What random ailment are you irrationally worried about acquiring?
Posted by Ivotedforher@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 127 comments
Eber since that one reporter died of one, Deep Vein Thrombosis has been living rent free in my head although the biggest risk I have of it is from sitting in an office chair.
SoCalChrisW@reddit
Always been irrationally terrified of my knee bending backwards.
Bayou13@reddit
Did you see that video of the woman on the leg press machine?????
SoCalChrisW@reddit
I hate that I know which video you are referring to
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
You ever think about tripping and biting your tongue off? I do.
SoCalChrisW@reddit
My dad bit his tongue off when he was a kid. He jumped off their rabbit hutch with his tongue sticking out and almost bit it clean off.
They were able to sew it back on (without anesthesia) though, and he lived the rest of his life with a stubby little tongue.
He also pulled one of those big blue storage mail boxes over on his head as a kid, got a tattoo when he was in cub scouts, and was caught smoking in the school bathroom in second grade.
Kids were different back then lol.
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
What are the odds that I would randomly mention something which had happened to your dad? š
DynamiteWitLaserBeam@reddit
I was just floating in my pool thinking about brain eating amoeba.
marcduberge@reddit
All of them
kckitty71@reddit
I just want it to be quick and painless.
joeyjoeskullcracker@reddit
Early death
nvr2manydogs@reddit
Beats dementia. I'm terrified of dementia.
Cattitoode@reddit
DVT, ever since my former roommate died from one at 42. She was on a long plane trip and allowed another passenger's small child to lay over her legs. Heartbreaking.
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
I hope that child knows what it did.
Witty_fartgoblin@reddit
Shartsburgers syndrome
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
Username?
ConfidentRecover3343@reddit
I think most of these replies are pretty common conditions. My random one is in infection not a disease. Brain eating amoeba.Ā
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
That a good , but terrible, one.
Thanks for understanding tjr assignment, too!
EnjoyingTheRide-0606@reddit
Squishy mushroom moles. Some relative in my ancestry had them. My aunt (now 93) remembered them as a child because she had to hug the person with mushroom moles. She told my mom she hoped she doesnāt have that gene. I have a lot of flat moles in a variety of colors (blue, red, black and brown) and age spots but thankfully not many skin tags or mushroom moles!
MiloAndLucy@reddit
I cannot narrow it down to one
Eazy12345678@reddit
blood clot maybe. sit in front of computer for hours. watch tv in bed for hours. still work out but many hours of chilling
WBRGGRL@reddit
Dementia or Alzheimerās. My grandfather had Alzheimerās and I feel like my brain is⦠not normal⦠already.
holidayoffools@reddit
Rabies
Minute-Psychology511@reddit
My terror was unlocked when I was nibbled on by a monkey in Bali last year.
holidayoffools@reddit
Omg...it can incubate for years!!!
Pretend_College_8446@reddit
Came here for this
elphaba00@reddit
I've learned that my 13 year old has this huge fear of catching rabies. I have no clue where this fear would have come from.
holidayoffools@reddit
From the internet!Ā Every time someone gets a mystery scratch, everyone says get the rabies shot because a bat may be hiding in your house and you don't know and now you're going to die a horrible, horrible death.
Busy_Quiet4435@reddit
Cancer
ennuiandapathy@reddit
Dementia.
My mom has dementia and Iāve watched her lose herself. Itās not a quiet process, a silent fading - itās anger and confusion and fear punctuated by moments of lucidity and awareness.
My uncle has Parkinsonās and Parkinsonās Dementia. My FIL had it, too. That deterioration was so much faster than my momās.
Minute-Psychology511@reddit
This one is terrifying me. Watching my Dad suffering now is devastating.
MLArtist71@reddit
Macular degeneration. My dad had a few aunts who developed it, and I inherited extreme nearsightedness from that side of the family. Iām terrified of going blind.
Bayou13@reddit
My mom has it and I am ON TOP OF my annual eye exams
Izmeralda@reddit
This one is one of my big fears. My grandma had both kinds of Macular Degeneration, one eye was "wet" and one eye was "dry" and I got w front row seat to what she went through with going blind, and the treatments to slow it down. No thank you very much!
Bayou13@reddit
Besides all of them, Ebola strikes terror into my heart. But also pancreatic cancer. And Alzheimerās. I have a lot of health related anxiety
Ruenin@reddit
Anything related to dementia
rhionaeschna@reddit
Parkinson's. My Gran had it and I have so many nervous system things going on already.
badasschurchlady@reddit
Dementia with vision issues. My mom, who has a degree in English Literature (so she could go to college and just read books), at 61 had a retinal artery occlusion in one eye. She has peripheral vision but not central vision. At 70 she began showing signs of dementia. At 81 she has next to no short term memory. She can read but can no longer read a novel; by the time she gets to the end of a page (sometimes a paragraph) she canāt remember what sheās reading. She used to read 5+ books a week. Thatās fucking terrifying
minicpst@reddit
My mom has dementia with vision issues.
https://www.dementiasplatform.uk/news-and-media/blog/posterior-cortical-atrophy-a-dementia-that-affects-the-vision
She didnāt have it until her 70s, though, so no one is sure how itāll progress. She may live very well with it for years. She may not. Sheās got short term memory issues. But thankfully, several years in, sheās still my mom. :)
She did finally stop driving a year or two ago. And I got her some Tileās for Motherās Day that my brother hooked up to her Alexa so she can find the remotes solo. Otherwise, she does pretty well.
Jas62021@reddit
A stroke. My dad passed from complications of one at 57. Both his parents died from the same in their early 60s
Iāve been on high blood pressure medication since my mid 20s, seems it hereditary. And have been on blood thinners since 50 because it turns out the clots that caused the strokes, are also hereditary. Got Covid early in the pandemic and it found the genetic mutation that predisposed me to clots. Yay.
DramaticTry2113@reddit
When I was little my parents took me to a homeopathic doctor in Canada. He āsawā a tumor that was going to develop when I was older in my lower abdomen. He gave me a medicine which made me really sick for a few days, very high fever etc. when that was done, they said the tumor would no longer develop. To this day, even though it sounds crazy, I still think something went wrong and Iām still going to get that tumor.
Xavelle@reddit
I'm so sorry that happened to you! Have you mentioned this experience with your PCP?
DramaticTry2113@reddit
I havenāt! I donāt mind sounding crazy to all my fellow Redditors lol , thank you :)
VolupVeVa@reddit
ALS, MS, Parkinsons.
mjh8212@reddit
I have pots makes me afraid Iāll have a heart attack and I wonāt think twice that Iām actually having one cause itāll be normal pots symptoms.
Entire-Ad-5917@reddit
My dad passed from pancreatic cancer and now Iām always worried about cancer.
elphaba00@reddit
Pancreatic cancer scares me. I feel like it's one of the cancers that they always find it when it's too late to do anything.
Possible_Shoulder_50@reddit
Congestive heart failure, drowning in your own fluids filling your lungs terrifies me.
RantingLunaticBabsy@reddit
Toxic Shock Syndrome. You can get it from other infections, not just from tampon use. It was one of those scary things drilled into our heads as young women. I thought when I no longer used tampons I was in the clear, but nope. Turns out itās still possible to get it.
elphaba00@reddit
One of my second cousins died from something similar, SJS/TEN. She went into a prompt care on Christmas Eve complaining of flu-like symptoms. She texted her parents that she'd be a little late for the day, but she'd get there. She ended up getting admitted to the hospital. She was jokingly texting with friends and family. A few hours later, she was sedated. Her organs were failing. It was like they were burning up from the inside. She had a brain bleed. They think she got it from antibiotic eye drops.
GroovyGmaIvy@reddit
My ex-husbandās cousin died of that from a tampon.
AshDenver@reddit
My husband developed a clotting disorder. 2020 was a rough year. I saved his life like 3x that year. He kept throwing clots, developed pleural effusion, could barely breathe, his mesmeric artery was blocked with a clot, just a complete mess in there, so many surgeries, clueless docs at the early part of the pandemic. Then the CT scan found the kidney cancer and he spiraled mentally into the āgo out in flames, do all the fun things, eat, drink, be merryā headspace and packed on about 80lbs.
Sometimes stuff just happens. Sometimes we hurt ourselves.
Agent7619@reddit
A cyst/ulcer at the top of my ass-crack.
Odd_Consequence_6044@reddit
Pilonidal cysts are treatable
hapster85@reddit
I have enough diseases already, thank you very much.
That said, there are a few I think about from time to time, that I'd rather not have to deal with. But I don't sit around worrying about them.
I'm very much an "it is what it is" type person.
LadyNorbert@reddit
This. Every day my body and I have an argument about its multiple conditions and I ask it, "How dare you seek to inconvenience me?" Eventually I will probably have every disease known to womankind. But as you say, it is what it is.
mattmatters16@reddit
Spontaneous combustion
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
Because of that one photo we all saw as kids of the burned up lady in the recliner?
edwardsantes@reddit
no
we all watched Spinal Tap 15x before college was over
edwardsantes@reddit
Naive_Finding_1287@reddit
š¤£š
grigiri@reddit
Colon cancer
edwardsantes@reddit
stay on schedule with your colonoscopies. I can't believe how many people in this sub avoid getting one or act like it's difficult. I asked about testicular cancer two weeks ago, and the PA did a blood screen that day just because it's that easy.
grigiri@reddit
I have had my first. I'm a little worried that they changed from 5 to 10 years, though.
As for testicular cancer, I was also worried about that. I got an exam and everything is normal. The PA told me that the risk of TC is very low for men over 35, but just to pay attention to my body and bring up any concerns.
Ok_Cicada_3420@reddit
Jesus⦠this shit is depressing.
Ivotedforher@reddit (OP)
And irrational
Ok_Cicada_3420@reddit
For sure!! I read two posts and had to stop. lol I was looking for āgetting stuck in quicksandā or some shit.
SmokeyFrank@reddit
My father (now 84) lost both mother and wife to Alzheimerās (both passing early 80s). Heās showing no signs of it but does act his age and can drive a stick shift. While Iām concerned about dementia, Iām continually doing mind puzzlesāboth words and math. I also continually develop and improve complex spreadsheets.
PDM_1969@reddit
My parents told me after my father was diagnosed with dementia that his mother had it also. I took care of my father until he passed away last week...so I'm freaking out about having it...and my kids having to take care of me.
Equal_Insect8488@reddit
There are blood tests now that can detect it years before symptoms. Also genetic testing, but don't go through your insurance and take steps to ensure privacy. Also, given that we didn't really know what causes ALZ, those genetic tests are more correlation that causation
pixelgeekgirl@reddit
This is hands down my biggest fear. My maternal grandmother had dementia, my paternal grandmother had Alzheimerās. I have reiterated to my kids over and over to put me in a home if that happens. I donāt want them taking care of me.
BigRudy99@reddit
Neurological conditions run strong in my family. Als, Parkinsons, dementia, Bells Palsy. I've always hoped for a random death before I catch one of those nasty demons.
MagentaGiraffe13@reddit
Everything, because having had cancer whose treatment caused my immune system to turn on me in the form of hashimotos, Addisonās disease and type 1 diabetes I know anything can happen; and itās what you donāt even think about that gets you.
However, I also donāt let myself think about it because I want to enjoy my life. Iām not saying itās easy but itās been doable so far.
Seyforth@reddit
Blood clot
TowerOfSisyphus@reddit
Conservatism
CoderPro225@reddit
Crohnās. I have celiac disease, Hashimotoās thyroiditis, and PCOS that eventually caused diabetes. But autoimmune diseases tend to bring along friends, and my cousin with celiac has Crohnās. It terrifies me.
Iām also afraid of dementia, but grandparents on one side never got it. Could be slightly questionable on the other side, but I really think they didnāt have it, even though they passed at an earlier age. No doctor even suggested testing for them. So that scares me, but itās not as close to being plausible in my mind.
Forest_of_Cheem@reddit
I have ankylosing spondylitis and Iām also terrified of anything like Crohnās. I already have gi issues, I donāt want troubles that lead to pooping in a bag through a hole in my abdomen. Iām also afraid of things like MS, which I believe are common from the biologic meds. Autoimmune and their friends, lol.
cthulhus_spawn@reddit
I have one right now if that makes you feel any better.
I had a leg procedure that had a less than 1% chance of throwing a blood clot and I was the lucky winner.
I'm on super strength blood thinners and in about 10 days I go back and see if it dissolved.
Every time I feel the slightest pain in my chest I'm like, that's it, it's in my lung, I'm going to die.
Personally I have an irrational fear of terrible things happening to my eyes and lo and behold! I have both cataracts and glaucoma.
Fuck I'm old. (57)
mylocker15@reddit
Hanta-ebola with a dash of mad cow and a side of legionnaires thanks to the news.
Melodic_Caramel1777@reddit
Irrational ailment - flesh eating bacteria where you can lose limbs and/or die. This happened to a daughter of a friend and a friend of a friend, so it doesnāt seem irrational even though it may be.
Rational ailment - dementia. Lost my beloved grandmother to this, and my mother in law, too. Such a horrific, nightmare way to slowly die.
profjamie4102005@reddit
My mother has had DVT, and her three sisters have experienced them also (one of them died from it). So yeah, Iām with you!
CommissarCiaphisCain@reddit
Quicksand
funsized43@reddit
I really thought it was going to be a much bigger problem.
AZPeakBagger@reddit
I live about five minutes away from a state park that has both quicksand and killer bees. Worst thing about quicksand is that you might lose a shoe and sink down to your knees. But the bees around here kill at least one person a year.
Naive_Finding_1287@reddit
100% Pure GenX
Murky_Possibility_68@reddit
I'm seeing these ads that people who punch things in their sleep get Parkinsons and even my sleep doctor doesn't seem to care about my night terrors, so that.
uberpickle@reddit
Oh dear. Now I'm worried about my husband.
floofymonstercat@reddit
I have had suffered from tension headaches since I was a kid. Oddly my high blood pressure meds seemed to alleviated them. So, when I get a headache now I think it might be a Brain Aneurysm and it is game over. To speak of DVT, I had a very random leg pain and was prescribed a sonogram to rule out DVT, it was nothing, and made me change providers cause everyone minus the sonogram tech were complete assholes about my health care concerns.
Infinite-Lychee-182@reddit
I haven't had to survive a stroke yet, so probably that.
Critical-Bass7021@reddit
I had one when I was 31. Luckily I was young.
GroovyGmaIvy@reddit
Iām a retired medical assistant and Iāve seen thousands of DVTs. The thing Iām worried about is diabetes. Iāve also been diagnosed with death anxiety.
Walts_Ahole@reddit
I'd say you're spot on with the deep vein thrombosis fear.
I work in a niche field where sometimes I'll get 20,000 steps a day not including climbing stairs & ladders while other days I'll be glued to my screen for hours without moving an inch.
So the VP shows up on site, walks past my office without stopping, my boss Donald comes back and says "dammit Walt, you know I don't care about your feet up on your desk but can't you keep em off while Kevin is here?" Safety guy Wally has perfect timing and walks past "hey Wally, when I'm sitting here for hours on end, keeping my feet elevated helps me avoid the deep vein thrombosis right?" "you're absolutely right Walt". Donald didn't expect that but I'm positive he was laughing after Kevin left.
Only my name changed to protect the guilty. Donald, Wally, Kevin - miss ya'll, you're great folks & we made a helluva team.
ZzzzzPopPopPop@reddit
This was a sweet little story
overmonk@reddit
When I was 45 I got my wake-up call that my cardio system is whatās going to kill me. Itās not random at all - I know what itās going to feel like (really bad). And then Iāll probably die.
Glad_Nobody6992@reddit
Iāve worked for the past 20 years in the disability space. I see claims everyday and while some are bullshit, some are terrifying.
Iād say the scariest to me is oral/nasal/neck cancer. The removal of large parts of the face or jaw, the inability to eat or swallow.
That or sepsis. People have woken up after weeks out and find that their limbs have been amputated. I just cannot imagine coming to terms with that.
SlyFrog@reddit
The slowly losing your abilities and dying horribly over time stuff.
Parkinsons, ALS, dementia/Alzheimer's, Lewy Body, that sort of stuff.
I mean like most everyone else I suppose, I want to go to bed feeling absolutely fine and just not wake up. I don't know of anyone who wants to actively know they're dying and go through pain and suffering of any appreciable amount.
Pantokraterix@reddit
Mine are ALS, stomach cancer, and rabies.
Pretend-Metal-8403@reddit
Lock jaw
Spare-Good-5372@reddit
Radiation poisoningĀ
Pretend-Metal-8403@reddit
Sepsis and Lyme disease
dinkeydonuts@reddit
Dementia.
doinmabest1@reddit
Fibromyalgia. I have interstitial cystitis which is also an autoimmune disease. With one you can easily have the other. My best friend was just diagnosed with breast cancer so thatās fully on my mind too
Starkville@reddit
CANCER
LeighofMar@reddit
I have UC so I worry about complications or having it lead to colon cancer. I can deal with the disease more or less but I really don't want to rot from the inside out.
electrodog1999@reddit
I have MS, hopefully thatās the only one that gets me. I ālucked outā and have the relapsing/remitting type and itās been in remission for 8 years and still going strong. I get tired fast but thatās really the only downside for me right now.
JournalistFew6829@reddit
Sepsis
drifter3026@reddit
As of a couple days ago, this shot up to the top of my list.
JJQuantum@reddit
I really donāt want to get any kind of dementia as I grow older. My wifeās mom and grandmother both had Alzheimerās so she is very afraid of it.
Imadethis23@reddit
A stroke and becoming a burden to my family.
snideghoul@reddit
Bacterial Meningitis. I learned how fast it could kill you when I was in my 20s and worried about it all the time. Now, of course, I welcome anything that's not a slow death requiring lots of contact with the American health care system.
shan68ok01@reddit
This one is easy to fix! Just go ahead and get three or four(there's some debate as to whether I had a third clot or the second one didn't fully dissolve) DVTs, and your cardiologist with put you on preventative blood thinners for life. Also, live with a nurse or two that will encourage you to go to the doctor with the new pain in your leg.
notevenapro@reddit
I work in medical imaging. My list is long.
Outside_Avocado8963@reddit
Dementia or Alzheimerās. Stroke is high on the list too. I donāt want to end up a shell of who I am now, or be a burden to my family. Or not know who my family is anymore, itās terrifying.
KitsMalia@reddit
Having had an aneurysm found and repaired (2 stents placed in there), I'm terrified I'll either get another one or the one that was fixed will develop a clot and I'll have a stroke. Any time I get a head pain, especially in the area of the fixed one), I panic.
chaosrulz0310@reddit
All - because I have had DVT, at least 2 mild strokes and a splenic infarction due to a clot and pancreatitis due to same clot that killed spleen. My dad and uncle have a-fib, dad has had multiple strokes, grandmother had an aneurysm and my aunt has had breast cancer multiple times and my grandmother also had breast cancer. I have PCOS, hormone issues and migraines. I just figure at some point my body will turn on me again and take me out.
PSA donāt underestimate the risk of DVT from sitting in office chair. I was working 12-14 hours a day when I got mine. No symptoms other than leg pain like a Charlie horse one random Saturday, went to dr on Tuesday because it wouldnāt stop hurting. He said I had no outward signs of a clot so prescribed muscle relaxers but then because heās overly cautious sometimes sent me for Doppler on a whim ājust in caseā . Ended up with a massive clot on leg and several in lungs.
Ok_Kick6546@reddit
Buddy, you need a reboot!
NPC261939@reddit
Cancer. I exercise daily, and eat clean. It doesn't really matter. It's a numbers game, and I'm not one for good luck.
DragonflyMomma6671@reddit
Aneurism. Terrifying. Usually don't know they are there until they decide "today is a good day, let's see if we can kill them."
-Granby-@reddit
DVT. Blood clots. Heart attack. Stroke. Some type of cancer. Those are the usual worries. Been trying to get checked out though. Just had a full lipid panel and metabolic panel done as well as thyroid, kidney and liver functions and everything is good. In 2024 I had an angiogram and a calcium score done and those were good. Calcium score was zero and my ejection fraction was good.
My blood pressure is under control with meds. I take a baby aspirin because I worry about clots. I wear compression socks. Stopped caffeine, weed, nicotine pouches and Kratom. Never drink Alcohol. Sodium intake is down by at least 50%. Just need to get the colonoscopy and then maybe I can relax a little bit about my health.
Kimber80@reddit
A normal cough turning into it deadly lung infection like that NASCAR driver just died of.
I routinely panic and rushed to the clinic anytime symptoms of a cold set in.
gen_what_x_ever@reddit
Ha, DVT is mine too. Everytime I get a random cramp in my leg I think, "this is the end". Second place is a brain aneurysm everytime I get a headache.
trUth_b0mbs@reddit
Cancer. Too many people have it or have had it.
BuckyGoldman@reddit
Just imagine me dropping every known medical diagnostic manual ever made upon a rickety card table. THIS
Raynet11@reddit
I had back problems in my late 20ās and 30ās two surgeries later with permanent nerve damage, I couldnāt tell when I had to number two for 7 years, severe drop foot and muscle atrophy in my left calf muscle and my left calf always twitching involuntarily. I am super thankful I can still walk and didnāt end up in a wheelchair. The pain endured during that time period was awful it ruined quality of life. So thatās the ailment I would prefer not to return ever
OreoSpeedwaggon@reddit
DVT, blood clots, aneurysms, strokes, heart attacks, spontaneous human combustion, and now sepsis since hearing about Kyle Busch. I basically feel like your body is trying to kill you and keep you alive simultaneously.
thewatchwinder@reddit
since i first heard about it...the sinus infection that ate that guys face. its...always in the back of my head when i have allergies or a headache.
chaosrulz0310@reddit
Well this is now a new worry unlocked for my nightmares due to sinus headaches constantly.
thewatchwinder@reddit
seriously...i try not to think about it...but it is always back there. its the only thing im like this with (except quicksand, cause im gen x and that shit can evidently happen randomly in suburbs, based on how it was presented to us...lol)