what is the appropriate age for switching to velcro walking shoes?
Posted by psychohistorian8@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 148 comments
when I was a kid I thought velcro shoes were for old people, but now I feel like old people
do we qualify yet?
SpreadDependent8805@reddit
I’ve been wearing skate shoes since I graduated high school. They get tied when they’re new and that’s it. I have other shoes that require tying each time, but the skate shoes are the daily wears
ooooooootreyngers@reddit
1 and a 1/2. Maybe 1 and 3/4
PromiseToBeNiceToYou@reddit
I'm 40 and switched to Dr. Scholl's in August. No velcro, but they look like shoes my nana used to wear lol.
sal101010@reddit
I've been wearing leather velcro trainers for well over ten years! My trail shoes are lace-up, but my everyday shoes are the trainers.
karaloveskate@reddit
I wear slip on shoes.
Futureacct@reddit
80s
porschephille@reddit
I've moved to either cowboy boots (sorta slip on) and sidezip workboots. I love not tying shoes.
Confident_Win_5469@reddit
My current favorite pair has a zipper. It's fantastic. BUT I'm one of the few in my peer group that can still bend over and tie shoes well.
lordskulldragon@reddit
Why would you think they were for old people when 99.99999% of childrens shoes are velcro?
Im_Ashe_Man@reddit
Sketchers Slip-Ins is all I wear anymore.
Secret-Ice260@reddit
affectionateanarchy8@reddit
No age limit, more like a motor skills limit
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
...never!! (I'm a runner.)
Bella4077@reddit
I only wear slip ins now.
pdx_via_dtw@reddit
velcro? I hope never. are you kidding me?
9for9@reddit
Never! Don't do it! You're too young to be struggling with this. A standard longevity test is whether or not you can put a sock and shoe on one foot while standing on the other without having to lean. If you're thinking of switching to velcro because you're struggling with this please consider talking to your doctor, getting some physical therapy, losing any excess weight, etc...
I know you kinda asked as a joke, but as someone who has spent the last few years clawing back her fitness and mobility it's well worth it every bit of effort.
dreamyduskywing@reddit
Does this really matter? I wear slip on shoes because I’m impatient and you can put them on quickly.
WendyPortledge@reddit
When I was in high school, Velcro sneakers were cool.
mightbetheproblem@reddit
I always thought Velcro was for young children who haven't learnt to tie their shoes yet.
dreamyduskywing@reddit
I think old people used to wear them because it gets harder to bend over or kneel to tie laces. That was before stretchy laces and slip on athletic shoes were a thing.
Automatic_Beat5808@reddit
Clogs, man.
dreamyduskywing@reddit
Same. Haflingers, specifically.
TheEndoftheBottle@reddit
bikeonychus@reddit
As someone who keeps a folding cane on them at all times - wear them when you want. You need them now? Wear them now.
I had a hip replacement in my late 20s - there's no set age for this stuff, you do it when you need to, to save your sanity.
theredwolf@reddit
Whenever you want. Age has nothing to do with it.
kitten_pawz@reddit
My brother-in-law (M50) wears Velcro shoes. There is nothing physically wrong that he wouldn't be able to tie shoelaces; he says himself that it's because he's lazy. This man has never been married or had any kind of girlfriend (pretty sure he's straight). Maybe this sounds bitchy, but a 50-year-old man wearing Velcro shoes due to self-professed laziness should be a red flag for any kind of potential romantic partner.
kitten_pawz@reddit
To answer your question: Velcro shoes IMO are for people who can't tie shoes, like toddlers or the elderly/infirm. If you can still tie your own shoes, then you shouldn't be wearing Velcro. Find something else that is comfortable and slip-on if you're lazy.
xargos32@reddit
If you want to talk about red flags, your attitude about Velcro is a huge one. It shows that you're extremely judgemental.
kitten_pawz@reddit
Something that's a red flag for me regarding potential relationships doesn't have to be a red flag for you. We're all allowed to draw the line wherever we want. Please note I just said it's for being in a romantic relationship, not judging someone's overall character based on their footwear. Unless their drawing swastikas on their Converse or something like that.
xargos32@reddit
Sorry, but you're still very judgemental. That's a MASSIVE red flag for most reasonable people.
FreddyNoodles@reddit
Can you imagine giving a fuck about shoelaces in a friend, family member or partner? That is one of the wildest takes I have seen on here and this is Reddit ffs.
cacecil1@reddit
Wow. What a lovely judgemental person you are.
SweetCosmicPope@reddit
I’ve been wearing slip-ins for over a decade now.
usernames_suck_ok@reddit
Yeah, I was going to ask why OP is talking about "velcro" shoes over slip-ins.
psychohistorian8@reddit (OP)
any recommended models specifically?
I tried a pair of sketchers slip-ons but I didn't like the snugness (or lack thereof) around my oddly shaped feet
DontBuyAHorse@reddit
I have Kizik shoes and they're awesome. You tie them once like normal shoes but then you can slip them on and off forever.
PewterButters@reddit
I got the stretching laces that you just put on your regular shoes so you can slip them on/off. They're only a couple bucks on amazon.
StillhasaWiiU@reddit
Sketchers has whole stores worth of options
NarwhalDanceParty@reddit
I love my Kiziks.
labchick6991@reddit
Try the different styles. I ended up having to do a mens wide with arch support. Different styles will fit different.
Consistent-Ease6070@reddit
Kizik is a good brand. All “hands free” without looking like it.
PrincessSarahHippo@reddit
I bought a pair and found them uncomfortable. I have a very high arch, a corresponding high instep and the shoes felt too large while simultaneously rubbing the top of my foot. They are cute though.
Consistent-Ease6070@reddit
I agree that the one pair I have isn’t the most supportive, but I have other shoes that fit those needs. My Kiziks are more for casual wear in situations where I may want to slip them on and off frequently. Like quickly taking the dog out for a walk, etc…
foxontherox@reddit
Insoles help.
cnhn@reddit
this is what i am wearing right now.
CypressRootsMe@reddit
I like kiziks. They make a wide option. I have wide feet and high arches
SweetCosmicPope@reddit
I wear these skechers in x-wide for my Fred Flintstone feet: Amazon.com | Skechers Mens Afterburn M. Fit Ridgeburn Slip-in Loafer, Brown, 9.5 X-Wide US | Loafers & Slip-Ons
psychohistorian8@reddit (OP)
yeah I definitely need something for wide feet, I might just try those out
rodneyenmac@reddit
I like Orthofeet's slip in version better for wide feet
Quinalla@reddit
I will raise on your old person card: orthofeet slipons. Didn’t think I would like them because I like my shoes snug, but I love them. Also if you have planar fasciitis like me or just are on your feet a lot, the support system they have is great.
Also, I fully support you getting velcro shoes if that is what you want.
DatedRef_PastEvent@reddit
I had the Skechers slip ins for a number of years, but was never fully happy with them.
I recently picked up a pair of Hey Dude Sirocco Altas and I like them so much better.
twobootsranch@reddit
I’ve tried several different pairs of the Skechers slip ins and the fit is wildly different. The ones I wear daily are a more leather work shoe that is extra supportive. Model is the Holdredge - Ryker, not super stylish but I wear them 99% of the time due to comfort and ease of taking on and off which I do a lot daily.
FinallyKat@reddit
As someone with an exceedingly narrow foot, the extra support would be nice if I could ever find any that actually fit right
CaptPotter47@reddit
I bought a pair of Vans checker slip ons in the summer of 2019 since they were on a 50% of sale at a shoe store. Couldn’t beat the deal of a basically decent shoes for $25.
But then I realized they are comfortable and look fine and most importantly, I don’t need to tie them.
So I worn nothing but them. Always Checks. The kids in my scout troop love it.
detourne@reddit
I used to wear exclusively vans for almost a decade, but they are just too heavy for me now. Switched to sketchers!
jerseysbestdancers@reddit
I have the laces on my chucks knotted hard and just slip em on and off. Since senior year of high school.
Sausage_Queen_of_Chi@reddit
I’ve been switching to elastic shoe laces so I can slip my shoes including high tops on and off
Spartan04@reddit
I’ve been using elastic laces in my running shoes for many years now. They’re great since they prevent the laces from being too tight when my foot swells a bit during longer runs. Also great for triathlons for getting running shoes on quickly.
OppositeRun6503@reddit
Did that with my nikes since 19 before recently replacing them with slip ins a few weeks ago.
cranberries87@reddit
I do this with my Hokas. Causes the inside back to wear faster though.
Rivster79@reddit
Flip flops in the summer/fall, uggs in the winter/spring. Temperature dependent of course. Shoelaces are for suckers.
ezmoney98@reddit
I use these for work now . So convenient and comfortable. Skechers
WheelLeast1873@reddit
I just don't tie my shoes.
Rdubya291@reddit
Yup. Sketcher casual slip ons. Depending on the design, a lot of them I'll wear into the office - as we're business casual.
OppositeRun6503@reddit
I love my sketchers slip ins.
rdldr1@reddit
Yes, in fact every show can be a slip-in if you try hard enough!!
Payinchange@reddit
Who needs Velcro?
minibini@reddit
I love my Clarks velcro sandals.
thebarbalag@reddit
I feel like I can wear what I like. Maybe I'm old. I'll dress performatively on occasion, but most of the time it's comfort above all.
icanliveinthewoods@reddit
I love my Kizik sneakers. All their shoes are slip on.
mjh8212@reddit
My husband is 55 and he wears Velcro shoes he was wearing them 6 years ago when we met and he was probably wearing them a few years before that. I wear slip ons or shoes with ties. The slip ons I wear are like socks for shoes my feet slip in.
Miami_Mice2087@reddit
if you're actually a xenniel, velcro shoes are for children
Valadrea@reddit
When I was in kindergarten and first grade, Roos were all the rage.
cola1016@reddit
Wear whatever you want to. 40s are the idgaf anymore stage 😂
digging-a-hole@reddit
this right here
We paid our fucking dues with the whiplash from JNCOs to low-rise jeans. From now on, we wear whatever the fuck we want.
cola1016@reddit
🙌🏻
kekucera@reddit
If you ask my sister, it's 35.
SteelGemini@reddit
I don't think I'll ever do Velcro by choice. Slip ons of various types work well. Or, if you must have laces, find a pair that don't actually tie and just have stretchy laces to give the appearance of laced shoes without the hassle of actual laces. You can also buy stretchy laces and cut them to the appropriate length for any shoe. They come with caps to keep them in place. The loops of laces always ruined the look of the shoe for me, and I like this better than just tucking the loops. More comfortable, too.
spderweb@reddit
Velcro is back in general. Far less people are bullying people over what they wear now.
Glittering_Tea5502@reddit
I wore Velcro shoes before I learned to tie my shoes. Velcro shoes are not just for elderly people. They’re for kids too. Possibly all ages, though I rarely see them.
Scrotchety@reddit
When you can no longer tie your shoes without wet throaty rasps
supersoup2012@reddit
Below 4 and above 80
SayItAgainLucas@reddit
I got veja Velcro shoes a few years ago and never looked back! They look cool and no laces!!
RadioWavesHello@reddit
5
edasto42@reddit
IMO never. I’m a big follower of the idea of dramaturgy, which is basically the idea that the world is theater, we are all actors in each others plays, and the only time we are truly ourselves is when we are alone. With that idea of being actors also comes with the idea of what our costumes for our character, or how we are presenting ourselves to the world and how that’s perceived. The connotations of certain articles of clothing are not part of how I present myself to the world-including Velcro shoes. Basically it’s not my style.
Now if my health or whatever changes what shoes and such I can wear, this opinion changes. But I’ve got an 81 year old acquaintance that is always the best dressed person in any given room he walks into. That’s my goal
canisdirusarctos@reddit
No is the appropriate age.
Echterspieler@reddit
I'm thinking you gotta be at least 80. And to wear suspenders you have to be at least 65
Darkest_Rahl@reddit
My only shoes that tie up are my walking shoes. All other shoes are slip-ins
MisRandomness@reddit
According to my 35 year old virgin cousins who live in their parent’s basement… there is no limit!
cnhn@reddit
we don't need them because technology has come along.
Most of my day to day shoes are technically lace up, but they are happily slip on as well.
ConcreteKeys@reddit
I need them bad. Real bad
cnhn@reddit
sent you a dm
phatpug@reddit
I don't know about Velcro, but I've got a pretty good pair of slip in sketchers that I wear for work, and I recently got a new pair of work boots that have the BOA fit system, which replaces the laces with a cord and a ratchet knob. They are amazing.
pm_me_your_amphibian@reddit
Mate I won’t even wear shoes that need fastening anymore. Pull on only.
New_Stats@reddit
Whenever you feel like it, boo.
Get them if they look comfortable or seem more convenient. Fuck anyone who judges you, they're opinion on your footwear doesn't matter
fadedtimes@reddit
Any age
DDrewit@reddit
4 and 80
misskellycupcake@reddit
It's 2025, wear what you want. Everything is in style
Overall-Ask-8305@reddit
I got some slip-ons from Sketchers, and it’s the best shoe ever. I’m never going back to regular tennis shoes.
Sausage_Queen_of_Chi@reddit
I’ve been switching to elastic shoe laces so more of my shoes are now slip ons
cacecil1@reddit
I had Velcro shoes in the 80s. My kangaroo shoes were Velcro in 1984. So the answer is, any age you want them.
crymeajoanrivers@reddit
I thought I was in a parenting sub for a second.
ShillinTheVillain@reddit
Hey Dudes are Velcro shoes for people who haven't entirely given up yet.
Miserable-Okra-8787@reddit
3
BoredPandemicPanda@reddit
I went straight to long handle shoe horn.
kattrup@reddit
This is the way
AmbassadorCheap3956@reddit
Shoedini!
dimesinger@reddit
No tie elastic laces ftw! Look and perform great and all my shows slip right on.
iheartpyrex@reddit
I see this as less of an age issue and more of a flexibility/mobility issue.
liftkitten@reddit
Velcro shoes make me unspeakably sad. They are reserved for the very elderly and infirm
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
That's funny, when I was a kid, I thought they were for kids and adults wore shoes with laces.
I think it's appropriate to wear whatever.
OppositeRun6503@reddit
Used to wear velcro shoes as a kid simply because tying my shoes was a PIA back then.
cartoonchris1@reddit
Whenever you want to. Don’t like it… got two words for ya.
Reasonable_Beach1087@reddit
I thought you were talking about little kids at first
Not_a_werecat@reddit
My best friend is an extra long sturdy aluminum shoe horn.
I ever unlace my walking shoes because I can never get them the exact same tightness and it feels weird on my feet.
BlazedGigaB@reddit
The secret is elastic laces.
Sympathyquiche@reddit
Time to stop giving a toss what anyone else thinks and wear what is best for you. Having shallow ideas of how to live your life are for those without back pain.
here4pain@reddit
They make eslatic shoe laces. Then every shoe becomes a slip on
silentsinner-@reddit
I wear Sketchers slip ons.
lifeat24fps@reddit
Just wrap some grocery bags around your feet with rubber bands.
Gullible_Rich_7156@reddit
Clearly judging by some of the posts in this sub, some of us are definitely old people at this point. Personally, I am probably in better shape, eat better and generally have healthier habits at 44 than at 24. That said I wear western style boots every day and aside from the overall look I do like the fact that I don’t ever have to lace or unlace them.
sorrymizzjackson@reddit
My husband did too for years until he switched out and his tendons were all fucked. He said it took quite some time before they stretched back out.
Throw-away17465@reddit
Its been a few years now. I don’t love it, but it works
FluffySpell@reddit
I feel like our generations "middle age old man shoes" are the Skechers slip-on ones, or similar styles to that. My husband, my brother in law, and my husband's best friend (all in their mid 40s) wear Skechers slip ons. Haha.
TheEndoftheBottle@reddit
When your fingers don't work
moleculariant@reddit
I went back to puffy-fish skate shoes with Knixmax EVA insoles. Cushy and supportive.
lifeuncommon@reddit
It’s about physical ability and preference, not age.
VisibleSea4533@reddit
I have Velcro snow boots. I think that’s about as far as I’ll go. That being said though, almost all of my shoes I just leave tied and slip on. I have one pair that unfortunately requires me to tie and untie them
Frosty_Cloud_2888@reddit
It’s after the year 2000, you can wear what you want and if you like it we aren’t going to make fun of you for it. Wear what works for you.
flipnitch@reddit
2yo
fermentedradical@reddit
75+
weedtrek@reddit
I'm not going to judge, but imo Velcro is for little kids. Old people wear slip ons. I like slip ons. My work shoes are slip ons, my previous three pairs of regular shoes were slip ones, but last time I bought lace up boots and have regretted it everyday it's not raining/snowing.
BigPoppaStrahd@reddit
Whenever Hell You feel like it. I don’t like tying my shoes anymore and I’m an adult so I choose what to where. Slip ons, croo o cs, bolo laces on my work boots.
JamesMattDillon@reddit
I have thought about my next pair of shoes being velco shoes. But that would be a ways off. I have my cowboy boots that I wear, also my slip on shoes. Aside from my work boots and hiking boots
xargos32@reddit
There's no such thing as qualifying. If you want to wear them, wear them!
canoegal4@reddit
Elastic ties are the way to go
pilates_mama@reddit
I just shove my feet into already tied shoes like a teenager and I guess I will graduate to old lady shoes from here
Feyloh@reddit
When they pry my Docs from my cold dead feet. I like my boots and I'm not giving them up anytime soon.
dixiebandit69@reddit
The appropriate time is never.
illprobablyeditthis@reddit
I just lace my sneakers tight enough to stay on my feet but loose enough to be slip on. Always done that. 🤷♀️
AotKT@reddit
I wear Tevas and they have Velcro so I guess whenever you want
Enigmatic_Observer@reddit
This guy is an age spy - Zips debuted in 87 iirc so since then.
Mocosa@reddit
I switched my NB laces over to no tie laces. Best money ever spent!
Profeshinal_Spellor@reddit
Only for around the house, once we qualify for the seniors menu at Dennys, we can rock the velcro go-fasters. Gotta save something for later in life
HopelessMagic@reddit
Never.
My Mom just got slip in shoes. Even she refused to get velcro.
RamboJane@reddit
The best time to switch is when the Velcro is calling to you.
Slight_Second1963@reddit
I’ve always worn Velcro, slide on, or double knitted my laces
emwaic7@reddit
No