Now I'm not going to say there isn't a resurgence of toxic and limiting gender stereotypes (that had never really ever gone away in the first place) but I don't think you're going to find many trans women in the tradwife community.

These are claims that are rarely examined in any substantive ways by people who seek to explain without investigating and which frequently originate from the assumption that this is a bad thing which much originate from something bad or maladaptive: a form of conversion therapy imposed by homophobic parents; a sexual fetish; peer pressure; a social contagion; the ridiculous notion that such a far-reaching, physically and socially risky process is undertaken for some tiny advantage; that the oppobrium attached is naively disregarded; that this is in any way lucrative enough to form a conspiracy to exploit

There is also the misconception that this happens all at once, that there is no period of reflection; that there are no attempts to make it go away, to deny it is real, et cetera et cetera

To make a long story short, maybe ask trans people why as opposed to telling them why