since canola oil is high in calories, he can just stick canola oil lol. I’m trying with these ppl I swear