what time do you have dinner?

We're about the same. Nice and relaxed once the kids are in bed. Although tbf we did this before we had kids, too. When we went on honeymoon to the US, we were told not to try to eat too late, as a lot of restaurants - at least in rural/suburban areas - close very early. Sometimes we'd pitch up somewhere at 19:45, to be told we were too late. Our first night in Monterey, we arrived at the hotel around 8pm, couldn't find anywhere open, had to raid the vending machine. The next evening, we went to a restaurant on Cannery Row, 19:30 booking. By the time we'd finished mains they were clearing up around us, and suggested if we wanted pudding we'd have to get them "to go".