If you were going out in your 20s in the 80s/90s, what was clubbing or bar culture actually like compared to today?
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I’m curious!! Tell me stories if you have them!
icthruu74@reddit
I grew up in a rural area. There weren’t clubs, there were corn fields or barns. Kegs, cheap booze, boombox music, bonfires. Occasionally a stripper, which might have been someone’s cousin.
nborders@reddit
PNW bonfires at some guy’s family property. Drinking Rainier if north or Henry’s of south of the border. Plenty of firewood and it rained so much no worry of wildfires.
CommunicationHappy20@reddit
Ska and punk shows. Lots of weed clouded reggae concerts. Small venues. Loads of friends in “the scene”.
Correct_Security_742@reddit
We had great Goth Clubs in Arizona. The Crow Bar, The Nile, Tranz, Area 51
gaoshan@reddit
Clothing reeking of cigarette smoke was a constant.
ElBrancheroMKE@reddit
I saw someone say (and I think it's true) that the main reason people don't go dance anymore in clubs is that you are ALWAYS being recorded. Someone looking for clicks will video you having a good time and put you on the Internet to make fun of you instead of minding their own business, and that's a shame. Going out and dancing to a favorite song like we're losing our minds was one of the great joys I had, and I can see why kids fear that now in this age of cyber bullying. And that sucks for our kids
PhilDunphythecat@reddit
I heard this exact thing and it broke my heart.
CaliPam@reddit
I was living in the Denver area during the early 80s and many of the bars had TGIF promotions. The larger clubs would have free food buffets, and reduced drink prices during the extended happy hour.
isUKexactlyTsameasUS@reddit
dad and mom say...
blitz in covent garden, gazzas riockin blues, grouchos for celebs occasionally fab, mostly not
blitz even had a sorta revival https://designmuseum.org/exhibitions/blitz-the-club-that-shaped-the-80s
CGBGs meh, tho we can see why it was a thang... THIS AINT NO mUDD CLUB...
Boochiecoo@reddit
Getting to the campus bar early to get the sleazy DJ dudes to play music we liked before anyone got there and they played the mainstream music.
Dudes kindly helping you not get crushed during slam dancing /moshing
Not being anywhere as cool as the real goths.
Dancing to Mirror People (Tones on Tail) in the bar it was written about
Wearing almost nothing but a skimpy light blue vintage slip and docs and being so tough nobody tried anything. Except the one guy I punched for pinching my ass.
Cloves
How hot the goth boys looked in long skirts and leather jackets and our eye liner
1989-1992 Midwest
-NachoBorracho-@reddit
Omg in a vintage slip & docs, smoking a clove?! I would’ve fallen hopelessly in love 😆
Boochiecoo@reddit
Ha ha! Well… I was a hot mess so it’s good we never met!!! Also I didn’t smoke the cloves myself, but loved the cloud of clove atmosphere
-NachoBorracho-@reddit
😆
HTLM22@reddit
Lol. Cloves. Not my thing, but I always knew when people had them. early 90s Florida.
AlarmingMonk1619@reddit
Smoke. Drugs that could kill you. Fatal STDs. Lineups. Places to actually dance. Loud music. Underwear parties. Making it home super drunk on public transport.
eddie964@reddit
We still have drugs that can kill you.
Idoe6@reddit
Arguably, drugs that can kill you way, way quicker.
There's a part of me that's almost thankful for fentanyl l, because it's scared me out of doing drugs that I once considered relatively "safe"
Jethris@reddit
You forgot Dennys at 3am for pancakes.
IzzyandRebelsmom@reddit
or how about moons over my hammy, that was my 2 AM go-to
aeon314159@reddit
A Lady of Discernment and Culture. 🎯
IzzyandRebelsmom@reddit
weren't we all at AM at 21 years old
thatguy420417@reddit
Those rides home were both awful and amazing.
railworx@reddit
Smoky.... very smoky
misn0ma@reddit
My DJ friend said when cigarette smoking went outside suddenly he could smell all the bodies and farts on the dance-floor!
railworx@reddit
If people smoked pipes, it would be so different
ilovebbcitv@reddit
Yes smoke on the club walls, smoke in your hair, smoke o. Your clothes.
fastcatdog@reddit
80’s clubs? More like a kegger at my house 🍺 or at John’s or desert party or concert. We never had time for clubs.
9inez@reddit
I mostly hung out in dives, pubs, underground music scene. That was the culture I guess: beer, whiskey, other inebriants, cigs, pool, music.
I don’t think much has changed in that space today except the lack of cigarette smoke indoors.
eddie964@reddit
It was a lot less expensive relative to cost of living. You could go out and get slammed three nights a week even on my s* salary. Bars and clubs were smoky and people actually talked to each other (to the extent that was possible over the music). There was no Uber or Lyft, so you usually went to an all night diner to sober up a little before heading home.
Boochiecoo@reddit
Many of us on this thread are feeling nostalgic about the smell of clove cigarettes - there are a few perfumes that have tried to recreate the scent - the best is said to be this one: - https://www.thornsclothing.com/products/thorns-x-black-phoenix-alchemy-lab-clove-cigarette-perfume-oil-1?variant=32113450320011
Metal-Salt@reddit
I'm GenX, I don't go to clubs anymore.
_sonidero_@reddit
The underground rave scene was authentic and organic... People that actually cared about the music and the culture came together to create amazing experiences... P.L.U.R. was a way of life...
Bossanova72@reddit
Not only did the adults have clubs but do you remember the “teen” clubs, 18 yo and up?
Boochiecoo@reddit
My town had 18+ until midnight
RedditWidow@reddit
As others have said, I have no idea what clubbing or bar culture is like, today. But back in the 90s, I used to go to a lot of Goth/Industrial nights. People were there to wear black and to dance. It wasn't a meat market, no phones, no photos, no vaping. Lots of tobacco or clove cigarette smoking.
Boochiecoo@reddit
Yeah - people were there to dance. If goth clubs and goth nights were still like this I would occasionally take a disco nap, pop an adderall, and go, even at my wizened old age. Rumor has it there are places in Portland OR that still less about the posing and all about the dancing…
Anomuumi@reddit
Some real underground raves at least in Europe. Abandoned factories and the like. Cops busted one that was a massive fire hazard because there were narrow hallways full of candles.
Boochiecoo@reddit
Sounds legendary
mattwallace24@reddit
Every night of the week had a different club to go to. For example, Monday night everyone would go to a dive bar for sink or swim night. Cheap beer until the first person at the bar uses the bathroom and then prices went up.
On Tuesday nights, strangely a local Bennigans near my college campus closed the restaurant that night and it turned into a nightclub.
Wednesday night was live music at a bar in another part of town.
Thursday was “straight night” at a gay bar. Was an amazing club that had 3 main rooms each with different music and vibes. Middle room was for dancing to techno. One room over was the “hot and heavy” room. The lighting made everything red and it had a large bar. The remaining room was the only one with enough light to actually see anything but the door to an outside patio was always open so you’d hang out there for a while after dancing to cool off.
Fridays we hit a downtown bar that was a hot pick up spot. Head there after work for the week. Drink lots of cheap beer (by the bucket) and meet all your friends who would come right from work. After a few hours we’d head to a dark, moody alternative club that played music such as The Cure, NIN, Joy Division, etc.
Saturday we’d head to a part of town that had at least a dozen bars and clubs open. We’d hit them all any given Saturday night. Some had live music. Some were dance clubs. We had a goth club one block off. Many bad decisions and also a lot of fun nights there. At the end of the block was a tattoo and piercing shop. This was before everyone had a tattoo or piercing. If I had $$$ leftover by the time we hit the end of the street I’d pop into the shop and get a piercing or flash tattoo.
Sunday was a day of rest.
Boochiecoo@reddit
Yeah Thursday “straight night!”
And going to gay bars to avoid sleazy men (I’m cis female, look bi, am bi)
Instead of today’s mental health awareness and access to care, we had sweating it out to Joy Division, which may have saved my life
RhodeReddit@reddit
You’ve an amazing memory. I can’t even remember where I saw some of my major live bands perform, never mind recalling dance club deets.
Sockm0nkey@reddit
Was that Thursday nights at Rich’s in Houston?
Organic_Quarter_9848@reddit
We didn't have our phone in our hand. What else is there to say.
trivialempire@reddit
I don’t know. I don’t go out clubbing today.
lithiopain@reddit
I remember leaving our coats in the car no matter what the Michigan weather was, so we wouldn't have them smelling like smoke forever afterwards
Boochiecoo@reddit
Yep!!! running full speed from the car and shivering
Boochiecoo@reddit
But then the cold air felt amazing after dancing and sweating for hours
spargel_gesicht@reddit
Or getting beer spilled on them!
phunny-words@reddit
Every guy smelled like Drakkar or CK1, girls smelled like Eternity and hair spray. penny beer was typically on a week night, smoke machines and laser lights were everywhere.
Wonderful_Charity411@reddit
Polo sport or CK One
QueenPeggyOlsen@reddit
Joop. Yum!
Boochiecoo@reddit
I’m 18 in November 1989 in the Midwest. I come up from the basement club (the campus ones weren’t 21+ til midnight)after dancing for hours. I see my best friend and huge snowflakes start floating down onto our faces as “I touch roses” by book of love plays
randabarand@reddit
Totally forgotten. Immediately went to YouTube to pull up I Touch Roses. Ty
Boochiecoo@reddit
💗💗💗💗
TombofromKoriko@reddit
I was going out clubbing and bar hopping in my 20s in the 1990s. I am not going out clubbing or bar hopping in my 50s in the 2020s. I can't compare them.
pixiegod@reddit
Smaller events…
I went to the second EDC for instance and it was a massive 4/5k people iirc…maybe less….
RoosterSauce_123@reddit
Everything was word-of-mouth. No social media, no phones. Maybe a poster you saw in a random spot. You made plans to meet somewhere and that was it. If your friends didn’t make it, you waited until the next day to find out why.
Woody_Roger@reddit
No. 1 difference: Im not there these days. Haven't been for years.
Wolf_Dog_10@reddit
In the 90’s. Lots of smoke, lots of drinking, lots of dancing, and I got groped regularly while at bars/clubs
fiddlenutz@reddit
Ugh. The smoke. Coming home smelling like an ashtray and you could smell it from across a room…
Wolf_Dog_10@reddit
Yes! And my hair. Had to shower immediately after getting home
contructpm@reddit
In the 90s we had a little circuit we did. Different bars with live music different nights of the week in different areas. Me and one buddy would go out basically 5 nights a week. I’d buy one round he’d buy one each night and we’d talk to and dance with just about anyone. It was definitely fun. It was tough teaching the next day sometimes but we were in our early 20s. Before we were legal I was working for a dj and after the parties I’d meet my friends at one of a couple of bars in queens where they let us in or the limelight if my promoter friend was there. It was a good time. I don’t regret it but I wouldn’t want to do it now hahaha
dstarpro@reddit
Buybacks after every round were standard.
Working_Farmer9723@reddit
If you were a hot girl, maybe. Buybacks were a thing if you went to a more local bar where you could sit at the bar. Drop a few twenties on the bar and the bartender would just take from that when you ordered a round.
dstarpro@reddit
You had to be a regular, yes.
Wonderful_Charity411@reddit
I don’t know what world you grew up in but I have never been to a bar where the bar tender would give you a free drink after every one. We had one that would hook us up regularly but she eventually got canned.
dstarpro@reddit
Fair, this was the owner at my local spot. It was usually drink three. Now they don't do buybacks at all.
Wonderful_Charity411@reddit
No they weren’t
dstarpro@reddit
Yes. They were.
Rory-liz-bath@reddit
It was awesome! However I have no idea what clubbing is like today as I don’t do that anymore , we could smoke , do drugs , we dressed up and danced all night to 60,s and 70,s music , after hours clubs were awesome, no cell phones , no cameras , no problems !
transhumanist2000@reddit
Since I still hit the night life in large metro areas, I can tell you . The clubs/bars are much more diverse today. The music is completely different. The dance/ meat market clubs are kinda a thing of the past. Communal recreational drug use is a thing of the past, due to fent contamination. I would say cigarettes are a the past, but not entirely, it's kinda making a comeback. The social media trope that Gen z are disaffected and staring at their phones at bars is not accurate . Last thing, it is way more expensive, today, to hit the night life.
HTLM22@reddit
I still head out to clubs, but not like used to. I kinda a had a sense that cigs were coming back, maybe due to vape backlash?
SuzyQ4416@reddit
Fake IDs were often used. I still have mine from 86.
yothisismetrying@reddit
My fake id was a picture of my best friend, who was usually standing right next to me, she had blonde hair and blue eyes, I had brown hair and brown eyes. It worked 9/10 times.
Wonderful_Charity411@reddit
I made my own by printing a white piece of paper and just laminating over my Princeton student ID…..never had a problem with it
SugarsBoogers@reddit
They’re was a big lounge scene in the early 90s. Couches, 60s lounge music (Esquivel, Herb Alpert), dim lighting. I preferred these because you could actually talk to people. Not having phones meant extended conversations that went until last call. Bumps in the bathroom helped that too.
Also, it was SO normal to strike up conversations with whoever was nearby. They might join you and your friends at your table or wherever you were going next.
Time Out magazine was invaluable for finding out what was going on. And The Village Voice. And word of mouth. You never knew what the night held past the first destination.
The best thing was breakfast/brunch the next day with other friends where everyone shared the stories of the night . We didn’t just know where our friends were, so it was fun to hear all the spinoff tales.
And the smoke.
HTLM22@reddit
Agree. I still go to clubs (but less now in my 50s). And I will try to talk with people but it is much more hit or miss and ephemeral.
chirpingfrog@reddit
I don’t know what they’re like now but in the 80s, teenagers could get in the door and drugs everywhere. I was 15 when I started going to dance clubs in Austin TX and then my older sister took me to the Stark club in Dallas in 1986. Ecstasy was legal and it was everywhere in that club.
OPOG1016@reddit
Stark Club was wild. Only went there once.
OPOG1016@reddit
Fantastic. No cellphones just vibes. Drink specials, women getting free entry amd GOOD music. I haven't been clubbing since my 20s but judging the club scene from social media posts, Im glad I experienced clubbing in the early 90s. Fish Dance and Lizard Lounge were my spots in Dallas. 💃💃Also women used to go out dressed more comfortable than they do now.
Medusa_oops@reddit
Didn't have to worry about your drink being spiked.
emmaapeel@reddit
Eh. I once had someone drop something into my drink at a private local dive club. Fortunately, I noticed it and alerted the bartender.
Lakewoodian@reddit
Those were the days! Our entertainment district had multiple clubs along the river here in Cleveland and it was a blast hitting up different vibes from one to the next. Hip hop? Check. 80’s dance? Yep. Electronica? You betcha. Whatever your mood you could find it. They’ve tried to replicate it, but it isn’t quite the same. Too clean. Too corporate. Too sterile.
emmaapeel@reddit
I miss the Flats. It was always a good time when I was in town visiting my NE Ohioan friends.
Lakewoodian@reddit
The Flats of the turn of the century were amazing! We lived in Lakewood so we were able to be there in minutes. Thousands of people every Thursday-Saturday. The Basement, Beach Club, 1148, Rum Runners, Noise Makers. And the Odeon! Can’t forget about the live music.
emmaapeel@reddit
Peobody's Down Under, too.
One of my besties lived in Lakewood back in the late 90s-early 2000s, so we went to all of the best music venues when I was in town.
Pittsburgh, my adopted hometown of nearly thirty years, also was a heck of a lot if fun back in those days, too. Metropol, Rosebud, The Attic, Havana (salsa night!), the bars on the floating Boardwalk complex, Pegasus (not gay, but it was a great place to dance if you were a lady with gay friends), not to mention the various after hours clubs...so many fun memories.
sandtomyneck@reddit
In the late 80s, I had the option of small bars, sports bars that allowed bands, and concert clubs/dance clubs. Many of these were in walking distance. At the time there were a lot of local bands covering songs by Journey and The Who and some of the large sports bars had these types of rock bands every Friday and Saturday night. The clubs were always bustling and even when bands were not that great, people enjoyed going to play pool or air hockey and it was sometimes fun for audiences to heckle bands that sucked.
There were a a lot more garage and low level bands that got gigs at smaller bars and sometimes the bands members were to young to drink. Often there were local battle of the bands where groups from junior high or high schools would compete.
There were well known concert clubs that would advertise shows on fliers around the city and on local college stations and they would book various genres of music. Sometimes they would have dance club nights.
I frequented metal and rock shows and there was very high energy back then, In the 90s I went to some dance club nights and there was a very high energy and the raves were intense.
I spent a lot of times in mosh pits when seeing bands like Slayer or Overkill at clubs and I couldn't dance so I would watch other people dance if I was at a dance club.
In my opinion across the board, the energy level now is much less than it was in the 80s and 90s.
If you watch current DJs on Youtube and one I love is Book Club Radio, the music I love, but the audience is now where near as energetic as I witnessed in the 90s rave scene. I'm sure there are many youtube clips.
Model_27@reddit
A lot of the bars had live music. Local and regional rock bands were common. Cover charges were about $5. On weeknights $1 longnecks and $2 pitchers of draft were common.
Lots of mixed drinks like a buttery nipple, a screaming orgasm, sex on the beach and various other fad drinks. If you asked for those today, they probably wouldn’t know what you’re talking about.
Most people drank to the point of intoxication.
Boochiecoo@reddit
White liiiiiiinnneees run in through my miiiinnndds
G_Town_Co@reddit
Born 1968. Walked into clubs underage in 1987 in Atlanta Georgia. The drugs were easier to get (and were not cut with what-not) and everyone was eager to share. The music was damn sure better. Girls danced with girls who danced with guys who danced with guys. And you either knew someone who got you into the door for free or you knew someone who got you into the VIP rooms or the legendary Drag shows. Nothing like it. It will probably never be like that again.
wormil@reddit
Atlanta in the 80s-90s was incredible. Went to Makos a lot.
lemonsuprize@reddit
This. Drugs were so easy to get. They were actually fun and not a potential death sentence. And there’s HIV. Somehow, I’m negative.
smikkelhut@reddit
In the 90s the bouncer could deny you entrance for wearing sneakers or a t-shirt.
wormil@reddit
People lining up along bars while bartenders walked down the bar pouring tequila in their mouths like some twisted mama bird feeding her chicks.
Lots of dancing with people you didn't know. (Maybe that's still a thing, I don't club anymore). Free beads handed out to guys -- chicks would flash like Mardi Gras. A way too young looking girl in pigtails that would sit on your lap on a giant indoor swing for $10. Waitresses would tie a guy to a chair, pull down jeans and tease him for his bday. We would all laugh because he have an obvious boner. Girls standing on speakers dancing. Mosh pits that were violent but with manners (arms and elbows tucked in).
Volleyball or horseshoes at bigger bars.
SuzyQ4416@reddit
Smoky. Bars were so smoky. Even if you didn’t smoke, it was everywhere.
Mysterious-Ganache-7@reddit
Foam dancing in the mid 90's was super popular. Lots of long Island ice teas and sex on the beach were drinks of choice.
wormil@reddit
Lots of Long Islands, its a wonder I'm alive.
mnreco@reddit
I have no idea what it is like today.
Hell, I don't know what it was like ten years ago.
And I will never spill details about how awesome it was in the late 80s/early 90s
fnordlife@reddit
i’m told nobody dances these days.
MaryAnnZhlotnik@reddit
Probably because they’re afraid of being recorded and becoming a meme.
freerangeXkid@reddit
First rule of clubbing/barhopping
GroovyGmaIvy@reddit
I was clubbing in the Mediterranean in my 20s in the 90s.
phunny-words@reddit
So Club Med…👍
GroovyGmaIvy@reddit
Club Navy
Worth_Sink_4782@reddit
No cellphones, no fear of being videotaped by strangers.
herrtoutant@reddit
Friday happy hours usually included free food buffett. honest 2 for 1 drinks. No one on phones. You went out to get laid.
BenefitAdvanced@reddit
No phones and 20 bucks got me through the night.
ProfessorKinney@reddit
So true
Ashur_Bens_Pal@reddit
I spent my early 20s in Wichita Falls, Texas and there were two club scenes there. Upscale honky tonks that had college nights and clubs that tried to be big city clubs and were always empty.
Come my mid to late 20s. I'm in Dallas. It's the 90s. Lower Greenville and Deep Ellum had some great clubs, but I was too busy working to go.
Chocol8Cheese@reddit
White powders were ok. Now it could be instant death or face eating.
gsr852@reddit
Stream of consciousness… I started going to nightclubs in late 1989, and there is no comparison. I watched as the club scene slowly died out. There was a different club to go to every night of the week, and on the weekends, you couldn’t go wrong no matter which club you chose. After hours clubs kept it going until the sun came up (there was nothing worse than walking outside and being blinded by the light). The clubs had dress codes. Some clubs had someone who would stand outside, and pick people from the crowd deciding who could come in based on your look. Clubs had VIP cards, and if you learned that it was about who you knew not what you knew, the right person would comp you a VIP card. There were clubs that had VIP rooms, so once again it was about who you were or who you knew. In the bigger clubs, nothing was better than getting up on the floor speakers and dancing your ass off. There was something about the smell of perfume mixed with cigarette smoke as you made your way through the crowd that actually smelled good (I know that sounds crazy. You had to be there).
lewisfairchild@reddit
smoke. lots and lots more smoke. you’d come home sometimes with your eyes burning and clothes wreaking from smoke.
slackass-Pat@reddit
Way cheaper than it is now!
Automatic-Evidence26@reddit
Cannot answer, I hav the not set foot in a ' club ' 30 years
FamiliarAnt4043@reddit
Precisely. I'm 50 years old, been married for nearly 30 of that time and have no desire to go to a club. This, like most folks our age, I wouldn't have a frame of reference for any changes.
Automatic-Evidence26@reddit
Yeah long gone are dollar beers
Powerful-Bug3769@reddit
Fun. No phones.
And nobody believes me but we had under 21 clubs too!
wolfysworld@reddit
We had a teen club in our town! Many bars were 18 and over, I havnt been to a dance club in 20 years so I dont know if its still the same.
hawksmarinerz@reddit
lots of live music and dancing. being underage usually didn't matter, I could buy alcohol at 16 and get into bars at 17-18. It was great just to go get sweaty and dance and have fun. I'm glad I was young back then.
wolfysworld@reddit
I had a fake id and knew the places that “wouldn’t notice “. Had fun dancing and saw some good shows.
Breklin76@reddit
Fucking. Fun. Times.
Saint909@reddit
I loved it! The music was spectacular, the clothes were amazing, and the drugs were much less scary. It was really fun exploring new clubs and bars. Running into different people that you would never encounter during your normal day.
ChicagoBoyStuckinDen@reddit
Lol like we’re still going out to clubs in our mid 50s?
spargel_gesicht@reddit
The last time I recall going to one was a friend’s (not super close, more casual acquaintance) birthday party, I only went because he was super cool (I wasn’t into him, he was too cool plus married) and I thought I’d meet other cool people there. He and his wife got there like an hour after he said he’d be there and I was appalled at how nobody recognized the song which was a techno remix of … Break My Stride, maybe? I dunno, but I felt very out of place and realized clubbing is kind of my nightmare now.
ThemeDependent2073@reddit
Exactly. Can't compare because there's not enough ben-gay afterwards.
But about 10 years ago, my favorite old club had a reunion party. It was a blast. One of the old DJs spun the music and we danced all night long. Club 6400 at 6400 Richmond in Houston. I went to 2 of their reunion parties with some of my old clubbing crew.
No-Effort5109@reddit
I’m curious what it is like now. Our music was better back in the day so I can’t imagine it’s that much fun.
ChicagoBoyStuckinDen@reddit
To be fair we think our music was better just like the boomers thought theirs was better. Imagine what Z and Alpha will listen to.
pangysmerf@reddit
Came here to say this.
Doc-Milsap@reddit
I don’t know. I don’t go to bars and clubs anymore.
Ok-Watercress-2538@reddit
My favorite club from my youth was called Visage, late 80s. Very dark and sweaty. Lots and lots of Doc Martens and clove cigarettes. They mostly played things like Nitzer Ebb and Front242. Everybody danced. It was magical.
Lilabelle18@reddit
Sounds just like my favorite club in the late 80’s. People would DANCE. There was frequently ecstasy involved. This makes me nostalgic. Might listen to some Nitzer Ebb right now. If only I had a clove cigarette on hand.
Felicity_Calculus@reddit
I miss clove cigarettes tbh
Toomuchselftanner@reddit
Same. And they dont sell them anymore, as far as I can tell
CurlyCupcake1231@reddit
It really depended on what clubs you went to. There was pretty much something for everyone…country line dancing, disco, underground raves, dark and dingy bars with alt bands, hip hop…etc. But regardless of where you went, you always came home smelling like you just smoked 1000 cigs.
ntg160@reddit
Cat Club Downtown Beirut King Tut’s wahwah
Starkville@reddit
DOWNTOWN BEIRUT!
ntg160@reddit
Kindred soul!
theblisters@reddit
JFC I haven't thought about that in decades
Dubphotek@reddit
Still go out from time to time, usually to see the same DJ’s I was into back then.
Things are a lot more electronic and less smoky these days, and people don’t seem to mix as well. But that could be an age thing.
Also, the trend towards VIP sections further divides, not a fan.
NastyOlBloggerU@reddit
It was a lot more relaxed and fun. Hard drugs weren't as prevalent so there wasn't as much 'agro'....
Toomuchselftanner@reddit
What is agro?! Man Im old...
NastyOlBloggerU@reddit
Mate, everyone seems to want to be 'the big man'. The number of times I'd heard, after someone has beaten the shite out of someone, 'he disrespected me' when they did nothing wrong.....
OddSand7870@reddit
No idea what the bar/club scene is like today. But back in the day, lots of cigarette smoke, lots of drugs, and lots and lots of freaky time.
Prestigious_Menu7541@reddit
Lots of clove cigarettes. Much more into the experience instead of taking selfies.
knoxcos@reddit
Lots and lots of Zima and Bud Ice.
Important-Price9416@reddit
🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣🤣
MuricanPoxyCliff@reddit
Omg zima
Fritzo2162@reddit
Lots of thump music, lots of drugs, lots of sweaty people crammed into gross dance floors, lots of hookups.
Alamohermit@reddit
I can't compare, the last time I wnt clubbing was 21 years ago.
AbjectHyena1465@reddit
Dancing barefoot and fancy free at 4 building story clubs.
At other divey shit show places, the floors were so sticky, your shoe would literally get stuck to the floor and you had to dig it out or you were barefoot.
Went to the darker artsier punk bars and hung out with actual art artists. Just everyone jived and were cool together!
Alsways took skittles and put them in peoples beers when they weren’t looking. In a few minutes it gave you plenty of time to hang out and then get away. Entire neee would foam up and over flowed you couldn’t stop it.
Made a lot of friends in drunk bathroom lines!
Mem used super corny pick up lines!
Indoor smoking was soooooo fun.
Can’t even imagine doing anything like that today!
britelyph@reddit
I was a teen/ twentysomething club goer in the mid 80's to mid 90's. Started in Seattle. Monastery and Skoochies were the dual pinnacles of that early-mid 80's techno, newwave, dance-disco era for me. Would usually go out wed.- sat. nights. Yes, even on school nights. I had a 1am curfew on school nights. And on Friday i'd leave and not come back home until Sunday evening.
Smokes, Pot, Cloves, MDA, X, wine coolers, and R&R were the substances most often used/abused. Depeche Mode, Ministry, The Cure, Blancmange, Bauhaus, Siouxsie, Duran Duran, Adam Ant and many many others were on my self made radio-broadcasted playlists made by taping over the slots at the top of a cassette tape.
The overall feeling was freedom. Freedom from parental restrictions, from school related clicques, from agenda making or brand building. Freedom for making friends outside of my small town bubble. No phones meant having to rely on maps for directions and acquaintances for information.
I dressed like a mix of newromantic and batcave. Spiky hair using mousses and aquanet hairspray. Mixing leather, sparkles, scarves, ripped jeans and, since it was Seattle, lots of flannel accents. One of my favorite necklaces was a stolen MercedesBenz hood ornament. Shoes by John Fluevog were a staple. With the occasional bandana or fingerless lace glove for accent.
By the 90's Skoochies and Monastery had closed and made way for City Beat, the Underground, Club Broadway and eventually into Neighbors. And House music started becoming a thing. Still, got to see lots of bands at Linda's and Crocodile Cafe.
By 1994 I was living in SanFrancisco. And it was a sexual awakening for me. By 1996 was living in Laguna Beach, CA and got married. Or at least committed partnering since marriage wasn't legal then.
G_Town_Co@reddit
Dang that sounds like a great time. And your memory of it much clearer than my time in ATL!
StrangeCrimes@reddit
In the 90s our social lives pretty much revolved around the local music scene. Punk, Country, Ska, Metal, Honkey Tonk, and anything else you can imagine. It didn't matter. If you were good people came. It was great.
gotchafaint@reddit
Well we were all minors ordering gin and tonics, nobody cared. Numbers in Houston, mid 80s. Punk gigs in the industrial area and abandoned houses. Feel blessed to have been young pre-computer/internet/smart phone. Didn’t have to perform for instagram, just got to be wild youth.
Halflight99@reddit
Anyone from DC remember Tracks? Fifth Column?
Felicity_Calculus@reddit
Yes!! And the 9:30 Club and Poseurs
Halflight99@reddit
I do not remember Poseurs!
Felicity_Calculus@reddit
It closed in 1989, maybe that is why?
AnasandSF@reddit
Fifth Column yep
ADDaddict@reddit
If my memory serves me correctly , Fifth Column was right across the street from the original 9:30 club.
Halflight99@reddit
Yes!!! RIP old 9:30 Club - skinheads fighting in the alley and the scary basement stairs!
Weak_Work_3589@reddit
I was stationed in Germany 92-94 and the club scene was, as the kids say today, lit! Loved the punk and techno ones.
JDPierson@reddit
it was great. i quit going to clubs when more and more children started hanging out
Ok_Avocado8448@reddit
It was a shit ton less expensive if you knew where to go. Other than that I don’t remember much tbh
Zero_Cool-94@reddit
Everyone was basically in the same area - no vip sections, no tables. Different rooms with different music, no phones, just everyone in the moment (for the most part). Of course assholes would fight and people could get too fucked up drinking or druggin but most nights ended well.
gardenpartier@reddit
How would I know what clubbing or bar culture is today to compare? I haven’t been out clubbing since then haha
Infinite_stardust@reddit
Mid-to-late 80s in TJ on Revolución. We were in high school in San Diego so we'd drive across the border on Friday and Saturdays (sometimes Wednesdays) with our fake IDs and hit up Mr. Crown's and The House, especially. $1 shots. $1 or $2 beers, I don't remember. Loud music, lots of smoke, big bar in the middle, dance floor in the back. Lots of Depeche Mode and New Order playing. Seeing lots of other people from your school and other local schools. Those hot dog vendors on the corners, the little kids selling chicle, taxis offering rides back to the border (if you had walked across) for $1 a person. Good times.
I have no idea about night clubs nowadays. We got home from a dinner last night at 9pm and thought, "Wow, it's late". 😂
ChiliSama@reddit
The House was a good time. Being military meant we usually had to be back over the border by midnight, or you’re staying until morning.
owzleee@reddit
We were generally coked off our tits and talking absolute bollocks. We felt very cool I think we were probably arseholes.
wegotthisonekidmongo@reddit
Back then you could glirt with women and not face jail time soon after for being predatory. Huge difference.
Fantastic_Golf_7154@reddit
7 nights a week...even in my little town. As a woman, I brought my cigs, and enough money for my first drink. Never paid a cover charge and never paid for a drink after my first one. Dance and drink all night. The get something to eat, head home, pass tf out and do it all over again the next day.
Today's 20 somethings couldn't handle that 😂😂😂
Catfiche1970@reddit
Me.. Chicago. The 90s. And you knew which bar had specials, like $2 Zima night.
Slow-Objective-7440@reddit
NYC bar / club closing time was 4am. Dance and drink all night, go to the diner (Disco fries a must) and then shower and go to work
Pristine_Job_7677@reddit
I was a limelight tunnel Roxy gal but can’t tell you comparisons since I’m now a bed by 12 gal
Yidboy@reddit
Everybody smoked. We used to have coats and stuff that we only wore to bars because we’d come home reeking of cigarette smoke.
liddybuckfan@reddit
We went to this bar after work in the early 90s and it had zero ventilation. The smoke would just fall out of my hair when I washed it. I didn't even smoke but it was still all over me.
GeoHog713@reddit
I was going to bars to see bands in the 90s, but I was definitely underage!!
DiamondContent2011@reddit
It was INCREDIBLE!!!! You had all genres of club music from New Jack Swing to Latin Freestyle to Techno to House to EDM. You could literally club 24+ hrs straight. One of my favorite drinks was Long Island Iced Tea, it was $3..... 🤣. Most mixed drinks were ~$5.
Women would actually pull dudes onto the dance floor when "their song" came on. You couldn't sit still anyway for the vast majority of the music had beats that KNOCKED. If you could dance, however, you were gonna eat WELL!!! Most of us just practiced steps from watching music videos on MTV or Video Music Box or Soul Train.... 🤣
JoyceOBcean@reddit
I moved to San Diego in 1981 at 20 years old and lived in Pacific Beach right next to the ocean. We would follow the happy hour specials around town. Monday was Tio Leo’s which had a full on dinner of free tacos and quesadillas during happy hour. Wednesday we would go to Diego‘s for dancing and their $1.00 margaritas. You couldn’t have more than four or your hand didn’t work anymore to grab the drink. Thursday was Moose McGillicuddy‘s for Long Island iced teas. Friday was the Roxy in El Cajon where there was great dancing and then we go to Bob’s Big Boy after at 2 o’clock in the morning for a nice big burger. Saturday night more dancing after a day at the beach. Getting in at 3 o’clock in the morning on a week night and then getting up at 7:00 am to go to work hung over as shit. I don’t know how I did it all those years.
Infinite_stardust@reddit
Tio Leo's!
OkWinp@reddit
r/PacificBeach needs more stories like these from the old heads
AnasandSF@reddit
NYC late ‘90s. Crowded bars, lots of cigarette smoke, hit the clubs after midnight. Dance til dawn. What happens in the club stays in the club. Stumble out at dawn.
Go home, hair and clothes full of cigarette smoke (gross,) fall into bed, wake up at 2pm.
Rinse and repeat
Save-theZombies@reddit
There were enough clubs, (cheap)concerts, and bars there was something to do every night. I remember there being a lot of hallucinogenics available too.
trelene@reddit
I was going out clubbing well before my 20s in the 80s. That's probably a pretty big difference. Starting going out at 16 maybe 17 I'm not positive, either way definitely below the right age (which btw was 18 in my state at that time) but the the age verification was a much more casual thing, more a lookover in most cases. There weren't a lot of times me and my girlfriends didn't get in to wherever we went; I can't remember one time tbh; but that might be a fault in my recollection. I do recall once when we brought our two guy friends, they didn't get in. Not sure how much of that was gender or the intentionally older-skewed makeup we girls were wearing.
Fair-Wishbone-1190@reddit
I went to a few clubs. I like bars more. But one time we went to Minneapolis and hit some clubs there. I just remember a drag show was going on and then the later it got, the dancefloor was packed and smoky. Not from cigarettes but a fog machine. It was pretty fun until we realized we had no way back to the hotel. Luckily someone was kind enough to give us a ride. I was kinda nervous. This was before Uber and Lyft. The taxis were too busy.
But overall it was fun. I was never a big club guy tho.
MissPlum66@reddit
I remember spending $12 on two drinks at Area and thinking that was outrageously expensive.
melnve@reddit
Used to go out every night Thursday - Sunday, sometimes go straight to work next day after washing off the makeup lol. Lived in London in the mid-90s so pub every night, clubs on weekend.
CoachOpen1977@reddit
It was lame back then at least in my area, a cluster of university towns with a ton of bars and clubs but none of them were appealing to me or my alternative, non-college friend group.
The establishments were all pretty basic and vanilla. Overpriced, pumping lame pop and or country music and full of preppy dudes and sorostitutes.
I was more for hanging out at peoples’ houses/parking lots with a case of beer and some smoke. No cover, all I can drink for the price of 1-2 bar drinks, good music, the best company, no last call, and best of all, after-booty basically guaranteed.
Gullible-Shirt-6145@reddit
Limelight, the tunnel, Palladium, Webster Hall. Take me back, please!!!!!
AnasandSF@reddit
Hi ‘90s NYC!
largos7289@reddit
Couldn't tell ya, last time i was in a club type o negative was playing. I think that was back in 2007.
bayridgeguy09@reddit
1995 random NYC friday from memory.
10pm: Get in the shower and get clean, throw on some Girbaud Jeans, a Polo Teddy Bear sweater, a heavy silver chain with matching bracelet, and the beef with broccoli Timbs. Spray some Joop cologne.
11pm: Meet the homies on the corner, take the train to 14th street.
11:30: Walk down to 3rd ave, feel the music vibrations starting as you walk past University Pl. See that giant Palladium marquis all lit up, with the crowd of people under it. There was no line, just a crowd and you had to be selected to get in. Try to get Afrodite's attention as she always hooked us neighborhood kids up, and we walk in after around 30 min in the crowd.
12am: Walk inside, wait 15 min for you boys to try the guest lists and see if we had the right color tickets from the week before lol. Go get frisked and pay.
Then its up those light up stairs, music is PUMPING, at this time of night they still playing dance music.
Get some drinks, take a few laps around the club, its a really large space with a giant dancefloor with a stage at the end, the walls light up, there are 2 giant spinning tv/lazer things in the air.
Find the dealers by that first set of couches, get some of the worlds largest X pills. Pop em. Head up to the 2nd floor past the bar past the gyroscope ride, past the ball pit, and up into the stadium seating to smoke a blunt while we wait fo the X to kick in.
1am: Main floor still playing dance/house music so we head down to the engine room in the basement, engine room is tiny but POPPPIN, its full of foam just about up to your chest and its just a sweaty mess of people grinding and dancing to the latest hip hop.
2am: Head out of the engine room (damn my timbs are clean as shit rn haha), back to main floor, someones having a party in the Michael Todd room up above the stadium seating, so we head up there, more drinks more dancing. Main room is switching to hip hop so we head there.
Dancefloor is PACKED to the point you cant move, but everyones have a great time, whole place is a sweaty beautiful mess.
3am: main floor switches to reggae, they close the upstairs and bring out that moveable cloth ceiling over the dancefloor so now it feels like a different club, more intimate as you cant see all the way to the celing.
4am: Last call, lights on, boooooooooos from the crowd, then down them sketcky stairs with the lights, so many girls falling down drunk trying to navigate these, filter out onto 14th st, we prob hit up Tads for a shitty steak.
5am: after some food and whos still talking trying to get a number we jump back on the train. trains run like shit at this time of night.
6am: walk down the block see grandma going to church as im stumbling in.
Main difference to now? Everyones just there in the moment, no phones, just dancing & sweating and meeting people.
AnasandSF@reddit
Is that walk of shame in front of grandma part real? Classic
AnasandSF@reddit
“vs. today” lol
totallyjaded@reddit
Like others, I don't know what it's like today. I haven't been inside a club in 20 years. I remember the last time, because my wife wanted to go to a club I used to be a regular at. We went. People hit on us separately. We both went home kind of mad at the other for not shooing away our admirers sooner.
Prior to that, I had been going out since I was 19. In Metro Detroit, popping over the bridge or tunnel to Windsor Ontario was nothing, and the drinking age there is 19. Back then, Windsor had an amazing club scene. Pretty much any niche you could want had a dedicated club. But there was also your standard "drink and screw" clubs and bars all over. Relatively few had cover charges. My favorite, hands down, was Aardvark Blues Cafe, which usually had live music. Weekends were bands who played stuff like Morphine and earlier Bosstones.
You showed up. You drank without getting torn down (Aardvark was more of a local hangout than the places than catered to 19 year-olds.). You met people. Maybe you went home with them.
I went to more Detroit bars and clubs once I was 21. City Club, Luna, etc. Dipped my toes into some gay bars with gay friends, and that was always incredible for trance and electronic music. Not so many girls at Menjo's or Cobalt, even fewer hetero girls, but the ones that were there knew without question that you didn't have any hangups about their friends. I did well with guys who were into bears, and was always up-front and cordial ("Wow. I am so flattered. Thank you so much. I'm here with some friends, and would love to hang out, but I want to be up front and let you know that I'm into girls.")
If you were just looking to get laid, it was like shooting fish in a barrel. I wasn't that attractive, and didn't have any problems finding someone when I was in the mood.
I'd imagine people today aren't doing that. Having to seem normal and interesting with total strangers.
WeberStreetPatrol@reddit
Immaculate.
Highway2Chill@reddit
Stoned immaculate
Sorry_Survey_9600@reddit
Happy hour always included food. Chicken wings, finger sandwiches, smoked fish dip etc. 25 cents for a game of pool. 50 cent drafts. The bars were full of like minded people. Really easy to hook up. Dem were da days.
auntieup@reddit
I loved a free happy hour buffet. Those things kept me alive in my early post-college years.
Sorry_Survey_9600@reddit
Yep awesome times
Sorry_Survey_9600@reddit
Yep they were my meal of the day. I moved out of my parents house when I was 18. I did come back once about 2 years later, stayed with mom and dad for about 8 months. Then got married and divorced (21 years later) but hey the single day’s with the free buffets kept me alive. lol. Blessed to have that crutch.
oops3719@reddit
Smoky and loud.
Jackdawgedmyfoot@reddit
Lots of cigarette smoke. So much smoke. It burned the eyes! lol
JenLiv36@reddit
I was at gay clubs so my compare and contrast probably wouldn’t be what you are looking for.
The big difference for me was two fold.
1.) We had underage clubs until we hit 21. I started going The City Night Club at 14. If you really want to see the difference you can still find the videos. I’m sure on YouTube still has The City TV program up somewhere from Portland Oregon.
2.) No Cellphones. We were so present. There was no cringe culture so I would expect the younger gen would die of second hand embarrassment watching us.
3.) Political Activism. Being a lesbian in the time period meant we needed to lean on each other to survive so clubbing was were you met up to get everything from free condoms for gay men at the door, help each other IRL when someone needs a safe place or a group to protect them. Help for all the kids who had been thrown out for being gay, gathering for political rallies against people trying to take our rights or keep us from gaining any.
4.) PDA. I’m still shocked at how uncomfortable the younger gen is with any public displays of affection.
5.) Freedom. Underage and 21+ we were just more free than I think you could ever even imagine. No dating apps so you needed to walk up to a person in their group of friends and shoot your shot. The intermingling of strangers is something that doesn’t happen the way it use to. You walked into the club with a group and made a whole new group of friends while there. We danced with pure abandon that I just don’t see in today’s club goers.
Prestigious_Ad_1037@reddit
Cellphones definitely keep the younger gens from being mentally connected and physically involved with real people.
But I also believe us GenXers had more reckless abandon and the freedom to be ourselves because we were protected. We didn’t have to worry about everyone in the club being able to instantly send out pics and videos worldwide.
I guess it’s also because we were GenX. We were desensitized because we felt powerless against AIDS and Nuclear Armageddon. We were watched the Jonestown Massacre, Challenger Explosion, Apartheid, and Reagan assassination attempt on TV after latch keying our way in. That didn’t really matter tho because there was no awareness or help with our mental health.
SeaDawgs@reddit
Reading this it hit me—people probably don’t let loose in a fun way as much for fear of being recorded.
Ruddy_Bottom@reddit
I have no idea what it’s like today, so I can’t compare. I went out every Thursday to Saturday and a few other days from the late 80s until the late 90s. Now I fall asleep on the couch at 7pm.
cutsryd@reddit
People talked and danced...no phones 👌
togocann49@reddit
Both were smokey as all hell. The clubbing side was focused on getting wrecked and dancing all night. Maybe have a civilized one on one fight. Bar was about sitting around with friends, getting wrecked. Then maybe get into a bit wilder, but usually one on one fight. Methods and meaning of getting wrecks was more about group you ran with rather than a club or bar thing (basically drugs were widespread for those who wanted them).
stuffmikesees@reddit
Yes I was at the age of just starting to regular go to bars right before the no smoking inside laws started popping up, and I can remember thinking they were silly at the time. Like if you didn't want to smell all smokey and gross, don't go out! And then they went into effect and the first time I was in a no smoking bar I IMMEDIATELY knew I was wrong. It's so much better lol.
togocann49@reddit
As a smoker it was a pain in the ass, but more so in winter, as some places had the smoking patio (terrace/rooftop) which meant mild weather less if a pain in the ass. Still didn’t take me long to realize that drinking in Smokey bars is how I started smoking—bum off friends while drinking, then tired of being a bug, bought my own. Then I stared smoking when not drinking cause I had the smokes leftover from night before, basically I was hooked right there, and the bar culture was a big contributor.
some_dude3645@reddit
I can still remember getting cigarettes from a vending machine at a bar. Then they were gone. Then no indoor smoking. Went from "here's a cigarette " to "get out of here "
togocann49@reddit
Many bars near me declared themselves “clubs” to circumvent the rules, but they closed those loopholes soon enough. The vending machines stayed in other spots for a while (like bowling alley), but disappeared as well
lexicruiser@reddit
Crocodile Cafe downtown Seattle. Heck any of the bars in seattle in the early 90’s were bastion of music.
Smoky, hope you run into your friends since nobody had cell phones. Cheap drinks, cheap cover, discovering a band you hadn’t heard of but went because your friend said “you’ll love it”. Making friends, losing friends, and breakfast at 2am after the bars close.
Agent7619@reddit
Met my wife at a club in Chicago (Excalibur) where she was one of the bartenders.
If I ask nicely, she will still bring me a beer.
So pretty much the same as the 90s I guess?
Halflight99@reddit
I have no idea bc I don’t go out today. I think phones probably changed the culture a ton!
Street_Coyote_179@reddit
I went clubbing a lot in the 90s.. started in cheesy student nights which were all 50p double vodkas and dancing to pop and indie. Moved on to rock nights which had similarly cheap alcohol but more grunge music and moshing. It was friendly, no phones, lots of drunken happy people just enjoying the music.
Then I discovered dance music and had a decade of amazing times at clubs, free parties in the countryside and warehouse parties. Made new friends every night, hugged loads of random folk.. the atmosphere was magical.. everyone just so into the music (and the drugs obvs!).. no judgement.. just good vibes. We were going out dancing 3 times a week.. loads of after parties and road trips to random places.. some clubs we would know pretty much everyone there.. it was like a big family. We’d do weekend trips to London to go clubbing there, I’d go on my own sometimes.. I loved adventures and knew there would always be some new friends to make.. people looked after each other.
Eventually the big dance clubs started to get less popular in the UK, smaller clubs lost their atmosphere.. and I went back to indie nights for a bit. Then had kids and checked out of the clubbing scene for a bit. I’ve done some smaller club nights in my 50s and found it to be friendly but people seem a bit reserved. I’m still looking for the phone free dance floors where people don’t care if they look crazy dancing and just go for it.. really hope they ban phones in more places.
Starkville@reddit
I don’t go clubbing or bar hopping now, so I can’t answer this.
DangerBird-@reddit
What Gen-Xer is still going to clubs? How are we supposed to know the difference?
Prestigious_Ad_1037@reddit
All of the clubs I went to are gone. And by gone, I mean the entire building.
cmparkerson@reddit
A lot more fun and social. Lots of live music.
Schyznik@reddit
You knew when you left your apartment at the beginning of the night that no matter what, when you returned, you would reek like an ashtray.
ShaiHulud1111@reddit
Oh, I smoked back then. It was quite the after party smell, but a little blindness since we all smelled like sweat, booze, cigs, weed, and some god aweful perfume/cologne.
Rodzilla1976@reddit
I can’t compare to today’s clubbing scene but back then this is what sticks out the most:
We usually pre gamed a little and then didn’t hit the bar until 10pm at the earliest.
Smoke everywhere. I’d have to immediately shower when I got home.
No phones and people actually talked, danced and partied hard.
At least 1 fight a night (depending on club) but never any shootings or stabbings.
Lots of X or Coke de
FancyRise@reddit
Pretty much sums it up! We always finished the night with some cheap greasy food. I miss those days we had so much fun.
humble_cyrus@reddit
Fun. I was clubbing in early to mid 90's in San Diego. The only issue I had was all the cigarettes. I think cigs were banned in 1998 or so?
BoundGreef@reddit
The club scene in NYC in the 90s was bananas. Pretty special time and place. More fun than one person should have in a lifetime
Blerkm@reddit
I was visiting and had a chance to go to Limelight not long before it closed in 2001, but I was too hungover from the night before 😢
BoundGreef@reddit
Limelight was insane. Great music, fun people. Floating out of there at sunrise you felt like you could conquer the world. The next day…not so much 😳
Blerkm@reddit
LOL I had similar experiences emerging from club Stereo in Montreal to face people going to church on Sunday mornings.
atomlowe@reddit
Bobby Budweiser was always waiting for you with a cold one.
some_dude3645@reddit
I turned 21 in 1990 in Seattle. It was beyond compare. You could pay $5 for a wristband that let you into 4 different bars, all with live bands. It was mostly early grunge. A few milder, psychedelic bands played here and there too. The few memories left from back then are awesome
Today I don't go to bars. I live in a very small town with only 1 place that ever that ever has live music and that's maybe once a month.
Careless-Two2215@reddit
I can't imagine seeing Alice In Chains where they began! Wow.
some_dude3645@reddit
They were great. Years later a friend and I were hanging out in a bar after work. Sound Garden showed up for a secret show. I've been blessed
Careless-Two2215@reddit
Jealousy meter is flying! I just got into Soundgarden last year! Damn they're all I listen to these days!
some_dude3645@reddit
I hear and remember the cigarettes in bars. I flew a lot when I was a kid and sometimes I'd get off the plane reeking of smoke
ShaiHulud1111@reddit
I did the clubbing scene back then. The Bay Area/SF/San Jose from 1991 to 2001 (my 20s). Lots of molly. Acid Jazz, Techno, EDM, and mixed—one room 80s, one room deep, one dance. Women dancing on pedestals and in “cages” (not stripper) too loud to talk, packed with lines down the street. I guess not too different. We didn’t have phones!!! I was in HS in the 80s, but it seemed the same but less eveolved and more like disco clubs.
I also did LA and sunset strip. Just insanity down there. I have messed up stories.
some_dude3645@reddit
You said the 90s in California. The cocaine was implied lol.
coci222@reddit
I was having this conversation 3 days ago with a friend. There used to be so many places to go out and every single one of them was packed with people to the point you could barely move. Drink specials were great. 10 cent draws, 25 cent draws. Dollar bottles, 2 dollar u call it, shot girls working the crowd. Unlike most of the people in this sub, I've actually been to clubs and bars in the last few years. There's very few places where people dance anymore and the ones that are left aren't as busy as they used to be. Drinks are expensive, the people that are dancing look like they are trying to make a Tik Tok instead of dancing with their friends, and the guys will just go up behind girls and try to grind on them without any sort of introduction. It's so different than it used to be
Ok_Blueberry304@reddit
We would start the night in a bar in Manhattan at 8pm. This place had an all you could drink for beer if you paid a 10 dollar entry at 830. Being in there before 8.30, you just got free beer. We would hustle pool in that bar for a couple hours then pop down the road to a Japanese place for sushi and saki. After that we would pop into a few more clubs just to see what was going on. Around 2am we would stop into the pyramid club (where Madonna got her start) i passed out in there by the way. Once they woke me up we would head back to Hoboken for the after hours clubs, piss in somebodies doorway, then call a cab which we the subsequently threw up in just outside our house. Pretty much basic stuff.
jt2ou@reddit
I was a rock club not a dance bar kind of girl. We were lucky to have 2 that had national Al acts coming through plus all the other concert halls etc. We had hair bands, metal, grunge (90’s) and it was fun. We always recognized the same people in the crowds. That genre had a good following back then. Now dance clubs are largely EDM and I can’t handle that for more than 30 minutes at a time.
rossms16030@reddit
I mean, I’m old and don’t go out to clubs anymore so I can’t really contrast and compare
fuzzybunnyslippers08@reddit
I just went out last night to a rave, and I raved in the 90’s and aughts. I feel like the vibe was more fun back then. The big oversized hats with the bright patterns, the mickey mouse gloves. The techno was fun. People seemed to be more interested in making friends. The rave aesthetic was something you could identify anywhere via now. The smart drinks with what the fuck ever was in them. The feeling of discovery and excitement with this new movement. People danced and danced well more. There were more better dancers, lol.
farter-kit@reddit
This
Rearrangemetilimsane@reddit
You went to a different bar every night depending on the specials. Monday night football specials. Tuesday local radio station .93 beer night. Wednesday night college night .50 draft. Thursday ladies night .01 buys any beer night. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night $1 beer night.
The biggest difference is you didn’t have to keep a hand over your drink constantly.
Aggressive-Bath-1906@reddit
I can’t tell you. The people who went clubbing in the 80s and 90s aren’t the same ones going clubbing today. Lol.
la_winky@reddit
That would require me to have any clue what it looks like now.
EntrancePotential595@reddit
Same.
ohyesiam1234@reddit
Same here! I can tell you about South Beach, Miami in 1995 and Los Angeles after 1997 but not too much after 2005. I am feeling old, but I do have some pretty good stories!
CollectsTooMuch@reddit
I was into metal. Shows were intense. Mosh pits, random violence, drinking, and letting out pent up frustration.
Ive been going to shows lately with some of the same friends, same bands, and even brought my 19 year old daughter to s few shows. They’re sedate. Everybody stays in place and enjoys the music. No fighting, minimal mosh pit activity (don’t want to break a hip, ya know).
We used to get a greasy burger before the show and buy two 40’s before a show and kill the drinks in the parking lot for a buzz because that’s what we could afford. Then maintenance drink in the club. Recently, we went to a really nice Mexican restaurant where we all used valet parking, paid too much for meals on square plates, and drank $25 shots of anejo tequila. We’re all professionals with vacation houses on the mountains or on an island. It’s surreal.
brumac44@reddit
Always get ripped first so you don't have to buy as much bar booze.
PsychologicalRip6998@reddit
Mosh pits and greasy burgers! Love it.
lgallagher24@reddit
20 bucks could get you through an entire weekend — quarter draft nights on Thursday, parties Friday and Saturday where you brought cheap beer.
IcarusForPrez@reddit
Smokey
Immaloner@reddit
I lived in S. Florida in the 80s & 90s so there was lots and LOTS of cocaine. I knew a guy who was a 2 at best...gnarly teeth, greasy hair, just yuck. He would troll Ft Lauderdale strip propositioning girls for a blowjob in exchange for 0.5g of blow. I would guess he had probably a 30% success rate. Grams were $40 a gram at the time so $1 drinks + $20 BJs made for an enjoyable night for him. Bouncers back then didn't give a shit.
747WakeTurbulance@reddit
Squeeze……
Head-Major9768@reddit
I have no idea how to compare. 😂
midlife_dadpulse73@reddit
I dont know. I haven't been to a club in over a decade.
leneuromancer@reddit
Exactly, this is impossible to answer because who TF wants to go clubbing today to compare
19Bronco93@reddit
$ .50 draft (just realized there is no cent symbol on an iPhone)
$1 draft pitchers with a $5 cover charge
747WakeTurbulance@reddit
We danced with each other instead of looking at our phones. You actually talked to the girls.
Probably got laid a lot more often than guys do now.
buhbuhbugtussel@reddit
At the worst there would be a Polaroid of you in an embarrassing situation instead of ten different videos from various angles immediately posted
Bubbafett33@reddit
Smoky.
Every bar had a haze of smoke and you and your clothes left there reeking of it. Next-day-jacket smell was disgusting.
Anomuumi@reddit
Basically everything goes in the washing machine. And if you didn't shower immediately your hair still smells of cigarettes the next day.
cleveland_leftovers@reddit
The shower water would reactivate the smoke smell a second time too.
The whole bathroom would reek.
Anomuumi@reddit
Thanks for unlocking that memory.
BoomDonk@reddit
Exstasy
subhuman_voice@reddit
Nickel Nights with Sambuca
PHOTO500@reddit
Boston. Clarke’s. Legendary.
PsychologicalRip6998@reddit
Absolutely incredible
reesesbigcup@reddit
1980s large Midwest city. There were at least a dozen large dance clubs scattered around town, and as many small ones. All were packed on weekends, played a great mix of older disco, then current dance, and some pop/rock/new wave dance mix songs. People 20s to 40s went to mingle, dance, party, they often hooked up, or started dating.
Myself, when I went I lived out The Smiths song How Soon Is Now. Not the place for me.
Now, the city has doubled in population. from what I read on my local reddit, theres maybe 3 or 4 dance clubs.
JoePNW2@reddit
In the university town where I spent much of the '80s, one could get draft beers for as little as 5-10 cents depending on the venue and night of the week. The drinking age was technically 19 until the late '80s but there was very little ID checking. Many places were generic dive-y bars but there was one huge "video bar" and another place with a proper dance floor that also played alternative music and served as the de facto LGBT bar. All these places did a rip-roaring business Thu-Sun.
GooseberryPotato@reddit
This would be mid to late 90s:
Different bars or clubs depending on the mood. I tended to go to them on a rotation. (There were more than the ones below… but these are the ones that stick out in my mind)
-Club A: Where everyone went to be seen. Not much dancing as far as I can remember (umm there could be a reason for that memory hole) So lots of drinking and talking and meeting new people. I’m sure there was dancing and music, I can’t imagine there wasn’t
-Club B: More dancing, darker , less talking, still place to be seen
-Bar C: Daylight hours/evening, grab a table on the patio, lots of mingling, meet all your friends there, drink a lot order some food.. I heard a lot of Mamba #5 there (1,2,3,4…)
-Bar D: Absolute legend in its time. Huge dive bar, everyone represented, 3 happy hours (you knew when it was happy hour because they would roll out a cart with a big block of gov’t cheese and piles of saltine crackers… when happy hour was over they’d roll the cart away), cheap drinks to begin with and 2/1 during happy hours
-Club E: Only place in my city to hear good techno/house in the 90s. Was also a hard core bondage club on certain nights
-Bar F: Biker bar- kinda rough but a lot of fun
-Lounge G: Very pretentious, couches and low tables, angsty music (think Buffy the Vampire type bands), where the hipsters (before they were hipsters went to look down on everyone.
Club E, Bar F, and Lounge G shared a patio in the back, but there was a chain link fence separating the 3. It always reminded me of a prison yard where all the groups separate themselves. Super fun to people watch!
-Club H: This is where the bands played. Again it was a dive but famous for bands and music
Sadly where I lived last call was at 12:30ish so it was out early… Then you went to an after bar, either you or one of the friends you went out with had it or you met people and went to theirs. After bars were generally laid back and there was more drinking, card playing, hanging out, comparing notes about the night. Generally speaking you’d go out with a couple of friends or a group and then scatter meeting people or dancing.
Lots of drinking, smoking, drugs. Most people drove themselves home, cabs were prohibitively expensive. If you met someone that you liked and didn’t hook up with them that night you exchanged phone numbers (on paper). Always an adventure to try to figure out who was calling you in the next few days.
I miss those days!
LeadingResearch9528@reddit
Whatever AI. Go away.
GooseberryPotato@reddit
Lol… sure bud. Would you like the names of the bars?
parttimelarry@reddit
I remember grinding face to face with random people and not facing the DJ. It was just normal.
lisep1969@reddit
Yes! Dancing with strangers. And if things got a bit too much your friends or a helpful stranger/new friend would step in to get you out of a weird situation.
JohnWa54@reddit
Late 80s early 90s Portland, OR regular clubs and Strip clubs were rampant. We'd go to the strip clubs, then when the dancers would get off work, take them to the regular clubs to drink and dance. The Copper Penny was epic IFKYK. Usually stayed out till 3am, made it to work ( welding Fab shop) by 7am. Sometimes sober, sometimes not.
That-Election9465@reddit
We (the ladies) danced on top of the bars.
beautifuljeep@reddit
Without being recorded
That-Election9465@reddit
Yup!!!
PomegranateReal3620@reddit
In the early 90s it was all grunge. I saw most of the big grunge bands in bars right before they made it big (I lived in Bellingham and Seattle). Mid to late 90s was mostly swing clubs or country bars. Dancing was big, so swing dancing and line dancing were huge.
LastNightOsiris@reddit
Early through mid 90s NYC Club scene was great. There were mainstream, underground, after hours places that went well into the next day …
People put a lot of effort into costumes or creating a look. A lot of times you could get in for free if you had a crazy enough look going on. Even without that, it was still pretty affordable. Covers were like $10-20 for big name DJs most of the time.
VIP and bottle service wasn’t really a thing yet. Everybody mingled together on the same dance floor or bar. Wall Street guys, club kids, drag queens, etc.
They started shutting down a lot of the big clubs in the mid to late 90s because the mayor (Giuliani) hated them and things migrated to smaller venues, bars, and more of a live music scene. I think that’s also around when bottle service tables started to get big.
Dreammagic2025@reddit
Fucking penny beer ladies night!!! How'd we live through that shit??!! Had a flat half way home one night, absolutely trashed, cop stopped to check, bf talked him into taking us BACK TO THE BAR so our friends could take us home. Gen X was WILD!!
Krabbi27@reddit
I dunno, I don't go out today. Communication between couples were different, you actually had to approach the person you liked
LeadingResearch9528@reddit
Can’t compare because I have zero idea what clubbing is today. I’m 51. Haven’t been in a club since I was 32ish
hemibearcuda@reddit
Lots of smoke, perfume and cologne. Sometimes a lot of neon or black lights. Not a single cell phone in sight and everyone spoke to each other.
Also, no joke. You would usually see a line waiting for the pay phone.
Fast_Plastic446@reddit
The club is where we met our “club friends “ . Random strangers that you’d meet and then get invited to a house party or after hours party. Some of those friendships grew and became lasting. It was very smoky . If you took your jacket inside the club you made sure you left it outside when you got home. Great music to dance to and if you lived in a college town the beers were cheap. During the week there were $2 pitchers of beer, $1 mixed drinks. Also it wasn’t uncommon for a club to be renamed under several names within a short period of time.
2PlasticLobsters@reddit
The only thing I know about the current scene is that it gets slapped all over social media. Not only did that not exist back then, people rarely took photos in bars. Cameras of that era didn't do well in dim light, unless you used a flash that washed out half the photo & left the other half dim.
Not many people in my crowd engaged in casual hookups. I came of age in the era when people realized that straight folks could get AIDS, but no one know exactly how. Herpes was also a threat, and there were no treatments yet. There were of course people who did, but most of us thought they were being very foolish. Why risk your health for a brief thrill?
Nobody thought much about driving while buzzed. The laws still made a distinction between Driving While Intoxicated (very bad!), and Driving Under the Influence (just a bit unwise). Only irresponsible losers drove drunk! Heavens no, we never did that. But roll a short distance home with a moderate buzz? NBD. I won't lie, I did this more than a few times. Or I rode with friends who did.
Another thing that may have changed is the postgame scene. There were a bunch of all-nite diners & such near our favorite bars. On those nights when we overdid it a bit, we'd loaf around eating greasy breakfast platters till we sobered up enough to drive home. Since young people tend to eat more healthfully now, that's probably not as popular.
AttemptingToGeek@reddit
100% of it happened after my current bedtime.
athensslim@reddit
Exactly. We didn’t even begin pregaming until 10pm
UneducatedDonkey@reddit
Remembering the Saturday mornings work started at 4am...so go out, close it all down at 2am...Taco bus for breakfast for the night crew, cab to work...roll in 3:30 wobbly...plow through eight hours, home, ahit, shower, shave, nap, wake up, repeat. Smelled like the Marlboro man, burritos and the VS body spray the 2s at 10 that became 10s at 2 wore...loved it
lisep1969@reddit
$3 cover charge, $1 beers & house brand well drinks, $3 if you wanted a premium brand liquor. We could dance like no one was watching because there were no cell phones.
People actually talked to each other! We would strike up conversations with complete strangers who became new friends by the end of the night. My friends and I always made a point to find someone sitting on the edge of the dance floor that wasn’t dancing and would get them to come dance with us if they looked lonely or a bit shy. We didn’t force a situation but always tried to be inclusive so everyone had fun.
Last call always ended up with “where are you headed to now?” Sometimes it was someone’s house/apartment/dorm room. Sometimes it was Denny’s or another all night restaurant. It almost always included a group of new friends so we took up a good portion of the dining room and we would switch around to talk to each other at the various tables.
And as others have said… it was smoky. So. Damn. Smoky. You could tell the next morning who stayed out all night and rolled into class because you could smell the smoke from their clothes. When I got an apartment I would put my club clothes on the balcony when I got home.
We loved meeting new people. We had the best dance music. We had the best time.
Automatic-Evidence26@reddit
Yeah, many nights from the bar to am all night restaurant like Dennys
MarianLibrarian1024@reddit
A big difference was that you did not take photos in the club. You might take a photo before going out but even that was considered pretty cringe.
If you were a girl you either had a small going out purse, you stuffed everything in your pockets, or made a guy carry it. You didn't carry a giant handbag to the club or bar.
Anonymo123@reddit
born in 74.. didn't party until i was 19 and I went deep and heavy into the rave scene. Started out going once or twice a month and then in about a year we were going Fri night until Sunday mid-day. We'd hit a club Fri night until 11 or 12 then the rave until 3 or 4 and the after party until whenever. We then went to someones place to shower\crash\geek out or a hotel and do the same and hide from the sun. We'd do it again Sat night and recover all day Sunday for work on Monday. During that time I worked full time and was in school full time as well. We sometimes partied during the week, was rare unless we were bored.
That being said during that time and pre 9/11 we flew all over the world to party and a lot of it now was a blur. It was amazing, I loved the time and wouldn't change it for anything. Met some of the most famous DJs, went to the best clubs globally and was definitely rubbing elbows with people way more famous then I should ever have been.
10/10 would do it again.
greatflicks@reddit
I have no idea what it is like now, but we would pregame l, get there about 9, demolish drinks the whole night, usually a fight or two, stayed until closing and then went out to some poor bastards restaurant that was still open. Rinse repeat the next night. Same all summer.
heather3113@reddit
Smoky. We had nightclubs for under 21 where we would dance all night. I went to a lot of raves where you wouldn't know where it was going to be until about 30 minutes before, then it was a lot of word of mouth, since there was no texting and phones, to meet in some abandoned warehouse. I was a bartender in my early 20s in WI, pretty much all of my friends had DUIs.
rrooaaddiiee@reddit
Drink Wisconsibly
SpendPotential5885@reddit
Then I was young, had no money and stayed out late. Now I’m old, have money and go home early. I enjoy both.
Spiritual_Sail_8969@reddit
Phoenix had a few spots we would hit up in the 80's and early 90's. Jockey Club, Zazoo's the place next to Ed Debevics, can't remember the name, but they had a great live R&B band that played often. Devil House in Tempe. I'm sure I'm missing a couple.
drunkfaceplant@reddit
My friends weren't club people but the dive bar scene is probably bigger now in alot of areas than it was then. They weren't cool, just places with cheap drinks and you could smoke with your friends out back.
The live music scene was way bigger back then
Separate_Today_8781@reddit
I still love a good dive bar, they have the most interesting people in them 😁
MaximumJones@reddit
Existing-Ostrich1294@reddit
Your post just brought the memories flooding back for this 61 year old! ❤️❤️❤️
My first-ever visit to a prominent gay bar in NYC… indescribable. When “Dancing Queen” finally, inevitably played— around 1:30 AM— just… the best moment. The best. (Yes, yes… I’m a stereotype! Haha)
GooseberryPotato@reddit
HAHA… I almost was run over by a stampede of gay men when this song was played a huge corporate Christmas party. I was shoved out of the way by someone and caught by another guy who laughed and told me to never get in the way of a gay man and dancing queen. That was a long time ago and I still flinch and duck when I hear the opening to that song!
Left_Guess@reddit
What a nice way to close down the night!
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
This sounds so amazing, and like so much fun! I’m glad I got to bring back those memories for you! I love dancing queen. I bet the energy was just unmatched
anki_steve@reddit
Used to go clubbing in San Francisco and San Diego back in early 90s. It was fucking amazing.
Tomatillo-5276@reddit
You’re asking a bunch of 50 and 60-year-olds what clubbing is like today compared to when they were in their 20s??
I’m sure you’ll get a lot of great stories but those people don’t have any clue what clubbing is like today.
Dunno, maybe that isn’t what you were actually asking?
filtersweep@reddit
I had free VIP memberships to two of the coolest clubs because I knew people and looked cool. Plus I’d usually get free drink tickets, and free passes to most shows— if not the guest list. So my night life was cheap.
We smoked. We drank and drove- generally moderately- for the time. We always knew where to be— somehow.
middleagedouchebag@reddit
We didn't have our noses in our phones, Cracker Jack!
Das_Rote_Han@reddit
Don't miss the smoke. Miss the music and cheap beer. Miss the fact that I can't head out the door at 9:30PM to start my night anymore. Still do couple concerts a year (Tool, Primus, Rush is back this year!) and some with my kids. Used to go to way more concerts but the $$ doesn't justify it anymore for me.
Neat_Ad4712@reddit
A tad bit off topic, but then again not: Downtown in the large West Coast city I grew up in, we were going out to underage clubs starting at 15-16 (whoever had their drivers license already drove) and then of course we’d hit all the clubs once we’d turned 21. Big difference to today: It was so much safer. We’d be downtown till 4:00 a.m., traipsing all over town. Nothing ever happened. Sure, there was always the odd sketchy dude hanging about, but nothing like today.
flsingleguy@reddit
I know this group could answer what it was like back in the day. However, how many in this group are tuned into 2026 nightclub culture?
Few-Honeydew2676@reddit
All I know is what I see in the outfits subreddit. Most of what they're wearing would have gotten you propositioned or arrested in 1985.
ViewfromMyOfcWindow@reddit
I LOLd - I have no effin idea. I haven't been to a club or bar for years 😂
Ivotedforher@reddit
That scene of Jon Hamm in Friends and Neighbors just shuffle dancing at the club...
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
Yeah I worded my question a little silly, didn’t think about that part 😂
Ouakha@reddit
For me, there was a big shift, from punk and indie in c87 to 91 and dance music (no-one called it 'EDM', that came later when dance music became very mainstream in the US) 91 to about 2006.
I remember when our regular two floor indie/punk/goth venue in Dublin starting doing techno and trance in the basement. We'd sneak in vodka and weed and get wrecked listening to tunes, before E was readily available or affordable (it was £25 a pill!). Acid was the main club drug at first but that takes dedication and was wildly unpredictable. Pills, with less headwreckage, and the will to dance, took over as prices dropped and availability increased. You'd either get it at a real dodgy dealer in run down flats around Dublin city centre or go to one of the few openly gay clubs.
Anyway FF to 2006 and, you know, I move city, bought a flat, proper job, as my friends were doing. The clubbing tailed off drastically. Still, returned to infrequent gigging and the odd festival, e.g. All Tomorrows Parties.
ticktockyoudontstop@reddit
$3 cover, $4 pitchers, dance and smoke cloves til 2. Hit the all night eatery (Denny's, Eat n Park or wherever), home by 4 am. I could never hang like that after a day of work, now. I miss the hell out of all of it.
Gluverty@reddit
Smoke, fun, freedom with a veil of sexuality and a dash of danger.
CarrionDoll@reddit
Perfect comment
Relative_Ad9477@reddit
I remember after being out you HAD to wash your hair or you went to bed with hair that smelled like smoke. I hate that part.
I remember dancing the night away. It was so much fun.
tallslim1960@reddit
Clubbing in the 80s as we did, you never had to worry about being stabbed or shot. People were just there to have fun.
linkmantaray@reddit
You could buy ecstasy at the bar when it wasn’t illegal. Early 80s.
Mean-Yogurtcloset942@reddit
This. And I was really good
KurtStation68@reddit
It was good.
discr33t86@reddit
There's climbing and bar culture today?
Left_Guess@reddit
Go home to shower to get the cigarette smoke out lol.
CharleyLH@reddit
And burn the clothes you wore.
Sea-Oven-7560@reddit
You left your coat in the car no matter how cold so it didn’t smell like smoke
Run_with_scissors999@reddit
I loved to dance back in the day! Not into drugs at all; therefore, I never really paid much attention to that. My goal - look hot, get a buzz, dance for hours! We were 100% in the moment in that place.
The draw backs: no Uber/Lyft, cabs were expensive and not common where I was. Too much cigarette smoke, I probably have lung damage from 2nd hand.
I don’t wax poetic on those days. I was broke, finding myself, in a bad relationship, etc. It was fun for a moment in time.
TypingisWriting@reddit
Smoke everywhere all the time
kat2211@reddit
I don't know how to compare it to today because I don't go out anymore. But it's reasonable to assume that one of the major differences is that folks now have to worry about someone filming them and/or an account of their misdeeds being instantly disseminated amongst a chat group. Whereas back in the day a) no one was worried about being filmed and b) if you wanted to gossip about someone, you really had to wait until the next morning, when you'd probably forgotten most or all of what happened anyway.
JackTrippin@reddit
Before I answer, are you a cop?
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
LMFAOO not a cop! Just someone in their twenties wishing I got to party in an era before phones and social media 🤣
sysaphiswaits@reddit
Some bands are starting to prohibit phones at there shows. It’s amazing.
mari815@reddit
At nightclubs or bars back then, nothing else mattered. No phones so you had to be present and talk to people around you if at a bar or lounge, or lose yourself in the music. So people very present and you met a ton of people each time. More mainstream drugs- outward use of cocaine. Lots of ecstasy and significantly more strong as it was manufactured differently, and just a lot of fun. No phones, no one recording. Some cameras but we’d not take selfies, we would pose for group photos to make memories.
Today I see people very self-involved, taking selfies, wannabe influencers many of whom are unattractive so I dont understand, a lot of younger people seem less healthy looking - overweight, all dress the same, no originality, focusing more on recording cool things to post on socials. It’s really strange and sad but Im old now so totally fine not doing anything out except go to dinner, and I am glad I am gen X.
sysaphiswaits@reddit
We fought a lot. Just for fun. It was pretty fun.
Now we’re taking ibuprofen just go out, and it’s $$$$$$. Most of us aren’t so mad anymore, or mad and tired.
auntieup@reddit
Cigarettes. There was always this high fog of smoke in every bar and club, and in some dance clubs it made the lighting look really sexy. But the smell would get in my clothes and hair and stay there until I washed it out.
Black lights. I always preferred to wear black when I went out, but we wore white if we really wanted to be visible. White would glow under club lights, which was a really cool effect.
Dancing. People would dance literally anywhere: in a street with traffic passing by, between tables in a pub, on dance floors and at the edges of dance floors. Dancing was IMPORTANT.
Food places near bars. I remember this more in the UK than anywhere else: the club would close and we’d head immediately to the fish & chip shop. There was even a chip van that would park outside the Union building on my university campus from midnight to early morning. So good!
Closing time. Some of my best memories are of the bars trying to throw everyone out when nobody wanted to leave. One dance place cut the stereo system and started playing old-timey music from behind the bar to get us out. Bad move: my most outrageous friend had been punished with ballroom dancing lessons when she acted up as a teenager, and she and one of the theater guys did some complicated dance to a 1940s big-band number. It was so good that people who’d just left came back inside to watch. The bartender had gone home, and the bouncers got so mad at us!
Great times. ❤️
Educational_Row_6345@reddit
Cigarettes yes. I’m not a smoker now but I could run through a pack and a half at the club, crazy.
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
I love this comment. Thank you for sharing!! Sounds like such an amazing time. I know things like this could almost never be replicated
BocaGrande1@reddit
No Phones !!!
SparksWood71@reddit
Lots of smoke!
ADDaddict@reddit
I remember taking my sunglasses with me to the club because the sun would be up by the time me and my friends left. I shall never regret the nights spent dancing til dawn...
AZJHawk@reddit
A lot more cigarette smoke in the 90s. Probably also a lot more drunkenness
ShartlesAndJames@reddit
I can't compare - I'm in bed at night like a reasonable person these days
Friendly-Cucumber226@reddit
No cell phones. You had to have plans to meet people at a place at a time. Went to the first couple of Lollapalooza festivals with friends and it was like “meet at this tree after Soundgarden finishes their set”.
Lots of cigarette smoke.
gagirlpnw@reddit
I did it in the south. Clubs stayed open until 2 am. We'd hit IHOP, Waffle House, or a local dinner afterwards. Happy hour was great. Some places had free small buffets, you just had to buy drinks.
I'm up in the PNW now. Where I live things close down before midnight. Live music shows end at 11:30pm.
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
Interesting info as a Texan looking to move to the PNW 🤣
Thirty_Helens_Agree@reddit
So much cigarette smoke.
My1point5cents@reddit
I’m 56 now but in the early 90s I went clubbing a lot at the hot spots in Beverly Hills, LA, and SF. I was a different person then. Just wanted to get laid tbh. And surprisingly it wasn’t difficult. We’d all get drunk and hookup. Have hangovers the next day. I’m lucky I made it out out alive and without unwanted children or any diseases. I had a lot of fun though. Today with my 20-something kids there really aren’t those huge clubs anymore where everyone gets hammered and dances as couples. It’s just different. More chill. More small bars and coffee shops. A lot less hooking up. That’s my sense of things now.
AttitudeOne4886@reddit
A lot more cash. No phones (except pay phones), and cigarettes.
misn0ma@reddit
I remember Rolling Rock, buck a bottle. Shot girls. Cigarettes. All the girls were on the pill. Cocaine was still glamorous. Ecstasy was amazing.
catsarerad100@reddit
Can confirm, ex shooter girl here, lots of lines snorted off my belly lol. Oh the tips! Miss those days.
Shoddy-Astronaut5555@reddit
Pretty similar (was in my 20s in the late 90s). The biggest difference is I see less people actually dancing now and more jumping up and down fist pumping.
There was a period in the 2000s where EDM was being replaced with more hip hop in clubs but EDM is obviously back now. I've actually had a renewed interest in the occasional night out at a club in the last few years.
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
This is what I’ve seen as well. Not really dancing, just a lot of jumping and “mosh pits” but it’s not really 😀 either that or people standing around on their phones! I’ve been to a few places where people actually dance tho, and I keep those spots close to my heart
Immediate-Rub3807@reddit
We’d go out at around 10pm and when the club closed at 3am we’d sometimes just take our liquor or beer over to the other club that opened at 3 but didn’t sell alcohol and stay till 5 then hit Waffle House
FriendlyConfines23@reddit
Didn’t do too much of that back in the day, but I do remember reeking of cigarette smoke when I got home 🤮
snarpy@reddit
From my clubbing time in Vancouver, early-to-mid 90s
No_Ability1548@reddit
Early 90's:
Drink: lots of Zima
Music: lots of screechy R&B girl singers (Real McCoy, Ce Ce Peniston, Milli Vanilli, Technotronic). But hey, it's dance music, so go with it, right?
Smoke: expected
Prices: dirt cheap
Clothing: whatever you had, right?
Dancing: plenty
I never had the luxury of going to a club where they played the kind of dance music I liked (euro stuff, like Depeche Mode), but I did go to one where they played Ska revival stuff (e.g. Mighty Mighty Bosstones), which was a lot of fun.
Slow_Description_773@reddit
I'm 53, how am I supposed to know what is the club/bar culture today ? I'm in bed by 10.30 pm the lastes ffs. Either way what I clearly remember was the stench of cigarette smoke.
Large_Relation_3650@reddit
This video is from the Scabs in Austin Texas, I filmed most of this on a VHS camera around 98-99. https://youtu.be/S2ZrBJpZtY0
SoOutOfFocus@reddit
Smoky & sweaty & fantastic
uwila@reddit
I think this covers it!
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
I’m jealous 😂
BornLastCenturyCA@reddit
Silky "Fresh Prince" style button shirts matched with Bolo Tie and Z Cavaricci pants. $20 bucks will get you 4 beers so your good all night. The music was great. The women would talk to you. No cell phones.
mvortex2@reddit
The Warehouse Philly (We stayed up front). The Pontiac Grill, The Trocadero, some after hours club somewhere around there, open until 4am. St. Michaels in Mont Clare, also open till 4am. The Silo in Reading.
Nicole_Bitchie@reddit
Dancing on Delaware Ave on the weekends…
BT_Artist@reddit
People drank a lot, smoked a lot, and danced a lot.
delldarlin@reddit
Clothes, hair, everything came home reeking of cigarette smoke.
pennyflowerrose@reddit
Smoky (late 90s no experience in bars before that)
Subject-Ad-8055@reddit
KTU its the saturday night dance party all the way live from zackeries with dj razor...lettstst gooooo
Any-Neighborhood98@reddit
Used to go to raves that started on Saturday night and ended late Sunday afternoon.
Subject-Ad-8055@reddit
welcome to the after hours...its 4 am
JJQuantum@reddit
We mostly stayed in an drank because it was so much cheaper.
crabby1701@reddit
Bartenders Drank with you. $3.50 Pitchers of House Beer, usually old Milwaukee or PBR. Nobody stopped you from getting into the car and driving home. Pool tables were 0.25 to 0.50 cents a play. Darts and shuffleboard were free to play. Dime bags and 2 for 5 joints were everywhere, including the line of coke on the toilet seat.
Acrobatic_Code_7409@reddit
Almost guaranteed hookups if that’s what you were looking for, live music at most venues, everyone was happy. Sort of like the best party you were ever at, but it happened every night.
fishingjohnson@reddit
It was amazing! Late 90s clubbing had the best music, no cell phones, no dating apps. It forced you to be social. Everybody had fun. There was very little worry about getting your drink drugged. And you never had to worry about your antics getting posted on the internet. They were always fun stories to tell with your friends with no real evidence of what went down.
_the_credible_hulk_@reddit
Bartenders bought me a round a lot more often.
MaryAnnZhlotnik@reddit
We can’t tell the difference because we don’t go clubbing/barhopping now. In bed by 10 pm 7 days a week. And I am definitely someone that partied in my 20s
m0ondoll@reddit (OP)
True. Maybe I should have left out the “in comparison to today part”
Muddy_boots123@reddit
Us old bastards don't go out past 8 anymore, don't know what the cool kids are doing nowadays