Similar to the atom, personalities have positive and negative charges.

Generally, you can attribute a broad variety of behaviors, speech patterns and general expectations on individuals to what their gender is. Thus, we have three general groups we can put humans in.

Positive charge: more masculine

Neutral charge: androgynous

Negative charge: more feminine

Now, with basic principles of how personalities work, we can utilize another comparison to atoms and how they work. Namely, electricity.

In an electric current, electrons flow from a negatively charged space into a positive one, showing that a woman, who would naturally be more feminine in their personality, is naturally attracted to a man. This of course doesn’t mean gender is the entire driving factor of this, it could work completely fine as long as personalities match this attraction. This does not account for physical attractiveness, only on a more romantic/personal level (which many of you won’t get).

Similar to two differently charged atoms being attracted to each other, similarly charged atoms will naturally repel each other. So if we have individuals with negative charges, they couldn’t attract each other and subsequently not have a romantic relationship together. Neutral charges do nothing, which is why non-binary people may have harder times finding partners.

So how does this fit into marriage statistics? Simple. Gay men can either be really masculine, buff and/or in general just a generic dude, but they can also be feminine bottoms such as Astolfo. Meaning men can have either a positive or negative charged personality. Lesbian women, on the other hand, are mentally unable to be feminine on some way. They tend to lean towards having said positively charged personalities, and thus can’t attract each other man door hand hook car door

In conclusion, Lesbian relationships fail more because opposites attract in love.