Life advice
Posted by FunGuess8263@reddit | ExperiencedDevs | View on Reddit | 25 comments
I am approaching 50, have a family, and work in IT in a management position. I am fully remote and have a solid income (around $ 32,000 per month, including salary and benefits).
Even with this stability, I have been reflecting a lot on my professional and financial future. I know that if I leave my current company, it will be very hard to find a similar level of benefits. Also, despite earning well, I do not invest and end up spending almost everything I make. This has been increasingly worrying me.
I decided it is time to change this reality while I still can.
I believe Artificial Intelligence will be one of the main drivers of the market in the coming years. More efficiency, lower costs, fewer people involved. Companies value that a lot. I want to prepare myself to stay relevant, competitive, and keep a strong professional position for the next 15 or 20 years, until I can retire comfortably.
I want to specialize in AI in a serious way. I want to truly learn, understand the architecture, concepts, and algorithms. I do not want to be just another manager throwing around buzzwords. At the same time, I understand that certificates and diplomas still carry weight, especially for leadership roles or for those who want to remain visible in the market.
It is worth mentioning that I am not a fan of math. It has never been my strong suit. On the other hand, I am a very creative person. I enjoy thinking outside the box, exploring different solutions, and finding more efficient ways to do things. Because of that, I believe I can find a path within AI that plays to this creative profile, even without being an expert in advanced math.
I have a few questions and would love to hear from people who have already gone through this journey. If anyone can share their experiences, recommend paths, courses, institutions, or even mistakes to avoid, I would deeply appreciate it.
Inevitable_Net982@reddit
Daaaammm 32k a month. Good for you sir, kudos !
matthkamis@reddit
32k a month? Holy fuck how do you guys land these roles?
Puzzleheaded_Rise_67@reddit
its not dollars.
FunGuess8263@reddit (OP)
Yeah I'm Brazilian. But doesn't make sense post the value converted here. 32k is 32k if you live in any country.
Tired__Dev@reddit
That doesn't make sense? Are you making $32k USD a month or reals?
BilldaCat10@reddit
He’s making 32ks
What is so hard to understand
kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
give or take, im drunk and that felt like 32
ImSoCul@reddit
> I know that if I leave my current company, it will be very hard to find a similar level of benefits
I have heard this dozens of times on this thread. I bet it's not true. I am full remote, senior level SWE, make \~$300-350k a year depending on stock price,, not factoring benefits. For most part good wlb, more recently less true but hopefully dies down a bit after next product launch. I'm 30 so presumably you have \~20 yoe on me and could get something better. If you can get director level or higher, there are definitely full remote jobs that would pay you a lot more.
I work on a LLM platform, and meet with vendors (think OpenAI, AWS, Google, Databricks) so I'd like to think I have an above average exposure to this area. There are really 3 very different verticals in AI.
1) Research, basically people working on foundation models, training, new model techniques, etc. This is what you hear with "zuck poaches research scientist X for $XX m". imo hard to break into unless you got lucky and this happened to be what you were working towards in a PhD program.
2) LLMops- basically extension of ML ops. Running LLM products at scale, making efficient use of LLMs, studying latency/throughput/etc (standard engineering metrics). This is what I work on, no specialized background kind of just lucked into it out of being at my company for years and we needing support in this area. Lot of generic platform engineering (eg. for data eng) can probably pivot into this.
3) LLM product- Product teams building products using LLMs, think Chatbot for company X, or insights extraction for product Y. Probably just more traditional product development background but there are some LLM-specific items like Langchain/Langgraph, MLFlow/Langsmith for LLM observability. probably easiest to pivot to from internal team, but maybe any strong product background could be a viable hire here.
I think you need to take some time to figure out what about LLM actually interests you beyond hype hype hype. Easier said than done of course
This-Layer-4447@reddit
out of curiousity what does your base pay look like vs benefits?
ImSoCul@reddit
it doesn't matter dude. I didn't care enough to pinpoint the exact comp within a $50k swing, what makes you think I want to inventory a bunch of benefits on the scale of thousands of dollars? If I felt it was relevant I would have included it in the original post
This-Layer-4447@reddit
from what i see on indeed most cap out around $220K base, that's why I ask
ImSoCul@reddit
a large portion (sometimes majority) of comp for mid level and up is equity. My figure includes \~190k base and rest in equity
that'ss not a "benefit", that's a significant portion of the pay package
This-Layer-4447@reddit
gotcha, thanks for the response!
PoopsCodeAllTheTime@reddit
Astroturf bot
FunGuess8263@reddit (OP)
I'm real bro, just use reddit sometimes when I need some underground advice :)
PoopsCodeAllTheTime@reddit
Your post history: - 8 months ago lost all your money gambling - Today u make 384k per year - You type like a kid
Yeah sure "bro"
jpea@reddit
Yeah, 2 posts in 4 years, multiple languages in multiple subs but the same post. And the language around “I do not invest” and “I want to retire”. C’mon.
PoopsCodeAllTheTime@reddit
I am trying to save people's time from writing a long winded comment, but apparently people still did, lol
southp0105@reddit
Well, you've saved mine. Thanks for catching me before I waste 1 hr of the precious Saturday morning time 🤣
JuliusCeaserBoneHead@reddit
None of this is real btw. Just a troll
FunGuess8263@reddit (OP)
lol
thisismyfavoritename@reddit
Lol
mq2thez@reddit
$32k/month in salary (even if that’s before tax)? The most important thing you can be doing is drastically cutting your costs and lifestyle spending and funneling money into savings. Max 401k, look into back door and mega backdoor Roth. Do catchup contributions to your retirement accounts. Get a financial advisor. You’re definitely not in a great spot, but you can make some strides to catch up.
If you really want to pivot your career, spend the next few years maxing out your savings and reducing your spending while focusing on learning. You have a significant safety net. Use it to learn and save. If you don’t have the willpower to make major changes right now, with that safety net, you won’t be able to do what you’re dreaming about.
When you pivot, you will essentially reset your career progress and will have an extremely hard (or impossible) time getting jobs. It sucks to say, but a 50yo career manager pivoting to IC is going to really struggle. You’ll make far less money. Focusing on saving / catching up now will get you used to the majorly reduced lifestyle you’ll live.
mrchowmein@reddit
AI products will not ensure your retirement. What you are asking for is a major windfall that might not ever happen. You need to take active steps in your investments and retirement. If you are making $35k a month, and spending most of it, what will stop you from spending what you make AI? Go hop over to the personal finance subreddit, they can help you figure out how much you need to retire with so you can figure out how to get to that point without a windfall.
charging_chinchilla@reddit
Just ask your question instead of asking to ask
aghost_7@reddit
Doesn't sound like you need advice from this sub but rather a financial advisor.