What do we Xennials not miss from pre-2000?
Posted by thecolossalfossil@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 677 comments
We all love the nostalgia and memories that the stories and pictures we see here provide. It made me a little curious. What things that no longer exist do we Xennials do not miss and are consider it better off left in the past?
And no, I'm not referring to school, family, or the growing pains of being a child or young adult. Rather things or events like not having to rewind movies after renting a movie.
The first thing that came to my mind was DIVX. It was an old video disc format that competed for a brief time with DVD. The idea was that you could buy a DIVX disc for under $5, but you had to pay $1-2 every time you wanted to watch it. You would unlock the disc for 48 hours each time you wanted to play it by paying the fee. It also meant your DIVX player required a phone connection to dial in the transaction, similar to TiVo calling home for your TV guide data.
For $15-20 you could purchase a lifetime unlock. Hope not too many people got suckered into that, because by 2000 DIVX was pretty much a dead format and DVDs took over. Then all the discs became pretty much unusable shortly after.
But could you imagine? Having to pay every time your kid wanted to watch the Little Mermaid or Aladdin? I mean, it wasn't much different than Pay Per View, but with with that you didn't have to fork over the cash to buy a disc that was as good as a coffee coaster unless you forked over the money every use.
Dry-Discount-9426@reddit
You had to pay to play for divx? We still have a divx player from like 25 years ago and have never had to pay anything.
helloitsgwrath@reddit
The homophobia
OverJicama3755@reddit
Paper maps or road atlases were a bit of a pain in the ass
Icy-Finance5042@reddit
Having to look up in the phone book.
Pearlmarine@reddit
Omg yes sloooooow ass downloads and then if you lost the connection or the file was corrupted you had to do it all over again.
StonedinNH@reddit
Automatic seat belts. I hated those things.
Scootle_Tootles@reddit
brick weed
kellyasksthings@reddit
Homophobia. When I went to high school, the only options in my town were the all-girls school or the all-boys one. During the tour for new students they showed us a beautiful shady tree with seating under it, and told us that was the lesbian tree so we shouldn't sit there. People would try to catch people looking like they were looking at others in the changing rooms and yell out that "X is a lesbian". Generally they weren't actually looking, they just looked like they were for a second as they dressed, and th people calling them out knew that, they just wanted to harass someone. I only knew one girl who was 'out' and people avoided her in case she wanted to fuck them. I felt sorry for her and knew that it was stupid and unfair, and yet I also remember being scandalised with everyone else when Ellen came out, and thinking that probably wasn't setting a good example. It astounds me how we can so easily pick up on these kinds of social attitudes even when they go against our own values.
kellyasksthings@reddit
Trying to do historical research on old newspapers catalogued on Microfiche with hand written index cards. OMG so slow, so clunky, you must do it on a microfiche reader in a particular research library and handwrite your notes. Oops, this article I just spent ages scrolling to find isn't what I was looking for, I'd better look up the next microfiche, manually change it and start scrolling again. Digitised, well indexed records that you can copy text are incredible.
ihave10toes_AMA@reddit
I don’t miss trying to get somewhere without GPS. ‘Turn left at Culbert’ meanwhile you’re worried you missed it cuz one street you passed didn’t have a visible enough street sign. Or it was dark and you couldn’t read the sign.
Still_Strawberry8134@reddit
Oh, trying to get somewhere while reading a map that unfolds to a size roughly the size of an elephant with text so small you need a magnifying glass to read it. That was fun. 😑 Also give that map to your passenger who was always the most directionally challenged person you knew.
cmc42@reddit
I was a delivery driver for a sandwich shop, and we had a BIG map of the city pasted on a door in the back of the shop. It had every street on there, and I had to stare at that thing plan my routes hoping I wouldn’t forget a street name or where to turn.
Sufficient_Turn_9209@reddit
This. I remember roadtripping with a group of girlfriends to Dallas and then san Antonio from South Louisiana when we were about 17/18. We. Got. So. Lost... and then figured it out. It was scary and a little fun. 😆 So I don't miss it, but also I kind of do, because if, God forbid, I got stuck without it today I probably wouldn't figure it out so quickly. I'm so dependant on it.
Illustrated-skies@reddit
In the late 90s I was passing through outer Austin in the dark. I got SOooo lost I started calling it the Austin triangle because I couldn’t get out.
Kellbows@reddit
My phone took me to Joe Bob's corn field just Monday and proudly proclaimed I'd arrived! Sigh. I hadn't been in such a pickle since 8 years prior trying to get my kid somewhere else for school. I was pleasantly surprised the gas station still sold maps in 2017. I'm curious if gas stations still sell maps in 2025.
IWantAStorm@reddit
They do. There is always a phone somewhere ready to die.
Kellbows@reddit
I thought that was why they sold phone chargers? I’ll have to look. I suspect this is still a thing in places with shotty reception.
IWantAStorm@reddit
No lol. A normal large gas station, especially near a major highway will have them.
...they'll also sell charges
RedSolez@reddit
This!! When I started my career as a freelance sign language interpreter without reliable GPS it was terrifying. Driving late at night in the rain when you have no idea where you are, not every street is labeled, and some of the signs that do exist you can't see in the dark and rain. Awful.
LucilleLooseSeal123@reddit
One thing i think about now and then that I find insane is that I drove from LA to San Luis Obispo to visit my friend in like 2002 using printed Mapquest directions. I remember mentally noting the mileage at certain points so I’d know when to be ready to make a turn. I was like 22!!!!!
TraditionalTackle1@reddit
Im proud to say my friends and I drove my Chicago to South Padre Island in 2002 using only a paper map you buy at the gas station.
AllyLB@reddit
Once my friends and I were traveling to visit a friend over the weekend (Cleveland to Dayton). We had our Mapquest or whatever it was all printed out. Unfortunately, it didn’t account for construction that apparently just started or the car accident that blocked the remaining route. Our paper maps didn’t even cover that area. We got really lucky when we followed another car to a poorly marked alternate route that you couldn’t see until you drove away from the main route for at least 5 minutes. I really appreciate modern GPS.
TraditionalTackle1@reddit
Mapquest was notorious for not having maps updated, turn on this road that no longer exists, I dont miss Mapquest at all.
Prossdog@reddit
That’s a good one. There is major nostalgia to pre-technology days but I NEVER think back to the good old days of having to remember directions someone gave me. Or even printing out Mapquest directions and trying to read them while driving.
Happy_hunny_badger@reddit
This is the right answer. I never had to navigate too much (lots of calling and asking for directions). My dad was a salesman in various cities, when he rented cars he would get the Rand McNally maps and plan out all his routes.
I would literally die.
Myfourcats1@reddit
I went to New Orleans with a garmin. Turn left. Well I can’t there’s a parade. Recalculating. Recalculating. Recalculating. Now gps shows blocked roads and slowdowns and cops.
username24583@reddit
I remember watching the odometer to make sure i went the exact distance for each step of my map quest directions.
ant-master@reddit
I remember one time my mom and I were driving back home from a road trip. I'd printed out directions beforehand, we got there with no issues, everything seemed fine. At one point when I was driving, I started to get the feeling we were going the wrong way. After driving a bit more the feeling became stronger. I brought it up with my mom and she suggested we find an exit to pull over.
I ended up having to call my then-husband, told him what gas station I was at and its street address so he could figure out where we were. We'd missed a turn a couple hours prior and were way out of the way. It was getting so late by that point we had to get a hotel room. Thankfully we actually had money for one, I feel like if that happened these days I might not be so lucky and would have to just sleep in my car.
throwaway04182023@reddit
I’m with you. The world got so much larger when I wasn’t stuck going the same places with the same routes.
Glittering-Show-5521@reddit
I actually do miss that a bit. It was just a little less of Google brain. You reminded me: there was one time visiting Florida where I missed the turn to go back south on I-95 because it looked like Google maps was sending me into a ditch (the offramp was really poorly lit).
jawanessa@reddit
When my friends and I road tripped from Florida to Madison, WI when we were 18, we had a TripTik from AAA. We had assigned positions for the whole trip: 1 drove, 1 navigated, 1 slept, and my underage (16) brother was just along for the ride. We had a cooler filled with drinks, snacks, and stuff to make sandwiches. We saved all our money for the destination.
I literally cannot imagine my 16 year old making the same kind of trip now (or in two years).
Expensive-Candidate4@reddit
I kept in my car 20 hand made maps that my Dad drew on his computer. I would also call him frequently for directions (we lived in different countries). A friend figured out where I was once when she asked me where the sun was setting and if street numbers were going higher or lower (!) This was in 2004.
siejay@reddit
I respectfully disagree; I think that being able to go places without checking my phone is one of my Xenniel superpowers. To each their own.
anarchetype@reddit
Getting lost sucked. I missed a job interview once. Another time I missed some booty.
The upside was that "sorry I'm late, I had trouble finding the place" could be a valid excuse, even if untrue.
Then_Increase7445@reddit
Good to still be able to do it in case the technology fails though. I think a lot of people would struggle if their phones died.
CrimsonVibes@reddit
Compass, good to have in the woods also.
Lulu_42@reddit
The Internet was so slow. SO SLOW. Remember waiting for pictures to load??
Still_Strawberry8134@reddit
I remember applying to the honors college because I knew the honors dorm already had ethernet installed when I went to school in the fall of 99, and I wanted a guaranteed spot in a dorm with the hella fast internet, 😂.
Miami_Mice2087@reddit
i remember getting really good at freecell while i waited for pages to load
htownAstrofan@reddit
Constantly lagging trying to play Starcraft, Ultima or Command and Conquer.
bgva@reddit
Waiting damn near an hour to download a 3-minute song was torture, especially if it was the wrong version of that song.
Sedona83@reddit
Or if someone in the house picked up the landline and ruined the download
sunshineparadox_@reddit
And it made the program lag by interrupting it improperly so you couldn’t leave it immediately and now everyone is mad.
Grammarhead-Shark@reddit
Or occasionally if you wanted to be the arsehole child and your sibling was on the internet, call the landline from your trusty Nokia 5110 brick to cut off the dial-up (but also putting in 1831 before hand just to make sure they couldn't check the number!)
Way_2_Go_Donny@reddit
Mooooooom!
GlomBastic@reddit
We brought our whole PCs to our friends dorm with T1. Set up on the ping pong table chugging Napster.
rohm418@reddit
Remember when T1 was the ultimate? All 1.5 Mbps of it!
PreposterousTrail@reddit
Damn unreliable Limewire
Acceptable-Bonus-151@reddit
It was such roulette. So many garbage mashup songs.
Then there was the "oh I can get those kind of movies?" Then downloading something seemingly innocent like "sexy girl has fun" or something normal sounding. Then after download excited to check it out. And ...why is there a tarp...what's a goat doing there ...OH MY GOD!!!
GrumpyKaeKae@reddit
An hour? What high speed internet did YOU have? It used to take me HOURS to get a song.
wolfmann99@reddit
College, usually had 10mbit/sec ethernet. I knew people with fractional T1 and ISDN at home.
GrumpyKaeKae@reddit
Jealous. I still had AOL dial up. Lol
gpo321@reddit
Only to find that it was the wrong song title, or a terribly poor quality version of the song
bgva@reddit
I wanna say 56K? But that was with RealAudio. I remember having Napster in college and came home for Thanksgiving thinking I could download songs at the same speed I did in college, forgetting my dorm had an Ethernet connection.
Think I ended up going to bed and waiting to see if the song finished the next morning.
GrumpyKaeKae@reddit
Yeah I had the later. Waiting to see what download finished after I woke up.
NurkleTurkey@reddit
I remember when MP3s first hit the web and finding them was a matter of looking at folks' irc menus to see if I could leech. I prob had 8 songs on repeat.
Beforehand mp3s I'd listen to MIDIs. And then the actual thought of hearing a real song I could play was amazing.
Listening to streaming services, all that effort in finding songs and playing them is an afterthought. I have access to millions of songs now and I don't even blink.
Morriganx3@reddit
Counterpoint - it was still faster than going to the damn library to do school assignments
Lulu_42@reddit
One time I waited like ten minutes to download a CCR song for an album I was burning. Except it wasn't the right song, it was a joke song. I only realized it when I heard the lyrics, "Her bulging thighs."
Grammarhead-Shark@reddit
I remember once (thinking I was downloading something else) downloading a version of Cinderella that ended up being very... very... naughty.
While it was legit unintentional, I did end up watching it... for the acting...
Grammarhead-Shark@reddit
I remember having to coughSailTheHighSeascough if I wanted to watch some of my Sci-Fi shows (Because Australian television was just so shit at showing genre shows back in the 90s and 00s) and it took DAYS and more then once something happened to the file (corrupted? stopped working? who the fuck knows?) and I HAD TO START AGAIN.
:D :D
HeapsYeah@reddit
This. In some ways, I miss the internet of the 90s. Not the connection speed though! But it was less corporatised, more like the wild west. Just slow, very slow. The move to ADSL was a game-changer, as was moving to a fibre connection. My gigabit connection is about 20000 times faster than dial up.
Electrical-Bacon-81@reddit
I remember when I went from dial-up to 1.5 mbps DSL & I thought it was absolutely amazing.
avlisadj@reddit
When we got AOL for Christmas in 1997, there was only one phone number for our entire area! And ofc a ton of people also got AOL for Christmas that year, so the line was ALWAYS busy. We’d dial for over an hour before finally getting connected. Then ofc have to wait 5 minutes for a web page to load.
I still think I’d prefer that paradigm to today’s though…the internet was such an exciting new place. There were plenty of creeps, but at least they weren’t driven by some horrifying algorithm.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
Makes me wonder why I bothered. We were easily impressed by 13k!
SimpleVegetable5715@reddit
I kept a nail file and buffer by my keyboard, and my nails always looked gorgeously manicured.
BigDaddyUKW@reddit
I went from dial up at home to Ethernet in College in 1999 in the dorms. Then in 2021 I moved off campus and had to go back to dial up. That was interesting. I went from downloading albums in minutes to downloading songs overnight LOL.
mackattacknj83@reddit
I feel like this was a good thing in hindsight
thoughtfractals85@reddit
My parents got the Christian filtered internet. It was so annoying. Luckily I had nerd friends that helped me get around that. I felt like a hacker. It was wild times, and I miss the simplicity.
LastCallKillIt@reddit
It was more novelty and less a way of life. It wasn't a bad thing. We connected for real a lot more back then before the internet, cell phone and social media made it too easy
Lulu_42@reddit
I suppose for some. For me, it was a way of life.
LastCallKillIt@reddit
Fair enough, I guess a better way of saying it would be more niche.
Acceptable-Bonus-151@reddit
Talking to hot babes on the Internet was life
Solo4114@reddit
And it screamed at you when you first signed on:
"EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHBEEEBAAABEEBAABEEBAAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHWelcome! You've got mail!"
KittySwipedFirst@reddit
The dial up noise 😣
FeelTheWrath79@reddit
Sorry, but with all the porn i saw because of AOL, the modem noises sure give me good feelings.
Acceptable-Bonus-151@reddit
All the photos with very poorly photoshopped celeb heads.
ManbadFerrara@reddit
This guy pre-2000s.
FormidableMistress@reddit
One of my tinnitus tones is dial up. I hate it.
holyfruits@reddit
The_Doogle_Abides@reddit
Worst episode ever
Sabres26@reddit
I remember thinking maybe one day web pages would be instant to load and couldn’t wait for it to happen. Now any slight delay in a load is annoying lol
Z0na@reddit
Downloads lasted days on Napster
sexyass2627@reddit
And then there were the viruses if you used anything but Napster.
mfalkon@reddit
You guys had internet? My parents refused to get it at home. I didn’t have home internet until 2002 and then only because I got a year free dialup with thru MSN (Microsoft AOL competitor) as a promo with my eMachines PC from Best Buy. How 90s/early 00s is that? I didn’t get broadband til 2004.
FenBoldsJive@reddit
Was that so bad?
Alice_600@reddit
I downloaded images went to get food came back wacked off to agent Scully naked took a shower and came back to read usenet.
MissManipulatrix@reddit
I can still sing the connection “song” (the 56k modem sound “nee nee naw naw naw nuh nuh nuh naaaaah”
Expensive-Candidate4@reddit
The blue line dial up (torture)
this_knee@reddit
Progressive JPEGs!
buckwaltercluck@reddit
Home internet was so slow that my HOPE Florida scholarship application took 15 minutes to submit- not complete, but submit. 15 minutes of the spinning hourglass. And then it just stopped. No confirmation, no error message, no new page load; just back to cursor. So I clicked submit again.
Error! Duplicate application, neither will be submitted for review.
And there's a brief and critical part of the tale of why I didn't go to college after high school.
jasonrubik@reddit
I remember it being so slow that I resorted to drawing my own digital pictures. Tape some saran wrap over a photo and trace it with a sharpie. Then remove and tape this over your monitor and trace it again in Win 3.1 paint.exe . Instant gratification. ;)
CariniFluff@reddit
Let me introduce you to Mr. Rube Goldberg.
WhatThePuck9@reddit
‘member ascii porn??
GutsAndBlackStufff@reddit
Pictures of what? Cats?
Lulu_42@reddit
Yes. Cats. That's all.
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
So many pussycats.
sed2017@reddit
I remember when I was in high school (1998 to 2001) and one of my classmates was like ‘I’m downloading the new so-and-so cd, it should be done by the time I get home today…”
herrpuck@reddit
When you really want to download the trailer to Scream 2 or something, so you wait until everyone goes to bed so there’s no chance of someone picking up the phone randomly. After like 2 hours, you’re somewhere around 70% when you just randomly hear “Goodbye!”
AOL timed out or some shit so you just wasted your night. And you have to go to school in like 4 hours. ugh
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
Get off the phone! I need to make a call!
Wait... you picked up the phone? Download aborted!? Nooooooooo!
Opening-Restaurant83@reddit
AOL would crash out every time right before the good part of the pictures loaded. Still an upgrade from the Sears catalog.
Confident-Cellist-25@reddit
You’d be up all night and only see 3 women!
(That’s an IT Crowd reference for the uninitiated)
catsoncrack420@reddit
Oh Jesus yes. I barely paid attention to the Internet except for work.
lookforfrogs@reddit
Dial up internet! Oh god, it was so slow, the fact that no one could use the phone while it was on, and it was SO SO SO expensive!
PoopyMcpants@reddit
Cassette tapes and vhs tapes.
People love them now, but they were low quality and constantly getting eaten by the player.
Give me a cd or mp3 any day.
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
The real G's had Laserdiscs.
Kellbows@reddit
This gives me some interesting feelings. I never heard of this video abomination. Living in middle America, trends took their sweet time to reach us. I'm talking years! Some things likely never made it; I've never heard of DIVX. I don't miss missing out. FOMO!
At the same time, maybe we missed some absolute crap for the better. It was only a few years ago the final video rental store was gone. I definitely miss those! Red Boxes took it out. But the Red Boxes were gone a year later so who lasted longer huh?
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
I miss Redbox so much. I used to just rent a ton of Blu-Rays, take them home and rip them to my network storage. I'd do this several times every week. I built up a huge high quality movie collection for dirt cheap.
Then Netflix DVD-by-mail went away recently so I'm kind of out of luck for that kind of thing now. I mean, there's Gamefly, but they suck.
Longjumping_Cod_9132@reddit
Burning a CD for hours and then finding out it’s a coaster.
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
Now that's kind of a stretch, at worst it took 30 minutes if you had a crappy 2x burner.
Elevated_Misanthropy@reddit
Having to wait for film to be developed, and having to pay for pictures that didn't turn out well.
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
Oh this was the worst. Sometimes I forget how good we have it now with cameras.
81toog@reddit
Using the dark room in middle school to develop pictures was actually really fun though
genesimmonstongue415@reddit
Cigarettes. Homophobia. Fatphobia. Screw these things.
Other than that... everything was superior.
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
I don't hate fat people, but losing weight is good and healthy and there's nothing wrong with saying that or striving for it.
Miami_Mice2087@reddit
being lost in a city or while driving with no cell phone
Lucky_Louch@reddit
Paying for minutes on my cell phone
To0n1@reddit
I dont miss checks or carbon copying credit cards
_TheWolfOfWalmart_@reddit
Oh I remember DIVX. We got a player in 1998 or 1999. We bought a few cheap movies for the $3 or whatever it was and watched them but never paid for any extra rental time. We realized it was stupid and then just started buying normal DVDs.
It also had to use your phone line to dial up to home base and validate the purchases. We just so happened to have a phone jack nearby the TV, but how many people didn't?
What a terrible idea that was. One of the biggest things that helped kill Circuit City.
EquipmentUnlikely895@reddit
waiting in line to buy (any) tickets. I much prefer buying tickets online and knowing I have the seats and time I want because even stepping out of the house.
Senior-Pomegranate50@reddit
Nobody ever owned a divx player or bought those discs
HermioneMarch@reddit
Not having GPS. The stupid situations I got myself into lost with no phone. I was very fortunate.
Leather-Sky8583@reddit
I have to agree with the other people saying the Internet speeds. I remember having to wait five or six minutes for dial up to download a webpage just because it had one Lausche low resolution digital photo on it. And don’t even get me started on trying to download Video clips on a dial up AOL 2.0 machine.
VincentMac1984@reddit
Commercials on television
New_Stats@reddit
Rape culture. Back then it was so incredibly bad, the vast majority of people had basically the same views as the worst online degenerates have today.
mallorn_hugger@reddit
I can't even watch half of the TV from that era, and from the years immediately after, because of that. Rape culture and also the way women were treated and talked about, and how casually sexual harassment was handled. How many shows did we grow up watching where there was a good looking funny guy, who was antagonistic to a beautiful woman in the office? That was marketed to us as sexy, and it was just sexual harassment! Pepe le Peu all the damn time.
I remember trying to watch NCIS for the first time a few years ago, and I started with the first season -which I believe aired in 1999. I couldn't even get through it. I don't think I truly realized how much the #MeToo movement changed our culture until that moment.
butterbean8686@reddit
I remembered really enjoying the MTV Challenge back in the day (early 2000s). My god, the rape culture and misogyny on that show was shocking when I went back to rewatch it a couple years ago! Some of the people I remembered really liking (both men and women) made the absolute worst, most vile and disgusting comments towards the women. It was sad to see the environment I came of age in, but good to see we’ve progressed a bit.
mallorn_hugger@reddit
I hear you! I didn't watch MTV back then, but I have revisited shows and movies that I liked from my teens & 20s, and I just can't believe how normal all of that was to us. My sister and I call this the "feminism ruins everything" effect, but we mean it in a positive, ironic kind of way. It's like saying "Well, now my eyes are open and I can't look at this shit anymore."
butterbean8686@reddit
Yup! Also known as being “woke!”
mallorn_hugger@reddit
Yeah, that isn't the insult certain people think it is, lol 😏
Affectionate-Cut4828@reddit
Same. I try to rewatch older sitcoms, and I better have a lot of nostalgia for it to be able to stomach a lot of it anymore. I truly feel sorry for my wife having had to grow up in that.
New_Stats@reddit
Not to minimize the MeToo movement but things had changed before that. Like imagine Porkies trying to get made in 2015, it would've never happened
mallorn_hugger@reddit
That's fair- the MeToo movement didn't materialize out of thin air after all. I just feel like it made enough of an impact to have a real before-and-after kind of effect, although some of that is surely due to my own growth and shift in understanding.
At_the_Roundhouse@reddit
Sixteen Candles is insaaaane to watch now
CubesFan@reddit
Cigarettes. In the 90s, it was EVERYWHERE! I never smoked but all my friends did and my family did, so people thought I did as well. I always thought it was guilt by association, but now I realize I just constantly smelled like cigarettes because everyone smoked around me. I didn't know I smelled like that cuz my sense of smell had adjusted. Now that waaaay less people smoke, I can smell a cigarette outdoors a block away. I can also smell a person who has been smoking as soon as they walk into a room because of their clothes and hair smelling like it. It's disgusting. It's hard to believe it was just a thing everyone did and nobody said anything.
ConsciousMap7807@reddit
The sound of dial up internet
AerwynFlynn@reddit
Trying to figure out how to write a 4 page paper based upon a for sentence paragraph in an encyclopedia. Much easier to write a term paper if you get all the info
CubesFan@reddit
I was studying education at university 2000-2004 and it was amazing to me how professors and educators were talking about "grade inflation" as this mysterious thing. They thought teachers must be grading incorrectly and being too soft on kids. I would point out that the kids could access the internet and easily find way more info now, which made it easier to write their papers, and that is why the grades were going up. Teachers who'd been reading papers for 30 years based on kids researching hard copy books/encyclopedias were grading properly; the kids just had better resources. The professors would look at me like I was crazy. These were education professors. It blew my mind that they couldn't wrap their heads around the idea that given waaaay better resources, kids could just naturally produce way better results. Needless to say, I did not end up in the education field and this was part of the issue. They couldn't believe kids were that smart. Instead they believed the teachers were somehow just bad at grading. 🤦🏾♀️
trashy_trash@reddit
I was just telling this story to a younger person last week. In 5th grade I got assigned writing a paper about nuclear power. I asked my mom and she suggested I look in the huge set of pricey encyclopedias she had purchased years earlier. I got a C- on the paper. The teacher asked where I got my info from, mentioning that quite a bit was incorrect. 1952, the encyclopedias were published in 1952.
For reference: >In 1952, the FIRST electricity from a nuclear reactor was generated, and this early research focused on simply understanding fission and reactor design.
It’s terrible, because I think my mom also then realized she may have gotten a bit swindled in her encyclopedia purchase. She knew they weren’t new, but didn’t realize how out of date some of the info in them were.
Scalytor@reddit
I had an incomplete set from the 1930s at home. But at least my parents were willing to take me to the public library when I really needed it.
pinklavalamp@reddit
The problem with any kind of printed factual record-keeping system like encyclopedias is that they’re almost instantly outdated or obsolete. Unless it’s a category where updates are few and far in between, information is constantly being updated.
Tejj_Fd3m@reddit
I got a bonus point for using the old encyclopedia. I think the paper was on drugs and I tossed in a line about medical use in 1971. The teacher scribbled a note, "How did you find that?" Twenty year old encyclopedia set from the basement shelf ma'am. That's how.
Enxer@reddit
Smoking smell when you go out. I didn't learn until later in life that the shortness of breath was smoke related asthma.
LacyKnits@reddit
Smoking in restaurants. It was on its way out before 2000, but you could still find places with smoking sections through most of my highschool days. (At least where I lived, and my family sought them out for my grandfather and a few friends.)
I much prefer being able to eat my heart attack on a plate without the side of secondhand lung cancer.
nnulll@reddit
The even more blatant sexism and racism. It’s hard to see… but things have gotten better
mommiecubed@reddit
I don’t miss using a pay phone
EntertainmentChoice7@reddit
I don't miss pay phones, phone cords, road atlases, encyclopedias and dictionaries. Cells and Google have everything covered!
Spiritofthehero16@reddit
smoking indoors EVERYWHERE
Moons_of_Moons@reddit
Mapquest
drklib@reddit
I don't miss life before caller ID. I was stalked when I was 14 and the stalker would call and threaten harm and death to my family if I notified the police. Without caller ID I would always answer the phone when I was home alone in case it was my parents calling.
No-Gas5342@reddit
This is school adjacent but relevant to any library user—the card catalogue. They’re cool but electronic searches are just sooooo much faster and more effective.
I don’t miss cigarette smoke everywhere.
Hot-Highway13@reddit
No more cigarette smoke inside is a big one
MonstersMamaX2@reddit
That's the first thing I thought of. I don't think I know anyone close to me who smokes these days.
Illustrated-skies@reddit
Same! When I see ppl smoking I instantly think, “People still smoke?”
My first job was at a restaurant. That smoking “section”…ugh!!!
IchooseYourName@reddit
MICROFIESCHE
Slippery-Pete76@reddit
No way, I loved microfiche - as well as those gigantic rolls of microfilm.
Folkloristicist@reddit
I was literally just talking the other day about how microfilm is better than microfiche (says the archivist nerd)
No_Willingness5313@reddit
Not something to love if you get motion sickness easily. (Speaking from experience as both a person prone to motion sickness and a historian that has spent multiple decades looking at roles of microfilm).
tonyrocks922@reddit
Nothing like trying to find a specific article for a paper then losing 5 hours reading the entire NY times January 14 1963 issue.
Grammarhead-Shark@reddit
That takes me back!
I know that rabbit-hole way to well!
I guess today we have Wikipedia to fill that gap?
socialmediaignorant@reddit
That was the good shit. I miss that so much. No more whimsy in the world. Too much efficiency. Blah.
west-egg@reddit
whizzzzzzzzzzzzz
CLUNK
Sofagirrl79@reddit
I'm 45 and didn't know microfiche was a thing until a few years ago lol
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
^^🐟
CrouchingDomo@reddit
I can smell it
reallyneedausername2@reddit
I’m a librarian and overheard a conversation just this week about how they missed the old library and those card catalogs. Every time I hear that, I think about how quickly they would un-miss them if we switched back.
janellthegreat@reddit
What I miss was what I would discover while looking through the catalog.
Kind of like the difference between going to an actual library and seeing what books are nearby the one I want and using a digital search and just seeing what else results from the search.
BetterEveryDayYT@reddit
Yes! I discovered countless exciting or enlightening books while browsing the catalog.
jasonrubik@reddit
I randomly discovered Nanotechnology in 1996. It was in an alphabetical list of search terms left over from a previous user at the computerized card catalog at the local community college. I was attending summer school for dual credit courses before senior year and studied a lot in that library.
I went all out. I went full bore into nanotechnology and focused heavily on it during undergrad. I wanted to build computers and robots out of individual atoms. But then I crashed and burned. I was like Icarus.
Now, I'm a consultant for a Fintech in the mortgage industry
IndicationOk2014@reddit
This- I found so many random interesting things just by browsing around the area the book I was actually looking for was located. Now I search online and reserve it and just pick it up 😬
jasonrubik@reddit
We all live in our own bubble now. We rarely find new things
LastCallKillIt@reddit
I used to like to get out the little projector slides things
_incredigirl_@reddit
Microfiche!
JudgeJuryEx78@reddit
I do miss them though. I'm so glad we have the technology now but there's a nostalgia to all the librarians who gave me permission to rechelve books because they knew I would do it correctly. So much OCD nostalgia. I can smell the card catalog in my mind...
At_the_Roundhouse@reddit
I would never give up the sheer access to information we have now, but god the card catalog. What a wonderful 5-sense childhood memory. Well, maybe not taste haha. But the weight of those drawers, flicking through the little cards, the smell of it all… brings me back. Good times.
jayhof52@reddit
MARC records are enough of a pain in the ass. Y'all don't want my handwriting added to the equation.
pburydoughgirl@reddit
I watched Ghostbusters with my 9 year old daughter recently and had to explain what a card catalog was (as one is featured in the library in the beginning) and it really sounds crazy to someone who’s only ever used a virtual one.
AMugOfPeppermintTea@reddit
I miss the date stamp on the card insert. It was so cool to see how many times the book had been checked out previously, and when
akm1111@reddit
We used to have it stamped on the end page of the book.
agentmkultra666@reddit
Yeah, I miss this more than the card catalogue.
tonyrocks922@reddit
The libraries around me switched to using generic cards that they swapped between books in the mid 90s. It broke my heart.
comb0bulator@reddit
Yes! I sure wish I had a few. True nostalgia for me.
Herky_T_Hawk@reddit
As an undergrad our university main library(Big Ten university so the library was huge) had a massive card catalog when I was a freshman. During that year they introduced a computerized system for finding books. Within 2 years the card catalog had vanished from its normal spot replaced with study lounge space. My junior year I was trying to find a book and using the crappy computer lookup. It sent me on a wild goose chase trying to find the book and not really helping me. Literally spent 30-45 minutes trying to find this book based upon the info the computer had. Along my journey I eventually stumbled into the old card catalog that was occupying spare space on the 4th floor. I spent about 10 minutes using the card catalog trying to find the right card since they weren’t in order while stored, and about 5 minutes later I had the book in my hand ready to check it out.
I’m sure the computer systems today are much more efficient, but the card catalog worked very well if you knew how to use it.
Also, “Don’t you know the Dewey Decimal System?!?!?”
mfalkon@reddit
Conan the Librarian!!
wanna_be_green8@reddit
Yesterday the internet was down and I learned that made my library kind of useless now. I was unable to look up the location or options of books needed. Dumbfounded.
aspect-of-the-badger@reddit
I miss the card catalog. I used it to look at other similar books.
andiinAms@reddit
Dewey Decimal baby
bingbingdingdingding@reddit
I’ll add having to use the card catalog to find journal articles, pull a stack of issues, and then copy them one page at a time. Yeesh.
AerwynFlynn@reddit
I was just thinking about library cards the other day! They were so tedious, and you’d spend so much time searching through them, especially if you were looking for multiple books
OG_Cryptkeeper@reddit
I don’t care what anyone says:
In hindsight, cassette tapes sounded terrible and were a pain. Yes, they were portable and that was the only positive.
three-sense@reddit
TBH Cassettes are the bastard legacy audio format. No track selection, and the ribbon is easily damage. Even vinyl has a way to "select" tracks.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
There were advanced tape players that could detect points on the tape where the volume was lowest and automatically stop there.
Electronic-Ride-564@reddit
Yes!! My car had one!
Sofagirrl79@reddit
Speaking of the ribbon being easily damaged remember how much ribbon tape trash you would see by the side of the road? I haven't seen it in about 20 years lol
fluffychonkycat@reddit
Being good at rewinding it onto the reel with a ballpoint pen was a legit life skill
Neither-Principle139@reddit
RaygunMarksman@reddit
Wow yeah, several visions of unwound tape laying somewhere in the grass by the road just came to mind.
Glittering-Show-5521@reddit
I had forgotten all about that.
reynaldoboyolo@reddit
Making a mixtape though. Spent hours doing it. Really was a labor of love. Mix CD and playlists just not quite the same
Itchy-Depth-5076@reddit
Oh, I so miss the art of making a mix tape. There's really no equivalent now...
From High Fidelity:
juniper3411@reddit
I guess a Spotify playlist could come close but not quite the same.
Itchy-Depth-5076@reddit
I wonder if you could create one single 60-minute track that just has all the songs you want in order? Similar experience, you can skip a song but only by moving the little bar and it probably won't be exact. You will listen to my feelings in order!!!
joshhupp@reddit
Remember having to do it by recording the radio since owning them was expensive?
imhereforthevotes@reddit
"THE SONG IS COMING ON HIT RECORD HIT RECORD"
HotSteak@reddit
My favorite mix tape features my high school girlfriend's mom yelling at her sister in the background during a Journey song.
Guelph35@reddit
Or better yet recording the audio when MTV showed the video
joshhupp@reddit
I wonder if zoomers know that's where the term mixtape came from
JJHall_ID@reddit
Not only portable, but cheap and recordable, too. They were a game changer at the time.
one_among_the_fence@reddit
THE MIXTAPE HAS ENTERED THE CHAT
Koalashart1@reddit
I hear you, but I disagree. Cassette tapes made music more valuable, more appreciated.
maggie320@reddit
Cassettes were not practical. We went from vinyl records where you could move the needle to a specific song, to a cassette where you had to rewind and make sure you didn’t rewind too far otherwise you’d have to fast forward. Then CDs you could skip to the next song.
adelaidepdx@reddit
The only bonus is that they were incredibly durable. You could abuse the shit out of them, store them uncased, unspool and respool them, and they’d still play. But yeah the sound quality was for shit 🤣
pursnikitty@reddit
Even if part of the tape got seriously damaged, you could just cut off the bad section and splice together the good parts with some tape.
CariniFluff@reddit
Besides 8-tracks, cassettes were the only way to have your music playing in your car. That was a big deal.
maggie320@reddit
That is true.
Zeke688@reddit
I don’t think moving the needle was an exact science either, after a few times searching for the song I guess it would have been easier.
maggie320@reddit
My dad showed me how to find the songs on the albums so I could skip over the songs I don’t care for on the Beatles red and blue greatest hits albums.
OG_Cryptkeeper@reddit
I meant practical in the aspect of being portable.
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
That's true, but records are worse in every way. Ive never understood the appeal. Cds are just better in all ways.
Potential-Ant-6320@reddit
For a lot of people who collect vintage vinyl they want the best masters of classic albums and it’s often a record because digital mastering and the loudness wars mostly sucks.
flamingknifepenis@reddit
Speaking of loudness wars, I haven’t heard anyone talk about this in particular but I swear there was a dark era in the late ‘00s and early ‘10s where a lot of albums sound like shit because they were mixed for that era of iPod earbuds and it doesn’t translate to anything else. I know Sun Records specifically mixed their singles for car stereos back in the Motown days because they knew that’s where people would be hearing their songs for the first time, and I think we went through a similar era with the iPod earbuds. Every now and then I’ll go back and listen to an album from that time period (Fucked Up and The Breeders both come to mind, but there’s more) and I’m shocked at how profoundly dogshit it sounds on my stereo or my studio headphones, when albums recorded both before and after it sound fine. If I play them on earbuds it’s much less noticeable though.
loosedloon@reddit
Especially pre ‐2000s! Everything is a wall of sound creating a 2d image of a band. For some it rocks and others its a crowded room. Many of us collected vinyls like historical artifacts and they were already beat to hell.
OG_Cryptkeeper@reddit
I disagree. Listening to a CD these days? It’s awful. Streaming and vinyl both sound far superior.
CariniFluff@reddit
You just need to download the 1990 release of the CD before the loudness wars were a thing. I avoid any CD rips from like 1996-2010 if I can.
Also how would streaming be any better? It's generally a lossy stream format sourced from a loudness wars era recording.
VelocityGrrl39@reddit
To me a CD sounds digital. I don’t know how else to describe it but there was a digital quality to the music. Vinyl sounds real.
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
I listen to my old CDs certainly. They sound the same as ever. Records are scratchy and always have that static in the background. Its distracting.
kheret@reddit
My 20-25 year old CDs are fine, but so are my LPs
OG_Cryptkeeper@reddit
My records don’t have a scratchy background. That is from the record being dirty.
platypus_farmer42@reddit
Vinyl recordings (if recorded analog and not digital) have a better natural acoustic compression that, to “audiophiles”, sounds way better than digital compression. There are pros and cons to each
Potential-Ant-6320@reddit
It’s not so much digital vs analog compression. It’s more about masters and high dynamic range. In the digital age with digital mastering people started using a lot more compression do the music sound louder. It doesn’t matter if the compressor is digital or analog it’s just that in the vinyl era people were using a lot less compression. For a lot of classic albums the vinyl masters have more dynamic range and are higher quality. That is why they are sought after, not because of the format.
rangeghost@reddit
The ONLY other benefit of the Cassette is that it was recordable.
Enge712@reddit
While the sound quality of a tape was pretty rough, it didn’t skip. Antiskip tech slowly improved but I can recall stopping CDs to listen to the radio on gravel roads
bascule@reddit
Yeah, I loved to be able to take my Walkman on my bike, not really practical with a CD player, at least where I was biking
Dobako@reddit
Changing your walking stride to lessen the skips
imjusta_bill@reddit
Cassettes and VHS are terrible media formats
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Vinyl too. Sure, they're sorta neat for collecting but there is a reason everyone switched to tapes and CDs.
ofcourseIwantpickles@reddit
I through all my CD's away long ago...and long after throwing all my cassette tapes away.
p8nt_junkie@reddit
*threw
ChromeDestiny@reddit
Cassettes could sound good but it was a money pit, you'd have to dump a lot of money on a high end deck and premium blanks. That's one way digital is a lot better, imo.
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
I completely agree. Not a great format, but I did like the walkman and once someone in a friend group had a dual tape deck - we all would copy each others albums.
Back then I seriously hated the tape wobble. Now, I listen to it and I think LoFi.
rarselfaire2023@reddit
Depending on the manufacturer, the quality varied greatly. I've still got Maxell tapes from early 80s that sound fine, and I bought some commercially released tapes back then that lost all high end in a year or so. CDs also varied in quality of materials. Got some early ones that were made sturdier, that are still in fine shape, then they cut corners and those cds have issues now.
nochumplovesucka__@reddit
First thing I thought of before scrolling down to see you answer
Chawnci7@reddit
Scantron test 🤣
StillhasaWiiU@reddit
All the smoking in shared spaces. So glad for that culture shift.
Deep-Ad4351@reddit
The fact that people used to be able to smoke in malls still blows my mind
LastCallKillIt@reddit
lol child play. I remember seeing my grandma in the hospital for lung cancer and going to the smoking room in the hospital still.
Dogs-n-Flowers@reddit
I just re-watched "Steel Magnolias" for the zillionth time (on DVD!) and had quite the nostalgic shudder when Miss Ouiser lit up a cigarette in the hospital waiting room!
Deep-Ad4351@reddit
THAT’S RIGHT!!!!!! I had completely blocked that out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
dekesol@reddit
I recall being at a store in Vegas 19 years ago and people smoking. Or drinking. Either way.....Vegas....
Affectionate-Cut4828@reddit
I love playing casino games, not so much the gambling part. I HATE going to casinos because they all allow smoking. Not just in Vegas. Even here in Detroit. Even in the few Indian casinos I've been to. Takes all the fun of playing the games away from me. Since I'm there to play and not to gamble, I just don't bother going anymore. I loathe having to walk through them to get to shows or to some of the fancier restaurants that are in them.
Deep-Ad4351@reddit
Yeah I went to high school in Vegas and you can basically smoke anywhere that has a machine 🤣
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Malls, restaurants, PLANES, everywhere.
AwkwardlyTwisted@reddit
Wait, you mean to tell me that 3 foot wall at restaurants didn't block the smoke from going from the smoking section into the non smoking section?
JJHall_ID@reddit
I remember seeing a joke sign somewhere as a kid. "A smoking section in a restaurant is like having a peeing section in a pool."
DeadheadCaniac@reddit
I definitely don't miss having to take a shower immediately when I got home after going out
JJHall_ID@reddit
There are still some bars in my area that allow smoking, and I absolutely hate going to them.
bgva@reddit
Worked in a bingo hall one summer. The smoke was so unbearable that I went to Roses and bought a "bingo outfit" exclusively for that job. I refused to ruin my club and 9-5 Polos on that place lol
Sofagirrl79@reddit
I remember my mom and I went to bingo halls in the late 90s and she didn't smoke so we played in the non smoking section,still smelled pretty smokey and it seemed like the majority of the winners were in the smoking section lol
One time me and my ex who were smokers played in the smoking section,he won 500 dollars that night and it was his first time there 😆
socialmediaignorant@reddit
Your leather jacket smelling like an absolute ashtray. Yuck.
VelocityGrrl39@reddit
The smell of your hair in the shower as the water hit it. 🤢
ClimbingUpTheWalls23@reddit
OR waking up dry heaving from the smell of your hair because you passed out before you could take a shower 🤢
My5thAccountSoFar@reddit
Or leaving the jackets outside overnight to air out...
Prossdog@reddit
I worked at a restaurant in Virginia that had a smoking section until about 2011. It’s so weird to think about that now.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
Cigarette vending machines too
InvestmentMain8414@reddit
I am a smoker, and I agree. But smoking indoors always seemed wrong to me.
I remember when Canada was starting to ban indoor smoking. A few Tim Hortons built a designated "smoking section." It was basically a sealed wall of glass with a door. Even in my 20s, I wouldn't walk willingly into that room to drink my coffee.
dekesol@reddit
I'm trying to remember what airport I was in and when it was that I saw a smoking atrium. Its been a few years....maybe 10? But I was in Denver earlier this year and they had an outdoor space. Would hate to have to sit next to someone who was just smoking.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
"Welcome to Denver, the city of no oxygen! Need a smoke?"
No_Willingness5313@reddit
There is one in the Vegas airport (of course) to go with the slot machines.
CariniFluff@reddit
I can't remember which airport it was, but I flew into some city in Germany on a connecting flight last year and in the terminal there were two enclosed areas for smoking. It was the most disgusting thing I've seen in a long time. The air was so thick with cigarette smoke that you couldn't see all the way through, despite it only being like 10' wide. Every person in there literally looked 20-30 years older than anyone else their age and when someone entered this huge cloud of smoke billowed out.
My sister still smokes and after a 14 hour flight definitely wanted a cigarette but she smoked that thing down in like 30 seconds because it was so nasty inside. Her eyes were beet red and the smell clung to her all the way into the next plane.
It's so crazy how our entire society just flipped on a dime from every single place being filled with smoke to now where you could pick out a single person smoking in a huge crowd. I never smoked (tobacco at least) so it was especially nasty to me when I'd go into a bar or pool hall, even a restaurant, and there would be a layer of smoke right to against the ceiling. I'm so glad we moved past that but it's still incredible to me how fast and thoroughly something so entrenched in our society was removed. In just like 5 years it went from inescapable to almost unimaginable.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
My local mall used to allow smoking in the halls but not in the stores themselves. Cigarette butts all over the floor. Imagine being in a baby stroller and seeing that.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
Imagine being so addicted that you would miss out on relaxing and having the time of your life.
Poppy_37@reddit
Right after the smoking ban on airplanes many airports built designed smoking areas much like the one you described at Tim Hortons with sealed glass walls. I used to be a flight attendant and the amount of pilots I saw taking one last drag before their international flights was crazy...like the WHOLE room just full of them, all in various uniforms. Going 8+ hours in a cockpit when you smoke a pack a day must've sucked big time.
ManbadFerrara@reddit
One of my first jobs was as a waiter in the early 2000s, and lemme tell ya, the smoking section was the most coveted set of tables to be assigned to. A. it was always full, and B. if the the food was late, the customers were just like “that’s cool man, we can just smoke some more. You may as well get us some more drinks while we’re waiting.”
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
I smoked until 2005; we were disgusting--I used to smoke between bites of food. It didn't matter what time it was, I was drinking coffee.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
I worked at a little shopping plaza diner on Long Island. The ban went into effect summer of 2003 and there was a temporary lift on the ban a few months later because of a repeal, before becoming permanent. I remember walking into work and it was like Kramer's poker game; I was choking on the fumes.
Accomplished_Book427@reddit
It's fucked up that the smell of cigarette smoke instantly takes me back to childhood 😂
Reasonable-Coconut15@reddit
I get a lot of "whaaa?" Looks when I tell people that cigarette smoke in a house is one of my favorite smells, especially when food is cooking, because it reminds me of when my family was alive and still in contact with each other. Reminds me of Christmas and Thanksgiving and the happy part of my childhood.
Slippery-Pete76@reddit
Ha ha, cigarette smoke on a hot summer’s evening reminds me of our summer vacations to the grandparents.
Affectionate-Cut4828@reddit
For sure. We all smell better, and it's easier to breathe. My 8 year old is in a bowling league now, and I gotta admit, it's still odd being able to see all the way across the bowling alley.
RandomAsianGuy@reddit
Smoking on airplanes was mental.
BetterEveryDayYT@reddit
I was in a smoking section two weeks ago, in Missouri. I was telling my son about how it used to be (smoking sections everywhere, basically).
SpaceLemur34@reddit
I remember before smoking bans went into effect in the rest of the country, I was out in California. I went out to dinner, and something felt off about the interaction with the hostess, when we got our table. It took me a minute to realize she hadn't asked "smoking or non-smoking".
ocvagabond@reddit
Depends on where you lived. I went from a state that had banned smoking for over 10 years to an east coast state that was about to implement the ban. My lord hope bad every restaurant stank for weeks to months after it went into effect. So gross
olhado47@reddit
I was driving through Wyoming and got asked "Smoking or non-smoking?" when we stopped for food. It was so surreal. At least the smokers were in a glassed-off area.
LaLa_LaCroix@reddit
I got cancer when I was 31 with no family history or obvious risk factors, and everyone is always like, "What did you think caused it?" Gee I don't know, growing up with tons of secondhand smoke in public places, everything had BPA in it, I microwaved stuff all the time in the plastic bowls my mom got at the dollar store that were definitely leaching chemicals, all our toys probably had lead paint in them...take your pick!
Sofagirrl79@reddit
Former cig smoker here and even I hated smoky bars when I did smoke lol
rguzman2003@reddit
I live in Las Vegas so I can’t relate 🤣 Smoking indoors everywhere 🥴
schwing710@reddit
I would come home from every show smelling like an ash tray. I can only imagine how much secondhand smoke I'd end up inhaling if they never outlawed smoking in venues.
merlinsmushrooms@reddit
I don't miss the smell of smoking sections, but I kinda miss the wierd dichotomy of every restaurant lol
One of the carolinas- 2007-8ish- waffle house off the interstate. Walked in and they were like "smoking or not smoking" and I had a 90s flashback lol
That was the last time 😭
Stonk_Lord86@reddit
I tried to shame my mom into not smoking in the car with me every day…. It sucked and she looked at me like I was insane anytime I brought it up.
OshetDeadagain@reddit
It never even occurred to me, but that was something my dad never did. The car stank because he smoked in it, but he would never do it when us kids were in the vehicle. He never smoked in the house, either.
I do have fond memories of sitting at the table watching - and later helping - him roll smokes. I always hated the smoke smell, but I loved the smell of the unburned tobacco.
RosesAndSpice@reddit
So much smoking, and it was everywhere. And not just like bars and restaurants, you went to a bowling alley in the 90s you smelled like an ashtray. There was just no way to every fully get away from smoke.
I can't think of the last time I saw someone light up indoors. It's even banned in bars here.
OshetDeadagain@reddit
I will never forget the first time I went to the bar and came home not reeking of cigarette smoke. It was amazing.
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Ugh, yes. I am soooo glad you rarely encounter it anymore unless some douche is like standing outside the entrance to a building smoking.
LastCallKillIt@reddit
This. Fuck that crying over the slow internet shit. That's fine. It didn't make us lazy fucks quite yet back then.
HorseWorking@reddit
Some places in the US have indoor smoking to this day.
WarpGremlin@reddit
I remember in the late 90s in southwest FL, one of the more touristy restaurants went "smoke free" to much fanfare and almost doubled their turnover because smokers cashed out to go smoke instead of taking up revenue space.
It spread as more restaurants got in on the trend.
Then the county ordinances followed.
I don't miss the smoke.
Kyosuke-D@reddit
Surprisingly I actually miss smoking sections. Reminds of a simpler time.
have1dog@reddit
It was only enjoyable if you were a cigarette smoker. But then again having to work in a smoking environment sure made it tough to quit.
ofcourseIwantpickles@reddit
AMEN
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
Long distance telephone fees...
Easy-Tomatillo8@reddit
How about roaming cell phone coverage.
Every_Instruction775@reddit
And “local” long distance fees
nememess@reddit
You had to get 'area calling'.
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
Ooo.. I forgot about those. In state vs Out of state long distance fees.
sdavidson0819@reddit
My dad owned a business in a different area code, so it was long distance to call home. When he was leaving work, he would call home, let it ring twice, then hang up. My brothers and I would get scolded if we picked up the phone before the third ring
yayoffbalance@reddit
buying calling cards!!! i went to college about 40 min from my mom's house. i had to buy a damn calling card to call her so i didn't use "long distance"!!!!
Genghis_John@reddit
My goodness this brought back memories. I had the 1-800 number of the card service and the 16 digit calling card number memorized. Just so that I could then make the call home.
Sofagirrl79@reddit
I had a major surgery in 1997 and the hospital was the next area code over to my house,the hospital billed my insurance even though my house was only 15 miles away,but if I wanted to call someone 80 miles away it was covered as long as it was in the same area code 😡
81toog@reddit
My Dad would always do his long distance calls on Sunday evenings because they had the cheapest rates. Also, so many different long distance phone carrier commercials back then
socialmediaignorant@reddit
Oh my goodness that brought back the absolute yell-fest my parents had with me after my long distance boyfriend and I ran up a $300 bill one month. Don’t miss that!
Kellbows@reddit
Hadababyit'saboy!
CrimsonVibes@reddit
I remember a friend said his daughter upped there phone bill by like $4-$600 dollars from texting.
Fussy_Part69@reddit
A simpler life. Everyone’s going a million miles a minute now.
_meestir_@reddit
Travelers checks were kind of a pain in the butt and some places didn’t accept them
RedSolez@reddit
I don't miss all the physical clutter. Disposing of newspapers alone was like an entire chore in our house. Collections of VHS tapes, cassette tapes, etc...i love that digitizing things has meant a more minimal home to keep.
I don't miss smoking in public being legal.
5tealthNinjaWhattt@reddit
$1 a gallon gas. CDs and mixtapes. Pager codes and regular cameras where you took your changes and didn’t know what you’d get but still loved the imperfectly perfect photos.
yetti4520@reddit
Bearshare/limewire gave your computer aids....
Imaginary-Mix-5726@reddit
Having to re-type an entire page because of one mistake.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
I 'member
Knight_thrasher@reddit
I honestly do not miss CD wallets.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
I miss these because you knew a lot about a person this way without a conversation.
Sausage_Queen_of_Chi@reddit
Changing CDs in your car! What a time to be alive that we can access any song we want, whenever we want it, and play it in our car. Amazing.
CaptServo@reddit
i had the visor thing that held like 8, but you could double it up and use a pocket that was there but not for cds. this came with the risk that if you went around a corner hard with the windows down one could shoot out at any time
akm1111@reddit
We turned the into the car, and got good at putting that whole thing in the space between the seats, or between the gearshift & passenger seat.
GrungeCheap56119@reddit
I feel like people still drove better back then. less distractions!
WeirdObligation1002@reddit
How about the goddamn trunk mounted 6 or 12 disc changers. My then girlfriend did not have a CD in the car but had that trunk mounted monstrosity. Fishing that technological bitch out of the trunk to put in new discs sucked.
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Thanks for being honest. So many people lie about this.
AdComprehensive7939@reddit
So bulky!
rarselfaire2023@reddit
Wish I'd never used them, they scratched my cds
Then_Increase7445@reddit
Was just looking at mine from high school today.
JJHall_ID@reddit
DIVX wasn't a competing format to DVD, in fact it used DVD media. It was meant to be a competitor to video rental stores, and to pay-per-view for people that didn't have cable or satellite TV. The premise is you could "buy" the disc for $5 and take it home with you, and that purchase included the first 48-hour viewing period, but you didn't have to watch it that day. You could pick it up when grocery shopping on a Monday and watch it with the family that following weekend without needing to make a special trip to the rental store. To add to the convenience, you didn't have to take the disc back to the rental store, so no late fees or being forced to purchase an expensive rental-licensed disc because you forgot or lost the disc. You could simply throw the disc away, give it away, or keep it in your movie library, and if you wanted to watch it again you just paid for another 48-hour viewing period. Obviously they wanted you to keep it so you'd pay for more views, or pay the permanent unlock fee. A big drawback is the unlock fee only covered your own player, so if you loaned the disc to a friend they'd have to pay the viewing fee even if you already paid to permanently unlock it.
If I remember right, when DIVX shut down they had to pay people that paid for the permanent unlock back a portion of their money, but I'm sure many lost out because they didn't pay the claim in time or other various reasons.
There was another attempt at "convenience" rentals by a company that used degrading discs. You'd pay $5 for a movie at a store, and it came in a sealed package. As soon as you broke the seal, the data on the disc was exposed to oxygen and would start to fade away and be useless after a few days. The idea behind this is you could buy a rental of the movie at a convenience store and never need to return the disc, just throw it away when done. It was pushed at truck stops too, so that drivers could rent the movie and not have to worry about returning it to the local movie store that may be a couple thousand miles away when it was due back. It didn't catch on because some players had a hard time reading the discs even when freshly unsealed, and they also found that the discs degraded over time even when still factory sealed, so if a movie sat on the shelf for too long before being purchased, it was useless. There was also pushback due to the concern of added plastic being added to the waste stream to fill up the landfills.
PopcornSurgeon@reddit
Homophobia baked into the legal system. “Don’t ask don’t tell” in the military, and an era pre-civil unions let alone pre marriage rights.
the_silent_one1984@reddit
Buying $50 of film for vacation, having to ration the shots, spending another bunch of money to have them developed in an hour or less, only to find the heads are cut off of One set, a finger or thumb blocking another set, half of them underexposed, the other half overexposed, and nobody had their eyes open for most of them.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
It was exciting and special that way though
_R_A_@reddit
When I was doing my bachelor's back in 2000 I took two B&W photo classes as electives. I really enjoyed the manual process of developing the film and making the prints, but it wasn't practical to do after that. I got back into photography with a digital camera about five years ago and the whole idea of not trying to pick out the best 24 shots at a time was a real mind bender.
punkindle@reddit
That reminds me. I got a camera for Christmas and I took it to a school dance, but as a kid I knew nothing about film and I didn't bring any flash bulbs. The entire roll was junk because it was underexposed.
Like 1 picture that we took outdoors developed and nothing else.
evergreenviking@reddit
RIP to the dozens upon dozens of film rolls I never got around to developing.
ShitJustGotRealAgain@reddit
They still might be good enough to develop if you still have them. Technically you should develop them when the film is used but it's not as fickle as people think. I'd say it's an OK shot to try if you feel like it's worth keeping. Sometimes people on /r/analog post pics of old films they found and only now developed.
evergreenviking@reddit
That would be so cool and is really good to know but alas I do not still have them. Thanks though! Really wish I would have kept them.
zielawolfsong@reddit
I'm taking a photography class, and it's interesting learning that film is making a bit of a comeback. I can totally understand if you want a certain look, or you really enjoy the development process. But to me it's not novel or exciting, I've been there done that. I LOVE that I can look at the screen a second later and see if I got the shot or not. Plus if you want to experiment and take hundreds of shots, it costs you nothing except possibly another card if you don't want to delete stuff.
the_silent_one1984@reddit
I have an appreciation for analog photography as an artform. If I had the time and money I'd love to get a really good film camera and take some shots with some manual tuning. But yeah, that's apples and oranges to wanting to just get some good family shots at Disney.
ShitJustGotRealAgain@reddit
I do have a good film camera and honestly my turnout rate is higher with analog film than digital fotos. Which admittedly doesn't say much. But I do get some about 4-5 nice shots out of a 36 frames on a roll, which is a really great ratio. But, It's gotten So freakishly expensive that it really isn't much fun at all. Like a good film is 15-20€ and development and scan is almost the same. And just a reminder, for **5 frames if I'm lucky! **
butterbean8686@reddit
For real. And let’s not forget about the red eyes! In every group shot there’d be at least one person with red eyes.
JiGoD@reddit
Having to turn my Nintendo upside down and put weights across the red yellow white cords to get the damn thing to work.
Think about the trial and error involved with like 8 year old me.
yayoffbalance@reddit
blowing on the cartridge...
i mean, it really developed our problem solving skills...
Neither-Principle139@reddit
And lung capacity
Accomplished_Book427@reddit
Heroin chic as an aesthetic
church-basement-lady@reddit
Seriously. The teen girls I know have a much healthier view of their body than I did. It makes my heart happy, but I also grieve for my younger self. I still view myself as much larger than I am, and that is after really working on it.
Sofagirrl79@reddit
I remember being called a "Jenny Craig dropout" when I was 5'5 and 130 pounds 🙄 I would kill to be 135 pounds today
jupitergal23@reddit
Soooo many of us would love to be the weight they were when we first started dieting heh
Puzzleheaded_Net_863@reddit
Yup. I will always have a disordered body image. My metabolism is so jacked up from yo yo dieting.
Accomplished_Book427@reddit
Same boat, sister.
Neither-Principle139@reddit
Eurotrash crack hos. You can thank Kate Moss for that one
lavasca@reddit
OMG
I feel like that only really went away in 2020. It just was really was the standard!
Accomplished_Book427@reddit
Fashion runs in 20ish year cycles, so I'm sure it was a resurgence 😩
lavasca@reddit
Not a resurgeance. I feel like it never went away until the pandemic. Maybe RTO will bring it back at full throttle.
I remember thinking my bones were supposed to show then freaking out when they stopped.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
I really think celebrities using Ozempic when they aren't in the least bit overweight are bringing this back. I've also read that fashion shows have gone back to hardly using any mid- and plus-size models.
cinnysuelou@reddit
Lockdown sourdough killed heroin chic. I love it. Carbs forever!
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
Overt racism and sexism. I'm a brute, I miss the jokes obviously, but people weren't wimps behind a computer screen back then. They said that shit with their chests out.
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
Paying bills by writing and mailing paper checks.
melllow-yelllow@reddit
I pay most of my bills this way 🫣
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
On purpose? 😱
My HOA website charges $12 to pay dues online with a credit card, so I write a check to be stubborn about that. But that's only quarterly.
jupitergal23@reddit
$12?! Bastards!
DemBai7@reddit
So do I. That reminded me, I need to order more checks
wanna_be_green8@reddit
My husband dioes this as well.
Clinesbox@reddit
I had to have a check a couple of months ago, had to go to the bank and get a sheet of four printed out and then remember how to fill it out properly it had been years.
Miserable-Advisor-70@reddit
Then having to balance your checkbook with your monthly paper statement.
M_V_Agrippa@reddit
My credit rating would be 200 points lower if I had to deal with that shit.
RoundTheBend6@reddit
Lol. Never thought of it that way. Probably true for me too although for years I didn't have everything auto pay even if the last real check I wrote was over a decade ago.
Henchforhire@reddit
I don't miss that all.
Puzzleheaded_Net_863@reddit
And how the credit card companies got away with sitting on your payment for a week so they could charge you a late fee.
socialmediaignorant@reddit
This. This is the one. Balancing a checkbook was not in my skill set. Thank goodness for autopay.
Cautious_Artichoke_3@reddit
Having conversations where people lie about what they said or did. Now that we have text and cell phone cameras you have to actually be accountable. Weirdly enough, the habitual liars haven't changed though
Intelligent-Stage165@reddit
Slow Internet.
TenaciousBe@reddit
Fantasy sports in the 90s was crazy. My friends and I did fantasy football in high school (mid-late 90s) and had to count up scores by hand, using box scores from the newspaper. If the Monday night game ran too late, it wouldn't be in the paper till Wednesday. Eventually the Internet made it more timely to get the box scores, but we were still hand-counting scores well into the 03-04 era. Doing fantasy basketball was even worse, with having 10 or so games to look up nearly every day. Doing leagues online now and having scores updated automatically, instantly, is like a miracle.
Cold_Artichoke9654@reddit
Sticking a pencil in a cassette tape when the player decided to try to eat it
SimpleVegetable5715@reddit
It was asked on another sub by a youngin’, are we safer now than in the 70’s, 80’s and 90’s. And it really got me thinking how easier it was to die in the 80’s and 90’s. Cars weren’t as safe, air bags weren’t standard, and many seat belts were kind of a joke (they weren’t tensioned, for example). Medicine has come a really long way, especially immunotherapies for cancer and autoimmune diseases. If I had the autoimmune disease that I have now, I would have probably had 10-15 years. Yet now, I’m not even disabled, my disease is managed well enough to keep working. If my mamaw had the cancer today that she had in the 80’s, she would have survived.
So yeah, obviously technology has rotted people’s brains, and it’s annoying having to be continually connected. We’re more aware of all the bad things happening than before. But I say on a personal level, it’s the best time in history to have an immune system disorder.
Rasczak44@reddit
When the VCR or tape deck ate our media
one_among_the_fence@reddit
I mean, rewinding movies after renting them wasn't really THAT bad. Like 2 minutes of time while you can go and do other things.
Oh man, DivX. There's a format I haven't thought about in a long time. Had a little player that I hooked up to my TV, and would just burn movie after movie onto discs. I was blown away by how much capacity they had, I could get entire series' worth of shows on a single disc. And it was always a fun process to curate and make the discs, creating a little personal library. Like PLEX before it became a thing.
Best thing I'm glad we left behind in the past? Smoking indoors. GLAD that shit is gone.
oh_wll_whtvr_nvrmnd@reddit
When the phone cord would tangle
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Yeah and sometimes it would get that kink in it you could never undo.
No_Willingness5313@reddit
As irritating to anyone with OCD as a tangled slinky. Throw it out!
AmputeeHandModel@reddit
Not the Slinky!
Economy-Mango7875@reddit
None of it. Making those changes would change the way we grew up. The smell of the library. Waiting for Internet to load. Pagers. Change any of that and we change who we are. Imagine having gps on you all the time. Put that on a cell phone. Parents would call you while you were about to get your freak on ruining your loss of you v card. Losing chill time with friends because your playing a new game isolating yourself. Googling why you can't light a fart on fire instead of having the urban legend that you'll explode if you tried. That card catalog and long load times kept you alive! You change one thing and you change it all. And yes, Mr Rogers was a Marine with arm tattoos. But wasn't it more fun just to pass that around? Kids now dont about the mirror lady and chanting her name in the when it's dark. I'm 41 not dumb. The Internet isn't always right and I don't need that kind of bad juju in my life
LimeSalty4092@reddit
Living/sleeping with no A/C
cartoonchris1@reddit
Everyone smoking
Ineedavodka2019@reddit
Unfiltered misogyny, hate for lgbtq+, dealing with sexual harassment as if it were normal.
three-sense@reddit
I have the utmost sympathy for anyone LGTB in the 90s. Absolute cutthroat society. One of my teachers used the term "gay" interchangeably with stupid.
Grundle95@reddit
I was commiserating a while ago with one of my best friends from back in the day, who is gay, about our middle school principal and he told me about a time he went to her seeking help for all the bullying he was dealing with and her advice was basically “have you tried not being such a little queermo?”
Ineedavodka2019@reddit
Omg.
reynaldoboyolo@reddit
Kinda feels like we're back there unfortunately
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
Sadly yes. I totally thought society as a whole had moved beyond it other than some extremists, but many young men today seem as bad or worse than our grandparents generation. Its awful.
Jonestown_Juice@reddit
Making America Grimy Again.
ThrowWeirdQuestion@reddit
Video games without the option to save, and when you lost all your lives you had to start from zero.
Lava-Chicken@reddit
This is a forgotten pain. It truly was awful. There was so so much rerunning of games.
The quick save feature in Wolfenstein was ground breaking!
Imaginary-Mix-5726@reddit
Styrofoam food containers, and how the hot food made the styrofoam melt and the food taste like plastic.
Sofagirrl79@reddit
Aren't styrofoam containers still a very present item in 2025? Especially after Covid when most pick up,or takeaway orders are still boxed in white styrofoam clamshell containers?
Imaginary-Mix-5726@reddit
There's some still, but I see a lot more waxed cardboard and wrapped sandwiches around me. In the '80s I remember EVERYTHING in styrofoam clamshells - McDonalds burgers, hot dogs at Hardee's, fried fish from the local walk-up fast food stand....
Lava-Chicken@reddit
Within the Christian community, there was heavy satanic panic and burning of things left and right. There was soo much anecdotal evidence for God, Satan, demons, possessions, healing, holy spirit revivals etc. People were certainly Depot up by the spirit of all this garbage. It's not all gone today but it was way worse back in those days i feel.
Ii heard stories of teleportations, miraculous shrinking of vehicles to get through tunnels, resurrection of dead people, speaking in tongues in foreign countries and finding out that the holy spirit was empowering the people to pray on the local language, people writhing and twisting on the floor as demons were cast out, people seeing ghosts and demons do crazy shit. The list goes on and on.
but_does_she_reddit@reddit
The radio in the car. If you were going on a long trip you had to find “another station”. I was explaining “the radio” to my 8 yr old and it felt like I was telling her we navigated by the stars, but I guess we did that too.
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
College radio is great though. Radio is still worth listening to IMO.
wanna_be_green8@reddit
We listen to the radio in the car daily.
akm1111@reddit
I like finding stations in new cities, and have a good set in the major Metropolitan area I live in, but also love having the option to CD or Bluetooth between areas on longer trips.
faintly_nebulous@reddit
CDs, so easy to scratch and ruined if it was. $15 to buy a new copy. Which is now about what I pay to listen to whatever I want for a whole month in an undamageable format. Also I can try more songs by a band, or just listen to the single that I like, without buying a whole album only to realize everything but the radio song is crap.
BigDaddyUKW@reddit
TIL what a DIVX was (I'd never heard of it). But I'm pretty sure I didn't have a DVD player until like 2003 or something.
TheTacoInquisition@reddit
Having to wait for the Sunday top 40 on radio to be able to record a song you liked onto a cassette tape. And then having the DJ screw up the start and/or end by talking over it.
zjuka@reddit
All radio stations played like 10 songs on repeat that the record companies gave them. 10 pop songs on pop music station, 10 rock songs on classic rock station, 10 alternative songs on alternative station. If you wanted to listen to something different, you would have to have the tape on you and a Walkman with charged batteries.
If your friend wasn’t home you couldn’t get in touch with them.
Paper maps
Unskippable ads
Saying any bs confidently was enough to pass for a smart person- it’s not like anyone would run over to the library to prove you wrong with a scanned page
Printed website catalogues and very slow internet
TV stations would cut out entire scenes out of the movie to fit it into a time slot or cut out ‘risky’ scenes, just in case anyone would complain
Casual sexism
Casual racism
Consumerism as the only socially acceptable lifestyle
1pt20oneggigawatts@reddit
Everything smelling like cigarette smoke. EVERYTHING.
Livvylove@reddit
Smokers, I love how in the US they are almost non-existent here. Every time I travel I hate that they are everywhere. It's disgusting
Bb11Keith@reddit
Grapes with seeds. Oranges with seeds. Watermelon with seeds. Not knowing what a song on the radio was, and then having no way to find out.
mackattacknj83@reddit
Calling cards
acromantulus@reddit
150 channels and nothing I want to watch
Winwookiee@reddit
Shopping. While many have nostalgia for malls, if whatever locations you had around you didn't have the thing you were looking for... you didn't get it. This is especially true if you live/grow up in a more rural area of the country. Online shopping might have some big swings in quality, but at least you can typically find anything you're looking for.
HeyWhatsItToYa@reddit
Anto-skip CD players were a joke.
Letsgogehls@reddit
I don’t miss smoking sections in restaurants
Diligent_Mulberry47@reddit
Complicated cell phone plans.
Free nights and weekends but not on surge holiday weekends and only after 9pm depending on your time zone.
sipporah7@reddit
I don't miss cigarette smoke everywhere. One day I'm going to tell my daughter that there were smoking sections on airplanes, and she's not going to believe me.
joebusch79@reddit
I don’t miss getting a virus when I tried to illegally download a song on Limewire😂
hopewhatsthat@reddit
March Madness only on CBS
You got to watch only whatever game they played in your local area.
Old tube TVs were heavy as hell to move.
Manually completing bibliographies was annoying.
Buying tickets for sports/events was more difficult (involved calls to 800 numbers to going to the grocery store or a department store) and you didn't usually get to pick your exact seat like you can now.
Ticket reselling was difficult or illegal.
punkindle@reddit
Concert tickets. Oh, I remember having to stay up all night waiting in line to buy a ticket for a big show one time.
AMugOfPeppermintTea@reddit
I went back to school for a master's in 2017 and was THRILLED at the bibliographic tools that were avialable. Suddenly, listing 30 sources on a research paper was a breeze!
Affectionate-Cut4828@reddit
The Brand obsession. I'm so glad that in my 40s I can just wear whatever I want and feel comfortable in without worrying if I'm showing the right brand names. A lot of Old Navy and no name Amazon stuff for me and that's fine. Though, ever since the Army, I do always make sure to save up and buy quality footwear. No cheap Payless stuff on my feet, but again, that falls into the comfort category, not the brand.
Brave_Cranberry1065@reddit
There were no biologicals.
turtleandpleco@reddit
pooping with nothing to read. Every time i have to take an emergency "90's dump" i feel my soul leaking through my ear.
WorkingRecording4863@reddit
Needing to carry coins to use the payphone.
YeomanTax@reddit
“Litterbugs” People throwing garbage (usually fast food) out of their car windows.
ozone_00@reddit
I just finished my bachelor's degree, and I can't imagine writing papers in college without the internet.
thesnark1sloth@reddit
Everyone smoking everywhere, including indoors.
Scott_R_1701@reddit
Not knowing who was calling.
digitalgraffiti-ca@reddit
Slow internet.
People acting like girls are too stupid to use a computer (still happens, but way way WAY less)
Pixel art side-scrollers. I hated that.
Having your creativity in web design stifled by the supreme crap-fest that was internet explorer.
That dial up noise.
People hating on computer nerds
Neuro atypical kids not receiving the help they need, socially or educationally.
Having shopping options strangled because of where you live
Gigantic brick phones. I used to ride horses, and my mom would make me take my dad's hunting knife and her cellphone if I went riding in the forest, because we have cougars. I told her I didn't need the knife because I could easily brain a cougar with her 700 pound Motorola. She genuinely uses that same phone as a doorstop to this day.
Digital cameras with a resolution of approximately 4×6 pixels that cost eleventy billion monies. Why bother?
CDs. DVDs. VHS. Radio. Commercials. Renting movies. I hate constantly having to fuck around with my entertainment or deal with interruption. Streaming or GTFO.
Please enter disc to launch this software.
The wonderful world of 16 colours on your computer screen and horrid dithering.
Newspapers. Such a waste of paper.
Low rise flared jeans. I'm devastated that they're coming back. Srsly, fuck those jeans.
Only having boring, terrible cosmetics offered at reasonable prices.
Having to carry cash, having to swipe cards.
I'm torn on cellphones. I miss not being in contact 24/7. I miss when people could carry on a conversation or eat a meal without staring at a phone. But I do not miss:
needing a tacky bracelet to tell the time
handheld gaming consoles
Needing a giant camera to get a good photo
needing to carry around documents
being unable to call someone in an emergency
gross pay phones
not being able to fact check on the fly
writing a to-do list on my hand
Carrying a flashlight, calculator, level, music player, recording device, or any of the dozens of other things jammed into this tiny brick.
being bored shitless waiting for a doctors appointment (they never start on time), waiting for a bus, or any other waiting for an unknowable amount of time.
being physically tethered to a landline when on an endless call or waiting for a call back
having an easy excuse to get OFF the phone (bad signal, dead battery, etc.)
ScarecrowOH58@reddit
I was always a spiritual GenXer, so actually lots of things that get brought up on this forum:
-Jnco's, frosted tips, Dave fucking Mathews Band, Nu Metal (I like early 90s rock and metal), goofy ass tv slop like Fresh Prince, tramp stamps.
-The lack of any counter-mainstream political/cultural content. It's astounding to think back at how blind and clueless all my elders were/are when it comes to anything important.
JustAGreenDreamer@reddit
Homophobia
muhhuh@reddit
Dewey decimal. My autistic ass just memorized where the books were in the library.
punkindle@reddit
CRT TVs emit an annoying high pitched noise, all the time, even if the audio was muted.
Also, they were like 100 lbs.
muhhuh@reddit
DIVX was a paid format? Holy shit. I cracked and pirated so many DIVX movies. I thought it was just another format 🤣
Character_Bend_5824@reddit
Not knowing! Do you really yearn to be stranded and truly stranded or to bot be able to tell your friends you are running late and have them give up and ditch you?
jaystone79@reddit
Having to wait to use your cell phone until “free nights and weekends”.
DankRoughly@reddit
We weren't so good about discussing mental health stuff back then.
We've made a lot of progress in that regard.
Also not calling people retards is a plus
LougieHowser@reddit
People are always terrible to each other just because they use different language now doesn't mean things have changed. don't kid yourself.. it's not going to be rainbows and butterflies. I preferred back in the day.. in stead of the new passive aggressive insidious weaponized righteousness fake smile bs. It's not real. people are not suddenly going to agree to be nice to each other. That is a pipe dream.
anarchetype@reddit
That didn't last, I'm afraid. It's come back with a vengeance in the younger generation and calling things gay has been making a comeback as well. I even see Millennials now trying to fit in and pretending that Limp Bizkit doesn't suck and calling people retarded and gay has always been cool.
It's not been fun seeing a lot of social progress we made and took for granted abandoned like this.
Dickrubin14094@reddit
I definitely don’t miss having to pay for each text sent or received. Also I appreciate being able to call people before 9 pm and not worrying about minutes being free
knotalady@reddit
Low rise jeans
bytheoceansedge@reddit
They're making something of a comeback at the moment. My 17 year old daughter and her friends are all mad for vintage low rise jeans...
DETRITUS_TROLL@reddit
Spending $20 on an album because you liked one song only to find out IT SUCKS.
Charlotte_Martel77@reddit
2 things that still exist but tech has largely rendered them obsolete: maps and having to watch television on a schedule. Kids today have no idea how lucky they are to be able to stream their shows at their convenience. If you weren't willing to report to the television at a certain time (assuming that there were no competing shows with your parents/siblings), then you either had to get someone to record it for you or cross your fingers and hope that it would be replayed in the summer.
I didn't see the entire DS9 series until it was released on DVD because of this.
olive_juse@reddit
E.D. culture
hyphychef@reddit
Not having a cell phone. Only reason I have one arm is I need to be able to clock in and out, and be tracked while I'm at work. Since I work alone and start when I want, boss wants to make sure I'm actually at the job site. Past that take as many breaks as I want, as long as my work is done in 8 hours.
vilsash@reddit
The water pressure in showers, but that might be because we were poor
BetterEveryDayYT@reddit
Barely ever using the computer... I think Slingo and keyboarding were the two main things that I used it for in the 90s - and those were only occasional.
Burgerman555@reddit
Smoking indoors
IWantAStorm@reddit
I'm glad that computer related parts are no longer pushed toward the entire consumer base. I don't miss that time when my parents were asking repeatedly about fax/scanner/photo printing space suckers or zip drives.
I am glad that consumer facing OS options have less of a chance for random settings changing that you can't figure out what the person did.
Damnation77@reddit
On the serious side, girls who fell asleep at a party were considered free game. Rape was rampant and was mostly considered the girls fault for putting herself in a vulnerable situation.
LikelyLioar@reddit
Paper maps.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
I like the aesthetic and I don't mind using them - until it comes to folding those bastards back up. The only thing harder to refold is a paper sewing pattern
LikelyLioar@reddit
My problem is I get lost very easily, and if you don't know where you are, maps are nearly useless.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
Yeah I agree in principal they aren't the best option for a lot of people. I'm a very visual thinker so maps are quite good for me but if someone gives me verbal directions I could end up anywhere
fluffychonkycat@reddit
I haven't had a cheque book in over 20 years and I'm not mad about it
Ramablue@reddit
Having to call a house phone, especially looking for a girl.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
And someone listening in on the other phone in the house
AndrewInMN@reddit
School. I hated it. I mostly because I was undiagnosed ADHD until recently.
cmgww@reddit
Nah, you can still not like school as a non ADHD person. The public school setup (with exceptions) is too structured for a lot of kids. Rote memorizing/learning and “teaching to the test” isn’t the best way (thanks No Child Left Behind), and I’d definitely look into alternatives for my children if I could afford them….and they go to a supposedly “good” school. Thankfully it’s not exactly the same everywhere
AndrewInMN@reddit
I didn’t mean to imply that someone without ADHD couldn’t hate school. That was just my reason. There’s a decent chance I’d have still hated it with that going on, but it probably would’ve at least been easier.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
I have recently diagnosed AuDHD and while I think today's education system would have catered better for me in some ways, I am very glad I wasn't taught in those huge open-plan classrooms that a lot of schools had. That would have been a massive sensory overload
bgva@reddit
Trying to log into AOL and the line was busy. Good luck logging on anytime between 6 and 7 p.m.
Also, getting knocked off the Internet because a call came in or someone picked up the phone.
fluffychonkycat@reddit
I remember using a program, I think it was called GoZilla, that would pick up your download where it cut off and complete it. That program was a lifesaver.
guyincognito121@reddit
Yeah. And don't get me started on how long it took to download porn. Absolutely ridiculous.
Xx_SwordWords_xX@reddit
The normalisation in society that gang-raping the passed-out (or overly intoxicated) girl, at a frat party, should be expected.
throwaway04182023@reddit
Something someone deemed newsworthy would happen and it took over every channel. Television was canceled until it was over. I remember being so mad at Princess Di and JFK Jr. At the time I had absolutely no idea who they were.
teriKatty@reddit
I don’t miss the high school drama.
throwaway04182023@reddit
Workplace drama is potentially dumber ime.
tweedchemtrailblazer@reddit
Absentee parents were great, but also, really really not great. I didn’t have a curfew after 13, had girlfriends sleeping over at 14, and was pretty much a roommate to my parents by 16. I guess that was cool. But some guidance would have been nice. When I moved away for college my dad gave me a whole frozen chicken and said “good luck”
ShitJustGotRealAgain@reddit
Tangled up headphones. So often I wanted to just cut them off and so many dead ones because I was so frustrated that I just yanked at them. Tbf that also happened in the 00s but I don't miss it from pre 2000 either.
WelcheMingziDarou@reddit
Cigarette smoke! Fucking everywhere. In restaurants, inside & outside bars & clubs. Relatives smoked. Kids at school smoked. It all stank and everyone and everything nearby it stank. Good riddance to that shit!
Free-Cherry-4254@reddit
I miss losing internet connection whenever someone picked up the damn phone.
Pharmacy_Duck@reddit
VHS release rate and format. A single season of Star Trek would take 9 months to come out, cost the best part of £150 overall, and take up a sizeable amount of shelf space. And that was just for one season.
SLyndon4@reddit
Smoke-filled bars and nightclubs. I used to go out clubbing with some girlfriends in college and would come home absolutely REEKING of smoke, even my hair. It was disgusting.
stadtgaertner@reddit
public transport was hell in the 90s.
Early-Fortune2692@reddit
Loading CD's, gunning a stick shift, and thumbing a random mcnally binder trying to figure where my next job is...
blargysorkins@reddit
The awful bullying that everyone just accepted.
Futant55@reddit
I don’t miss ordering food over the phone.
Sofagirrl79@reddit
I miss not having to order door dash or Uber eats for a jacked up price,and just paying a small fee for delivery and not a marked up price per menu item
I realize not every restaurant was able to deliver back in the day but after Covid it seems a good chunk of restaurants that delivered through the phone switched to high priced delivery apps
grn_eyed_bandit@reddit
The power going out and losing all your work since your last save
bev665@reddit
There used to be more stigma about doing things like placing a personals ad or using a dating service. Now it seems like almost everyone has used an app to date. I'm glad there isn't as much stigma about putting yourself out there if you're not really meeting anyone new.
-PlayWithUsDanny-@reddit
The homophobia
C1sko@reddit
Cell phones
therealpopkiller@reddit
Standard def 4:3 twenty-inch televisions that weighed 40 lbs
verygooster@reddit
RealPlayer.
redditshy@reddit
Trying to figure out where tf I am going.
I <3 GPS.
Budget_Wind4338@reddit
Slow Internet.
Recording TV on VHS or beta.
Physical card catalogs at a library.
Pogs.
itsjakerobb@reddit
America Online, Compuserve, Prodigy, and similar “internet for babies” services.
shmelse@reddit
The homophobia wasn’t great, in retrospect.
I also love my digital library card. I never thought I’d be an e-book person but give me the ability to check them out and return them for free from my couch and I’m sold.
Sausage_Queen_of_Chi@reddit
And the transphobia although a lot of people are still transphobic
WanderingGenesis@reddit
Other people's transphobia is actually a large reason why i still refer to myself as pansexual.
I remember seeing arguments online about how pansexual and bisexual were the same thing, and thinking to myself how lucky these kids must be to think that when i clearly remember even going to an art school in nyc and hearing people say "I'm bi but if never date a tr@nny, that's disgusting".
I can vividly remember not only how much hearing that boiled my blood, but seeing old trans classmates in earshot hearing that and that same look of dehumanization if felt when I'd had racial epithets thrown at me for the first time.
Bisexuality will never be the same as pansexuality to me because of that.
MolassesConstant2256@reddit
I’m fine with the resurgence of “fag” and “retard” solely because it validates we never used those for describing homosexuals or special needs people. Well, maybe in traffic here and there.
ultradav24@reddit
People used those words all the time
evergreenviking@reddit
Yes! I remember even in elementary school we all collectively agreed that using the r-word for mentally disabled or special needs kids was not at all okay. It was just sort of a variation of 'dumbass' between friends.
unknown7383762@reddit
Yeah the fact that calling stuff "gay" was referring to something being stupid, lame, etc. My wife and I have talked about that recently how ridiculous that was, but it was just normal speak.
rialucia@reddit
That never sat right with me and I am so glad it’s been left behind.
Unless it’s used in a funny, non-malicious way.
gpo321@reddit
“Burn CD operation failed!”
We had an IBM computer and went through so many spindles of CD’s because the CD burner was not the greatest…
Si_Titran@reddit
The late 90s/00s diet culture. I was not fat... but i was made to think i was and thus struggled with various EDs, and body image issues.
81toog@reddit
Heroin chic
HadynGabriel@reddit
I don’t miss waiting for a pay phone after my pager went off
81toog@reddit
Or I had my pager go off at a ball game or out on a hike and I wasn’t able to call back for a couple hours
81toog@reddit
I was really into the weather as a kid. I basically either had to watch the local news to get an update on the weather pre-internet, or wait until the newspaper came the next morning to get an updated forecast.
AMugOfPeppermintTea@reddit
As a disabled person in the US, I can't help but be amazed at how recent the passing of the ADA was (1990). I'm glad that those born later get to benefit from that (at least for the time being...)
Eternally-WIP@reddit
I always had to check TVs I wanted to use if they had CC. All TVs now have it included, I forget exactly when it was required? (Last 15-ish years?) I couldn't watch if no CC, and such a pain to turn them on every time
AMugOfPeppermintTea@reddit
You and me both! We had a closed captioning box hooked up to the tv. Yeah, such a pain when a show wasn't captioned. I'm HH and I benefitted a lot from my hearing aids so I can watch shows without captioning but it is significantly more difficult and I often have to ask someone to repeat key lines to me that I've missed. I looooove how common captions are and that so many hearing people use them to, though I hate that film/tv sound engineers are messing with the mixes so that even those with great hearing struggle to parse dialogue in newer films and shows.
Herky_T_Hawk@reddit
This is one area where the USA was way ahead of most of the world though. The European Accessibility Act didn’t require implementation until this past summer.
OrangeBlackMilk@reddit
Having to watch a TV show when it airs or you miss it until it shows up in reruns months later, if at all (unless you programmed the VCR to tape it). There's a lot of negatives with streaming but being able to watch a show when you want as many times you want is a plus
81toog@reddit
Yup, or sporting events. If you missed it live on tv sometimes you would need to wait until you got the paper the next day or caught highlights on the evening news.
SuperDoubleDecker@reddit
Digital is way better than analog media.
Orbital_Vagabond@reddit
Dial-up and DSL.
Calling cards.
Wood paneling and wired wallpaper.
Brown/red/orange color palettes.
kronik419@reddit
Waiting for your ride to pick you up, with ZERO idea of when they were gonna get there.
81toog@reddit
Just waiting forever. Also, not having real time arrival data for buses.
chrisacip@reddit
The name of my existence from 1990-1998.
AMugOfPeppermintTea@reddit
My eyes are bad and I can't drive so I've always had to rely on others and public transit to get me anywhere that wasn't within reasonable walking distance. The biggest reason I bought a smart phone was after a time when I was out at night needing to take a bus home and having no idea when the next one was coming or if the line was done for the night so I called someone to ask them to look up the bus schedule for me. I finally hit my breaking point and got a smart phone in order to make dealing with public transit 1000% better. Then later, having rideshare as an option was also fantastic.
81toog@reddit
Back before email, when a good friend would move away it was just like ok, never going to talk to this person again. Might do a postcard or letter occasionally but it was basically the end of the friendship until you looked them up on Facebook 15 years later!
81toog@reddit
How you could get lost so easily without cell phones. You would set a time to meet somewhere and if someone didn’t show up in like 5 minutes people would just leave. Half the plots on like Friends or Seinfeld wouldn’t make sense today because it could just be fixed if everyone had a cell phone on them
ahopskipandaheart@reddit
Charting a course to a friend's house for the first time even with a cell phone cos that shit would disappear in the boonies and mountains and all you had was a vague memory that if you drove by a big tree you went too far.
Also a lack of airbags.
IndomitableAnyBeth@reddit
Lack of airbags? Are you kidding? My uncle's car didn't even have seat belts in the back seat! Which is to say nothing of the less visible features like our modern crumple zones that make the vehicle absorb the damage instead of the people in them. Even aside from continued development in child safety seats (which quite honestly can't protect much better than they do now) cars are immensely safer for passengers now than they were in 1980.
ahopskipandaheart@reddit
Trying to stick closer to the year 2000 which is the question. In 1999, seat belts were pretty common in most cars still on the road but not all the airbags. However, agree on improved vehicle safety generally. I like all the safety features we now have and don't want to go back.
IndomitableAnyBeth@reddit
Fair. Fwiw, a lot of the stuff less obvious to consumers was improving a lot in the late 90s and early 00s. Honeycomb mesh, especially. But I'm probably more familiar because among its many facilities, my university had a materials test lab. Including a crash track. I saw some of it being tested. And the updated dummy options that were just starting to become standard.
Along with air bags, do you remember news articles coming out about them being dangerous for women? News articles, videos about when and how to disable them. And then later some higher-end vehicles started describing their advanced safety features as safe for women and smaller men? That was because they used the newer, differently shaped sensor-laden dummies like they had in our materials lab. For their claim to be valid, they used the woman-shaped (-weighted and -sized) dummy along with the teenage boy. Until then hardly any automotive company had tested kind of body but a full-grown man. Sometimes other groups did tests with infant dummies but those were about as likely to be sensor-less dolls than true data-giving tests. My college was one of the places these advanced tests on various sizes were being done in the US. At somewhat reduced cost, because they needed all the tests they could get to prove the new forms before they could convince the Feds that they're good enough to use for the required safety testing of commercial aircraft seating. Almost no one tried to check if cars were safe for passengers of different sizes until airbags made their initial difference in safety obvious.
Oh, fwiw, the way forward airbags are deployed and inflate is done differently pretty much across the board than how it was at first. Less change in the first moment than was in the beginning and they come out at a different angle. My parents once waited a year or two to get a newer car. Mom's pretty short and wanted the industry to get its air bag decapitation problem worked out. Didn't take them long, but weird that it was a briefly a rare but known outcome.
ahopskipandaheart@reddit
I must've blocked out the decapitation thing but remember there being issues. 😬
IndomitableAnyBeth@reddit
Yeah... remember there were a few where that was at least expected to have contributed if not caused, almost all major injuries were in short or short-armed women, and no one at the time had ever tested the feature on anything but a fit grown man.There were unexpected consequences up to and including having your neck broken and maybe suffering internal decapitation if the explosive force meant to apply to your upper chest at given distance was instead applied to your neck or chin at a closer distance. As American manufacturers originally set it, airbags caused increasingly non-ideal effects as height decreased below 5'6". At the time, the average height of American women was 5'4". There have been some changes with airbags.
KaleidoscopeShort408@reddit
Calling the movie theater to find out showtimes and waiting through the entire recording to get the piece of info you needed.
nightterrors644@reddit
Divx was also a video format common on torrent sites. Could still play the videos on certain dvd players, but mostly I just watched on my computer.
Key-Leading-3717@reddit
Homophobia and transphobia was rampant.
Carmen315@reddit
Carrying around binders of CDs to listen to.
TransportationOk657@reddit
Getting lost and having to pull out the "never be able to fold it back to the original way" road map.
imhereforthevotes@reddit
I don't miss people giving me shitty directions and having a questionable map and getting lost.
dasvootz@reddit
Mall punk
janellthegreat@reddit
While textbooks and print media certainly have their place, I am glad my kids aren't schlepping forty pounds of textbooks between hone and school each day.
evergreenviking@reddit
That definitely sucked but on the plus side I had effortlessly super toned legs for 20+ years after that lol
Federal_Base_2905@reddit
The obsession with being heroin chic
randomwellwisher@reddit
Maps.
hevnztrash@reddit
having around 275 songs taking up nearly all the space in my backpack.
JudgeJuryEx78@reddit
Going to meet someone and having to wait for them to arrive. Like, if you didn't bring a book or a magazine you just had to...sit there.
I had my first cell phone around 98 but there was a limited of number of people I could text, and they might be busy, so I'm back to just sitting there. People watching if you're lucky.
Felinius@reddit
Paying for slow ass internet by the hour.
Konnorwolf@reddit
I don't miss anything inconvenient. If I missed it and was still possible I would likely still do it. I moved to whatever I found the best way as soon as I could. Digital starting in the early 2000's. Had Comcast by 1999.
Grammarhead-Shark@reddit
Dial Up.
EfficientAd9230@reddit
Paying for long distance phone calls.
jasonmoyer@reddit
Nu Metal
datura_slurpy@reddit
Phones with cords
Network TV with commercials (no dvr)
Collect calls
Old word processors where you had to play games with margins to avoid orphan pages
Watching only the local sports
Lack of craft beer options
MajesticEmergency@reddit
TVs that were only 25" screen size and weighed 200 pounds at the same time.
MissManipulatrix@reddit
Having to set your timer each time you wanted to record awkwardly timed tv shows you’d otherwise miss.
Separate-Relative-83@reddit
Roaming fees on cell phones 😂
Lawnlady1980@reddit
Body shaming.
Aggressive sexism in all things at all times everywhere.
Gay jokes.
Dramatic-Yam1984@reddit
Bank books lol. My bank “upgraded” to paper slips that were held in a plastic wallet. I never knew when to take the slips out so it was super thick
Travellers cheques and the stress of having to sign it and worried I’d mess it up
PersonalityAlive6475@reddit
New Coke & Crystal Pepsi.
Dramatic-Yam1984@reddit
Remember the crystal gravy commercial from SNL?!?! 🤣
AdComprehensive7939@reddit
How dare you denigrate Crystal Pepsi!
PersonalityAlive6475@reddit
Sir/madam/other honorrific, I have not yet begun to denigrate that abomination of cognitive dissonance.
chrisacip@reddit
People are so nostalgic for the 90s, but the lack of connective technology meant an incredible amount of wasted time.
Getting lost. Missed connections. Losing touch with people. Not knowing where friends were.
What is that song? Where’s that party? Who was that one guy… and on and on. Information was so LIMITED compared with now.
I wonder if I could go back and quantify the amount of time spent either waiting or wondering. Personally, I am much happier living in a time where life feels smooth, efficient and connected. It’s not perfect, but it’s better.
mallorn_hugger@reddit
On the other hand, my memory was so much better. I really don't think it's just age, I think that it is all of the technology. Sometimes I think having life slower would be better for us, even if it means that we have a little less.
LemonPartyW0rldTour@reddit
The near complete dismissal of mental health being an issue.
bascule@reddit
POTS landlines (including dialup Internet)
alphacreed1983@reddit
Boredom. Mid-distance stare boredom.
Traumagatchi@reddit
Someone picking up the phone while I've been waiting 4 hours to download a song. Also my dads not being able to marry until they were elderly sucked.
Specialist_Fig3838@reddit
Lack of plus size clothes and extended shoe sizes. It’s still abysmal (and actually getting worse) but soooo much better than what it was when I was a kid.
SilentSerel@reddit
YES, and it was even worse if you lived in an area with limited shopping options to begin with. The "big city" was a little over 2 hours away and my parents weren't willing to make that drive, so I ended up having to dress like a boy and make a "grunge" thing out of it. I. Was. Miserable.
Clothing is my weakness to this day and I really have to work hard to make sure I don't overspend or impulse buy because the choices are so much better now (although I agree that it seems like we are backsliding on that a bit).
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
Having to untangle the stretched out coiled phone cord because for some reason our parents always wanted the house phone in between the kitchen and the living room.
ThrowWeirdQuestion@reddit
Having to drive to the next bigger city to buy anything that isn't groceries, clothing or things for everyday use and then being stuck with the few options that store has. I remember buying my first PC. There were no stores that would sell them in 1995 within 45 minutes of where I lived. Same for any kind of software and peripherals.
These days I can even do my grocery shopping online.
KrigenK@reddit
Cannabis being illegal.
Vancouverreader80@reddit
The slowness of the internet
InNausetWeTrust@reddit
Restaurants and the hostess goes “smoking or non-smoking?” Back then it seemed so normal, now it’s like how/why the fuck did we do that
ahabneck@reddit
Personal mail
Difficult-Way-9563@reddit
Rewinding VHS tapes.
REDDITSHITLORD@reddit
I don't miss '80s/90s homophobia.
I mean things kinda suck at the moment, but, it was worse.
ljofa@reddit
All shops closing on a Sunday. That was just the worst.
ThrowWeirdQuestion@reddit
I wish Germany wasn't still stuck in the 2000s... 😆 Definitely one of the things that would annoy me most if I had to move back there.
Lucasa29@reddit
Still a thing in Bergen County, NJ, which is very close to NYC and has 900,000 people living in it.
VelocityGrrl39@reddit
Where was this? I definitely didn’t experience this in the 90s and 80s
WeirdObligation1002@reddit
I grew up in Massachusetts and the “blue laws” were still a thing into the early 2000’s. Thankfully I lived right in the border of New Hampshire where the heathens do not trifle with such matters.
rekep@reddit
The Walmart by my house didn’t t open till 1130ish on Sundays.
arcxjo@reddit
Teachers cheering on the assholes who'd commit felony battery on me right in front of them.
rfgrunt@reddit
The 90s were incredibly racist. Rodney king beatings, LA riots, rap lyric hearings in congress and welfare queens etc
NoMercy767@reddit
The lack of food options. I live in a very multicultural city now, but back then it was homogeneous and hard to find certain ingredients or different types of cuisines and cultures.
One_Market_9335@reddit
I don't miss not having this knowledge
jake03583@reddit
This is the first time I’ve ever heard of DIVX that wasn’t a reference to pirated videos
thecolossalfossil@reddit (OP)
Originally, it the encoding format used was called DivX ;-)
It was kind of a full circle techno parody referencing the disc fiasco. DivX was a hack of mp4 and got around the need to pay for licensing for some of the common codecs (encoder/decoder) at the time.
The ironic thing is in the early 2000s, they went commercial and a fork of the OpenDivx format was created to keep it out of corporate hands - Xvid was born.
GrungeCheap56119@reddit
The dial up internet sound
RadioWavesHello@reddit
War on drugs
h0tel-rome0@reddit
Pimples
onions-make-me-cry@reddit
I don't miss paper maps. I really enjoy navigation
hadesscion@reddit
I worked at Hollywood Video when DIVX came out. What a massive failure that was.
DarinCN@reddit
My acne
_its_a_SWEATER_@reddit
Radio.
Stuck having to listen to same alt rock 90s top 40 EVERY DAY with little to no variety. Radio is absolutely worse nowadays, but we can fully avoid it now.
Grundle95@reddit
FM radio is still playing that same 90s alt rock and 70s/80s butt rock to this day, with even less variety. But as you said, at least we have other options now.
chrisacip@reddit
Pop music was VERY loose butthole
don51181@reddit
Video games without DLC.
TheSean_aka__Rh1no@reddit
But, games worked when they were released, none of this Day Release patching bullshit
Grundle95@reddit
Not always. See my post above: there were still plenty of buggy games and you had to get patches from the publisher the old fashioned way, ie either call their BBS if they had one and download it over dialup or wait a week for them to mail you a floppy.
That’s assuming they bothered patching it at all. Some publishers would just give you the finger and say caveat emptor. What were you going to do, write a complaint and hope to get published in the letters to the editor section of Computer Gaming World a month or two later?
Administrative-Flan9@reddit
End users are now beta testers
Then_Increase7445@reddit
Yeah I far prefer the old games. I was just playing Warcraft 2 a few minutes ago....I can go desktop to in game in 5 seconds.
MCA2142@reddit
I disagree. I would love a game without DLCs. A complete experience in a single purchase. I had no idea people preferred games chopped up into pieces and being nickel and dimed. You do you, I guess.
Sc0j@reddit
Being called various homophobic slurs if you were bad at and / or not interested in sports
drslovak@reddit
In 1998 or so I recall seeing the Google search engine and thinking I needed to invest in them
memilygiraffily@reddit
Britney Spears' and Justin Timberlake's matching denim formalwear?
PrairieMaths@reddit
Chicken pox
xRVAx@reddit
Bank books.
Like if you wanted to withdraw money you had to have your little book. Deposit money? Don't forget your bank book!
Visual_Tale@reddit
“Heroine chic” rail thin body type being the ideal. I’d be a lot healthier now if I hadn’t restricted my diet so much in my 20’s.
I don’t miss khakis.
I don’t miss being lactose intolerant in a milk-and-cream world.
I don’t miss scraping my dirty car floor to find change to pay tolls with, lol.
I don’t miss weed being illegal
WinterLanternFly@reddit
AOL junk mail.
Grundle95@reddit
I don’t know, having to pay for coasters now kind of sucks
tronassembled@reddit
Shoulder pads
RedHawk451@reddit
The music was atrocious.
You had to dive into an unknown category or go to another country to find artists that represented who you were.
schwing710@reddit
Hold up. Are you really calling all pre-2000s music atrocious? Am I reading this correctly or do I finally need to pick up some glasses?
RedHawk451@reddit
Not all of it.
Just a lot of it.
Illustrious-Lead-960@reddit
Computer game loading times. And the anti-piracy passwords.
sllh81@reddit
Having to roll the dice and talk to your girlfriend’s parent (either/or) while waiting for her to answer the phone, then hoping they hang up before you have your real conversation incognito style.
schwing710@reddit
I don't miss how every family was expected to go to church on Sundays. I know plenty of people out there still do, but it was so normalized in the '90s, even The Simpsons went to church. Could you imagine a TV family doing that now?
noonesaidityet@reddit
Having to call everyone for everything. Quick texts make a lot of things easier and quicker.
Grundle95@reddit
Games and programs to be installed using a series of floppy disks, prior to the wide adoption of CD-ROM technology. If anything happened to one of those disks, you were SOL. Also if there were bugs or updates, patches did exist but you either had to get it on yet another disk mailed to you by the publisher, which would take who knows how long, or if you were lucky they’d have a BBS that you could call (a toll free number if you were really lucky!) and download at torturous early 90s dialup speeds.
And on the topic of dialup, I also don’t miss having to announce that I was going to be online, so nobody pick up the phone for a while. I’m an only child and it was bad enough with just me, my mom and my dad. I can’t even imagine what a pain in the ass it would have been for a large family.
Britown@reddit
Microfiche
New_me_310@reddit
Snackwell cookies 🤮
SplakyD@reddit
It's so cool to have so many answers to little questions that arise, like references in movies and TV shows, right in the palm of your hand. I remember that I'd keep a legal pad on the bookcase in my room and I'd write down things that I wanted to learn more about from watching television or reading to look up later in the library or using the school's one internet equipped computer. I used to read random Encyclopedia entries for fun, much the same as I do with Wikipedia now. I didn't have internet at home until the summer of 1999, just before my senior year of high school. I lived in a rural area and went to a high school in the country, but where my family lived the closest dial-up Internet Service Providers were technically long distance from my house so we couldn't get AOL or Netscape or any of the national companies and had to wait until a smaller startup began offering services in a town about 6 or 8 miles away. I blame my being such a Luddite now on how pissed off and jealous I was of basically everyone else in my class having the Internet starting in 7th grade and me having to flex like I didn't give a shit about computers and technology. It really stunted me in a lot of ways.
OnyXerO@reddit
Going outside
PsychologicalRace739@reddit
I miss the feeling of getting lucky on a Saturday afternoon when they played a good movie I never seen on antenna tv (we didn’t have cable )…
I saw boyz in the hood and a Bronx tale like this
WeirdObligation1002@reddit
Cell phone coverage and the cost of cell phone plans (I did enjoy getting “free” phones every couple years though).
I had a bill the size of a car payment one month in 1999 or 2000 when my car broke down and I had to make a long distance daytime call to AAA to get a tow. Had me on hold and talking to people for almost an hour
-sallysomeone-@reddit
I don't miss breaking down in my car in a rural place without a cell phone
MeatPopsicle10@reddit
I was a film editor pre-2000’s and do not miss all-night renders just to find out I hadn’t quite got the special effect perfect. Depending on the effect, it could be another couple of hours to render again.
AdComprehensive7939@reddit
Really bad makeup and hair products that made me break out or caused my hair to frizz. We just had less options and most of them were crap.
IrrelevantREVD@reddit
Crime, Violent crime peaked in the US in 1991. It is so much safer now, despite what you might hear on the news.
babyBear83@reddit
I reeeeally don’t miss when everyone was allowed to smoke indoors. Not sure how we dealt with it constantly and I was even a smoker off and on as a teenager and through my 20’s. Now, if I walk outside and smell cigarettes kinda nearby, it’s very obvious.
I remember coming home from the bar in my early 20’s, passing out in bed and waking up smelling all the cigarette smoke in my hair. I probably still associate that smell with being hungover.
Lol, now I actually have to wash my face every night before bed like an old lady and I quit smoking at 29.
Internal_Praline_658@reddit
Physical maps.
Isaac1867@reddit
I don't miss the pollution. Back in the 90s here in Toronto we used to have air quality advisories almost every week in the summer time, now they are relatively rare. You also couldn't swim in Lake Ontario anywhere near the city, now the water quality has improved to the point where it is safe to swim on most days.
Gwarnage@reddit
Its sad that it took me way too long to think of something that's objectively better now.. umm.. there's less dog shit everywhere?
stangAce20@reddit
Having to buy entire CDs just to get one or two songs you actually wanted
My_Cousin_Ginny@reddit
brief heavily pixelated porn vids that took for ever to download.
also having to get a 2nd land line just for the internet so you didn’t get kicked off when the phone rang.
Zuri_Bee1@reddit
Phone booths. They were disgusting! I don’t know how we’re all still alive after being exposed to that amount of germs. I used to feel so disappointed every time someone paged me on my beeper, and I’d have to use a pay phone to call them back.
Speaking of pagers, I don’t miss those either. Thank goodness cell phones now have unlimited plans and no roaming charges!
badger_breath@reddit
School... Lol
oliyoung@reddit
Having to (cough) obtain things via Limewire or Napster
Say what you will about the pricing models; but at least when I want to watch a movie i get the movie I downloaded now, not 11 viruses, 17 popup ads and a 2 hour "adult movie" instead of Toy Story
Do_it_My_Way-79@reddit
Thomas Guides or McNally Road Atlas. They still exist but are definitely obsolete.
ThreedZombies@reddit
Smoking in restaurants, not having central air, difficulty and cost of investing.
MolassesConstant2256@reddit
Book reports pre-Internet.
FAHQRudy@reddit
Smoking. I loved it then and it took me a really long time to quit.
NJ2ATX@reddit
Late fees on vhs rentals
Darth_Kara_Zor-El@reddit
Divx became something much different once its format was killed off in the general retail market. It was the prime format to upload compressed movies to P2P and Torrent sites. Places you also could snag your VLC Player or Divx Player to have some pretty sick looking free playback. DVD quality shit, audio and video. Yiffy was the man, he had nearly everything.
I do not miss waiting around for VH-1 or MVT to play the music videos I wanted to see. But idk, maybe that was part of the fun too 🤷🏼♀️
Besides the usuals everyone else already mentioned, I really can’t think of anything else. That’s sorta depressing 😬
rpmsm@reddit
Parents picking up the phone when you are trying to play your buddy in NBA live online and killing the connection. Also smoking in bars…phased out in NYC during college
Odd-Outcome450@reddit
My hair. Seriously though, I do not miss how crappy the internet really was
lavasca@reddit
Lady Elaine
Vinyl seats
M_V_Agrippa@reddit
R/danieltigerconspiracy has lots of thoughts on Lady Elaine. Personally, I think Daniel tiger is a prequel and Music Man Stan left her because of her drinking problem. She became a more bitter and obvious drunk.
lavasca@reddit
I always wondered why she had such pronounced capilaries!
Imaginary-Mix-5726@reddit
Vinyl seats and how they stuck to your legs! The worst on hot summer days!
Snugglebunny1983@reddit
I don't miss the horrible, slow, and noisy dial up internet.
a_solid_6@reddit
Getting lost on the road and having to pull over and consult a map that, unfolded, took up my entire front seat. And if that didn't work, finding a payphone to call and ask for directions.
bart_cart_dart_eart@reddit
Portable CD players that skipped if you were rocking (or walking) too hard
three-sense@reddit
Mine's school related but... doing group projects over the phone. More often than not one person would just take care of it and put everyone else's names on the assignment.
SHOMERFUCKINGSHOBBAS@reddit
Boy bands
GeekMode0101@reddit
Sagging pants: I can't wait when this dies completely.
alwaysmanders@reddit
Having to manually roll up/down car windows and locking/unlocking the doors.
GutsAndBlackStufff@reddit
This, when I’m trying to get Homer to beat up half of Springfield!
_its_a_SWEATER_@reddit
Still there on the OG cabinets at the local barcades!
bootsie79@reddit
Needing a physical map or atlas as a primary source of auto navigation
RedBurgandy01@reddit
Anxiety about meeting up with friends. Back then I couldn't just text somebody to ask them where they were at. I had to hope they'd show up. I don't know why I was so afraid my friends would ditch me, but it was a major source of anxiety for me.
cloudshaper@reddit
As a military kid, I don't miss the days before email. My dad's last deployment before retiring was the first one where we could email him, and it was a game changer.
reallyneedausername2@reddit
Man, I remember my mom being up all hours of the night waiting on my dad to call during the first Gulf War. He got out just before email, but I can imagine it would have been great.
cloudshaper@reddit
I turned into a CNN junkie and watched the news multiple times a day during the Gulf War. I'd convinced myself that if they didn't mention my dad's ship, he was fine. Super healthy coping mechanisms for a fourth-grader. (He was, in fact, fine.)
No_hero_here@reddit
Garage bands.
illinoishokie@reddit
Casual misogyny and homophobia.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
I don’t miss being overly emotional and aimless.
Scary-Ad9646@reddit
CD binders.
elenchusis@reddit
Using cash everywhere
BossDjGamer@reddit
Dial up
Wild-Sky-4807@reddit
Homophobia and the diet culture
Correct-Match3263@reddit
RealAudio
Pitiful_Ad2397@reddit
Rampant homophobia
liftkitten@reddit
I was going to say rampant homophobia, ableism, misogyny, etc, but those are all making a comeback in a big way
Greyhaven7@reddit
The Dewey Decimal System has to be one of the goddamn dumbest organizational standards ever conceived.
Still in use, but you don’t have to know it thanks to computers.
svv1tch@reddit
Text limits. Pagers. Slow AF internet 😅
reynaldoboyolo@reddit
Forgot about divx. Rare case of consumers not falling for the scam
usernames_suck_ok@reddit
I saw the word "DIVX" quite a bit in the 2000s and never fully understood what the hell that was.
Similar to tapes, if you liked a lot of music CDs "were a pain." It just wasn't easy to carry them around. I'd have to take, like, 3 or 4 CD wallets that held 200 CDs each with me on car trips and would have to sacrifice and leave them behind otherwise. With tapes, I'd carry around at least one big backpack of them. Music is just so, so portable and easily accessible now.
Jonestown_Juice@reddit
Everyone smoking everywhere.
catsoncrack420@reddit
Yep smoking. When they finally banned it in NYC so many women were happy cause it makes their hair smell and guess what many of us guys paid for that wash and blow job maybe even take you for a Mani pedi. You got a pay to play tho right. 😂
bh0@reddit
Slow Internet.
MardelMare@reddit
Dial up internet
rguzman2003@reddit
Dial up internet; Music sharing software giving my computer every virus