How does traveling to other parts of the US feel 'different' for you?
Posted by Pale_Field4584@reddit | AskAnAmerican | View on Reddit | 110 comments
Best way I can describe it for me, it feels like being in a pokemon videogame. Different landscapes, regions, animals, but still feels familiar. And for some reason, it feels more like an adventure compared to traveling around Europe or South America for me. Reason? variety and accesibility. You can really go anywhere in the US without the need for tours and also feel like a true explorer in the vast lands
GuitarEvening8674@reddit
I have property bordering the Mark Twain National Forest and I was telling a work friend from "the city" about roaming about in the forest, taking hikes and not seeing or hearing anyone else all day.
She grabbed my arm and said, IS THAT SAFE??
Yes it's safe. It's supposed to be a wilderness.
Figgler@reddit
It’s always funny when I hear people say “you should never hike alone.” If I took that advice to heart I’d never get to go hiking.
MoonieNine@reddit
We have grizzlies where I hike so I always try to hike with friends.
VeronicaMarsupial@reddit
Slower friends?
Meschugena@reddit
Are you really friends if you don't even slightly view them as alternative bait or distractions for wildlife attacks? /s
CupBeEmpty@reddit
I mean, it’s not bad advice depending on where you are going, or at least tell someone where you are going and when you get back. But it’s also really dependent on where you plan to hike. If I’m headed up into the white mountain back country, yeah, if I’m just walking through rolling woods on a 5 mile hike, nah.
Meschugena@reddit
We have a state forest about 5 miles to the west of us. We trail ride our horses there all the time and rarely see anyone else on the trails. They are marked pretty well and are noted on how long they are in miles both at forks and on the trail entrance maps in the general parking area so we can go on which one works for our time of day and how long we want to be out. The shorter trails might have us come across people walking if we see other vehicles in the general parking area but the 7 and 15 mile loops are very unlikely to see anyone else and is glorious! It is also a bit intimidating at first. We keep our phones full charge on us in hip packs and GPS on at all times plus snacks for the longer ones and only do those in mornings to prevent being caught in a low sunlight situation if the ride takes longer than usual.
ExtremePotatoFanatic@reddit
I had a similar thing happen when I was talking to some friends about swimming in the Great Lakes. They were originally from Virginia and had moved down to Florida. We met up with them for dinner one night while on vacation and I was talking about how the ocean is very different to me because I’m used to the Great Lakes. The wife made such a shocked face and asked if we really swam in them and if it was safe!
Jakebob70@reddit
People look at me strange when I talk about swimming and water skiing in the Mississippi River...
PorcelainTorpedo@reddit
Man no way in hell. You have some serious balls. I grew up in St. Louis and the Mississippi has always looked and seemed like an immediate death sentence. I see you’re in IL, so I guess depending on where you are it would be about the same.
dogbert617@reddit
Living in Illinois, NO WAY I'd ever swim in the Mississippi River. Agreed that river looks too big, for it to be comfortable to swim in.
Now if it was a lake of some sort, maybe that would be good to swim in....
Jakebob70@reddit
You just have to "know the river". It's fine as long as you respect it and don't do stupid things.
steveofthejungle@reddit
Yes, the body of water without the sharks and jellyfish is the unsafe one
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
Lakes kinda creep me out because it's less buoyant than salt water. And if it's that big it has all kinds of currents and waves and stuff.
dew2459@reddit
About 2.5% less buoyant. It is pretty tough to notice much difference.
ABSOFRKINLUTELY@reddit
Really? Wow I grew up in FL and so very, very used to ocean water.
Swimming in lakes does feel different. My experience was I felt a tiny bit heavier and found that I tried out quicker.
This combined with the murkiness definitely creeped me out a bit (was used to high visibility beaches)
But the pleasant experience of swimming in clean, fresh water, not having to spit out all that salt-
Let's just say I think the pros outweigh the cons.
dew2459@reddit
It definitely feels different. I lived near the ocean for a while, and where I am now has a town lake. Not sure what it is exactly - buoyancy seems reasonable - but the science says probably something else.
And at least the ocean water in FL is usually awesome. Lived on Cape Cod a bit - the ocean water is cold and murky.
steveofthejungle@reddit
Freshwater up north also doesn't have gators haha
consequentialdamages@reddit
Michigander, raised on Lake Huron. Some days Lake Huron is crazed temperamental beast, other days it is as smooth as glass. For me, there is nothing better than dunking into the still cold lake water when the air temperature finally gets above 80 in the late Spring.
shits-n-gigs@reddit
When living in FL, you assume every lake or pond has a gator. It's kinda beaten into you, don't swim in lakes.
Might be a reason.
ABSOFRKINLUTELY@reddit
That and the flesh eating bacteria and brain eating parasites
Warm fresh water= no.
DistinctJob7494@reddit
The only "vastly different" places I've been to in comparison to Tennessee & North Carolina would be Washington DC and New York. Oh, and Pennsylvania.
New York wasn't as packed as I thought it would be (mostly because it was December), and the skyscrapers were definitely much bigger than I thought they'd be.
Washington DC was kinda similar in feeling to Raleigh or Fayetteville, but I loved the Smithsonian.
Pennsylvania reminded me of the vast fields back home for the most part. It's just that they were 2x bigger in Pennsylvania. I did enjoy the Amish market and seeing the horse and buggys.
BuildNuyTheUrbanGuy@reddit
It doesn't. I travel all over the country and it all feels the same.
WingedSeven@reddit
I traveled from Kentucky to Florida by plane, and as soon as we landed it felt so much more dreary. The entire vibe of the airport was dingy and scared, the lack of mountains felt barren, the constant rain was haunting, and disney world was uncanny and overexcited. On top of that my parents were cross the whole time we were there but that's not here or there
plamck@reddit
I do think that people in rural areas are far different compared to people living in cities.
49Flyer@reddit
You hit the nail on the head with this statement. I can get on a 6 hour flight, be in a completely different climate and yet the people I meet are still Americans (even if they talk funny!) and we have that unspoken bond between us.
LilRick_125@reddit
Landscapes indeed, climate too.
Sure, you can tell a difference when you're in California and when you're in Utah. But Americans have a lot more in common then most foreigners think. As big as the country is Americans have a lot of mobility getting around the country.
Irak00@reddit
I would add food & accents to your list. Food also falls in the familiarity category as the same food from home can be found 3k miles away & it tastes exactly the same.
Foodie1989@reddit
You know that's right. Lol
Whenever I travel internationally and I make landing to a US airport, no matter what state it actually feels like I am now home.
Electronic-Smile-457@reddit
As Ken Burns said-- Europe has castles, we have national parks.
anewleaf1234@reddit
I've traveled around a bit and I once was driving on vacation and I drove into a mini mall and I couldn't remember which state I was in for a moment because everything felt the same.
MistaSoviet@reddit
As an immigrant I think I have an unbiased perspective on this. To me all of America feels “American”. I’ve been to deserts, steppes, mountains, etc but I always see the same businesses, the same signs, people speaking the same language, people talk about the same media, and there isn’t any tension beyond /some/ assholes. I’ve had people shit on me for being from New York than outside America, but I’ve never felt threatened or genuinely scared because of it.
I think people in America do overestimate his unique their region is. There’s the “if you hate the weather” joke and so on. But I can attest to at least some minor differences in feel. I think there is a unique Florida vibe, a unique Appalachian, corn country, Cascadian, etc way of building towns and thinking of your community. I think it’s largely climate and political differences though, nothing that’d justify separating American cultures.
hovermole@reddit
Yep. I'm a Florida girl and get REALLY freaked out when there isn't literally constant birdsong/birds soaring above me. That's the main thing I notice.
Icy-Student8443@reddit
feels like a different country
CupBeEmpty@reddit
Between cultural and environmental differences I suspect I could have a good guess if I was randomly transported to someone in the US. It isn’t radically different but there are a million little differences that give it away.
DoinIt989@reddit
Also, the people are different. Depending on where you go, there's a higher or lower portion of people who are Black, Latino. White, or Asian, and there's diversity in the "type" of Black, Latino, White, Asian they are (i.e. African-America vs African or West Indian, Mexican vs Caribbean vs Central American, Irish/Italian vs German vs "Anglo", Chinese vs Indian vs Vietnamese vs Korean vs Filipino, and on and on). Geography and just the cultural diversity of the US can feel very different as you travel even if it's all "America".
davidm2232@reddit
People always look at me weird when I tell them I live in a state park. I never knew until recently that the Adirondack park is somewhat unique in that aspect
CupBeEmpty@reddit
Yeah it is a bit weird in that regard. Some National Forests are like that. There are private plots sprinkled in among otherwise federal land.
voteblue18@reddit
In a lot of cities outside of NYC pedestrians usually actually pay attention to walk/don’t walk signals. Pretty much everyone in NYC looks and if it’s clear they go. Yes, this is illegal. But rarely if ever enforced.
shelwood46@reddit
I'm not sure I've ever been in a city in the US where people didn't jaywalk and/or cross against the signals.
TheyMakeMeWearPants@reddit
In NYC, the signals mean "you can probably go, but look first" and "you might be able to go, but look first"
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
From what I saw of Manhattan it seemed to mean "dozens of us will just go ahead and jaywalk in a massive herd! Hey, some guy's honking and trying to nose his vehicle through us! Honk all you want, asshole!"
TheyMakeMeWearPants@reddit
Heh.
Generally speaking, pedestrians will wait until there are no cars coming if they don't have the light. But once they claim the street they will cross it at their own pace, traffic be damned.
Also if you're in a car and you just barely made it across the intersection so that you're camped in the crosswalk... you are not moving again until the light behind you changes back to green, regardless of what happens to the cars in front of you. Pedestrians will pin you in and not care that you could move if they just stopped for a second.
messibessi22@reddit
I mean the vibes are different in different regions the laws can be different too which is fun like we go to Wyoming to pop off fireworks because they’re legal there and they aren’t in Colorado
shelwood46@reddit
When I was a volunteer firefighter, one of our young volunteers got into Elon and got pulled over and ended up in the deepest shit for having a blue light in his car, not even in use, just sitting in the footwell -- standard for volunteer firefighters/EMS in NJ, but only for police in NC. We had to write so many notarized letters swearing he had that light for non-nefarious purposes.
Unreasonably-Clutch@reddit
Huh. They're illegal in Arizona too, but people shoot them off in huge numbers anyway.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLp2bwYpMpA
messibessi22@reddit
lol yeah people shoot em off here too I just figured out Wyoming has a really fun launch site a few years ago and you don’t even have to risk the cops getting called on you
link2edition@reddit
I know what you mean. I am always armed when I travel, so I am always checking state laws to see which ones acknowledge my concealed carry permit.
I once walked around for a good hour or so with a gun on my hip in a state where that was illegal before I remembered the local laws.
IndependentMix676@reddit
Grew up in rural Kentucky and once upon a time, even traveling to Louisville, Kentucky felt like going to a different country. Ohio was next. Then I lived in other places in the world, lived in NYC, now live in Texas. As you get older and travel more, a lot of it starts to feel pretty broadly the same.
Superiority_Complex_@reddit
Geography is the biggest one that gets me when I travel outside of the PNW.
I’ve been to Florida, driven from Houston to NOLA, Raleigh, and a few other places in the general southeastern region. Same deal with the upper midwest (driven from Minneapolis to Seattle, also been to Michigan). The flatness of it all is weirdly off putting for a few days. I’m used to mountains, or at least some hills and elevation change, so having none of that is strange in a kinda weird way. I’ve also heard the opposite can be true when people go out west, or somewhere else that’s a bit more mountainous.
Puukkot@reddit
Right? Like, how do you know where you are if there’s nothing on the horizon? Weirds me out every time.
IHaveALittleNeck@reddit
My dad always says it’s impossible to get lost in NJ. If you go too far, you hit water. Then you know to turn around.
shelwood46@reddit
That's why they charge you to leave.
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
Or if there's nothing but trees. Blocking out everything.
SufficientZucchini21@reddit
So often I’m traveling and think to myself that the streets and scenery could be in almost any town in the USA.
broadsharp@reddit
It doesn’t.
The only place I felt a shift in what I’m used to is when I went to the deep Bayou.
MoonieNine@reddit
Traveling to Florida, I looked out the car window and got excited. "Look! Orange trees!" My car mates (who lived there) gave me weird looks.
MoonieNine@reddit
Traveling to Arizona, I loved seeing the giant cactus for real and not just in pictures. And the people we visited had them in their backyard.
omg_its_drh@reddit
I want to preface by saying that I’m not an overly mature driven person, and even in that regard what I’m about to say is true to an extent with nature.
There’s an old Tennessee Williams quote that goes as follows:
“America has only three cities: New York, San Francisco, and New Orleans. Everywhere else is Cleveland”
I do find this quote to be more or less true whenever I travel to other parts of the US.
Unreasonably-Clutch@reddit
lol that's a stupid quote. PNW, Southwest, Gulf Coast, there's a lot more to the USA then those four cities.
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
Well nowadays he would be wrong.
Everywhere else is Phoenix.
omg_its_drh@reddit
You’re not wrong with that one tbh
ucbiker@reddit
I think this is possibly my most hated often quoted line I hear especially when it’s said from anyone from New York, New Orleans or San Francisco.
theCaitiff@reddit
When someone from one of those cities says it, it's a brag that THEIR home is special.
When someone from one of the countless "cleveland" cities says it, its a condemnation of how you see the same gas stations, mcdonalds, walmarts, and starbucks wherever you go, the bland sameness of a world that has been hollowed out by the big megacorps and had their individuality erased.
ucbiker@reddit
The funny thing is that Cleveland doesn’t really strike me like that now and for sure wasn’t like that when Tennessee Williams said it.
One_Bicycle_1776@reddit
It was jarring going to the southwest for the first time. Barely any trees, no grass, no squirrels or deer. I loved it
Unreasonably-Clutch@reddit
FYI we have three kinds of squirrels in the Sonoran Desert -- ground, antelope, and rock. Ground look kind of like small gophers, antelope looks like a chip monk, and rock squirrels look like grey squirrels and are known to kill and eat rattlesnakes.
knutt-in-my-butt@reddit
We have squirrels and deer! Where I grew up there actually used to be "caution deer crossing next X miles" signs all over the place until it started getting built up and there were no more deer to be cautious of so they took all the signs out. The only relic we still have of it is that the neighborhood is named after deer
Different_Ad_2613@reddit
Yes, especially as someone who has lived in their state for their entire life. However, I don't necessarily feel so out of place because of our shared experience of still being in the United States.
Zardozin@reddit
It feels a lot less different than it used to feel.
You have to search out truly local stuff in large cities, because so much of suburbia is homogenized. You see the same chains and the same architecture.
theflamingskull@reddit
Order an iced tea on the West Coat, vs the South, and you're going to find out very quickly.
Haboob_AZ@reddit
It's really meh to me. I prefer to travel internationally. The US and its cities don't really do much for me anymore, once I started international travel.
cohrt@reddit
Have to travel pretty far to notice a difference. But different landscapes, flora/fauna and the way people act are the biggest differences.
Watchfull_Hosemaster@reddit
I like to travel from the Northeast to a warmer climate for a little getaway during our winters. It's pretty cool to leave wearing seven layers when it's 10 degrees outside and then landing somewhere (like Miami) that has humid and tropical feeling air. Feels like you are entering a sauna. It's a nice feeling to go from sub-freezing to being able to lay out on a beach and go into the water within a matter of 3-4 hours.
Low-Cat4360@reddit
I drove to Dallas a few months ago for the first time and spent about 12 hours in the city. I heard TWO people total speaking English in public, which was unusual compared to where I'm from. And one of the people speaking English had a Mexican accent. I was really cool tbh. It was mostly Spanish, but I heard a decent amount of Filipinos speaking their languages, too.
Bargle-Nawdle-Zouss@reddit
davidm2232@reddit
The food is the biggest thing for me. I don't often travel so I am very used to our regional food. I'm in northern NY so there is good pizza on every corner, every gas station has a deli with fresh bread and Boar's Head meat/cheese. Great chicken wings pretty much everywhere you go. Every small town has at least a couple dedicated hot dog shacks with cheap and delicious hot dogs with meat sauce. It seems as soon as I leave NY, the pizza goes to hell. It's very hard to find a decent sandwich shop with reasonable prices. The wings are never cooked right and very limited sauce selections. I spent a week on the OH/IN border and everything we ate was just meh. Like there was some really good stuff, but not any of the staples that I am used to. The pizza was especially sad. It really didn't help with the homesickness.
One thing I didn't even know until going down south is that Labatt Blue is not popular nationwide. It is more popular than Bud Light everywhere around me. I wasn't even able to find it down in Myrtle Beach
nielsenson@reddit
It's underwhelming that corporatism has normalized all our cultures across the country
Only place that feels like anything actually unique culturally is NOLA
The different landscapes are cool. But culturally, quite disappointing
detachedfromreality0@reddit
Plus the same tiring politics are found everywhere in the country, the same grey, oversized car-dependent infrastructure (outside of tiny, expensive, hip areas only in city centers), the same loud, obese grown adult men who dress like teenagers, the same cluster of corporate towers surrounded by an ocean of strip malls and copy-paste tract homes and McMansions (some exceptions here like NYC), the same obnoxiously large car dealership American flags.
I grew up within the American Bubble^TM in a 60s suburban tract house, not too aware of the outside world because society at a grand scale told me, "There is no need to care about other countries.. We're #1 anyway!" Crossing a state line as a kid felt like what I imagined crossing international boundaries would be like until I actually began to travel abroad. Over time, there was a positive correlation between my horizons expanding, and the country feeling increasingly the homogenized throughout.
We still have many cultural differences, but I 100% agree with you that corporatism has sucked much of it away, as if we sold ourselves out and made everything for sale here. Fuck a beautifully diverse, rich, and varied American landscape when you can plop billboards across most of it to advertise something... anything... everything. What you brought up really struck a chord with me, clearly.
Jakebob70@reddit
It's weird when the roads go up and down.. I hear those are called "hills", but we don't have such things around here.
ihatethesidebar@reddit
Was back in Miami for the first time in some years a few weeks ago, and the clouds look different, lol, they look a lot bigger.
TravelerMSY@reddit
I live in the south and I feel like I’ve traveled to some futuristic utopia that functions at light speed when I go to the city. Here a simple transaction. Takes five minutes and involves a shit load of unnecessary small talk..
TillPsychological351@reddit
I live in a mostly rural state, where big box stores, strip malls, chain restaurants and the usual markers of suburban/urban life are rare except for a few pockets, and almost completely absent in my region. Even though I grew up in such an environment, it always feels chaotic to me when I return to areas like that.
I spent most of my life in the eastern half of the country, so the wide-open vistas you can see at eye level out west feel completely different from what I'm used to. When I lived in Washington, DC, someone from California described living on the east coast as like being in a jungle where you can't see far ahead. I understand his perspective.
Most of the US is warmer than where I live, so experiencing actual hot weather shocks my system.
ikindalold@reddit
You live in Maine?
TillPsychological351@reddit
Vermont.
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
It was Ohio when we first hit a heavily forested leafy stretch. I thought it would be like a Disney cartoon, where you can see woodland creatures cavorting in meadows between the trees.
Nope! On the interstate you can't see through the trees, and you can't see over them either. It was like the Death Star trench run.
Routine_Phone_2550@reddit
It’s fun! I love traveling to new places! I mean, what’s a road trip from Massachusetts to Washington DC? It might take a day or two but it’s not that far.
4Got2Flush@reddit
I'm in NYC so going basically anywhere else in the U.S. is just a disappointment because Republicans are just allowed to roam free with no consequences.
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
Thanks a ~~billion~~ million for Trump.
Yeah, you get some of the blame. You made him.
mikeisboris@reddit
I live in Minneapolis, I assure you that that isn't the case "anywhere else."
CupBeEmpty@reddit
This is the lamest reddit take ever.
GhostOfJamesStrang@reddit
Give it five minutes.
G17Gen3@reddit
In his or her head, it was cool and edgy and everyone clapped.
GhostOfJamesStrang@reddit
You mean the city that is literally the home of Donald Trump?
The city where a couple million people vote republican every year?
I get your general sentiment, but this is a really poor way to say what, I think, you mean.
sorakirei@reddit
Recently spent time in the Kansas City, Missouri airport. Periodically, there would be an announcement such as "If you lost [name of random item] at Security, please come back to claim it." Very midwest hospitality in the face of current security theater.
Also, how are that many people leaving things behind after going through Airport security?!
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
If your mom was like mine, you wouldn't question it.
theCaitiff@reddit
You are carrying everything, you stop and wait in line forever, answer questions, get poked and prodded, and then grab everything again to rush off to your gate.
It makes sense that sometimes people will not pickup everything they put down when stressed.
ColossusOfChoads@reddit
I went to Cour d'Alene, Idaho, once. In most places I go I can pass as 'Eye-talian' or whatever. When I was there, I never felt more brown in my entire life, and I have been to villages in Norway reachable only by boat.
You ever jumped into an ice cold lake and suddenly became very conscious of the fact that you have a skeleton? Like when a cartoon character gets electrocuted? It was kinda like that.
RupeThereItIs@reddit
The people & landscape can be very different.
Accents, attitudes, etc.
Texas, for example is too damned hot & dry, and the people tend to have what I would call a very weird outlook on things. I have more in common w/people just south of the river in Ontario then I do with most Texans.
California, much of it too is too dry but not necessarily too hot. The people there are also very weird to me, again, I feel closer to Ontarians culturally then Californians.
Things can feel extremely foreign, while at the same time feeling extremely familiar.
Then you go to places like Puerto Rico, outside of tourist areas & nobody speaks English & my two years of Spanish 1 doesn't help... that feels foreign foreign.
Up2Eleven@reddit
Spending a couple of years in Ohio after having lived almost all my life in the Southwest was really weird. There's a more twisted kind of humor in the Southwest and people are more direct about things. In the Midwest, if you use the same humor people give you that confused dog look. If you're direct about stuff, they think it's rude, all the while silently judging you while being "Midwest nice".
knutt-in-my-butt@reddit
I'm from Arizona can you explain I'm curious
InterviewLeast882@reddit
Places with southern accents feel very different to me.
knutt-in-my-butt@reddit
Living in phoenix with family in socal, NorCal, and Central Valley, it always felt exactly like that every time I visit, but each one felt different from each other. Even more so when I visit my family in Chicago or Buffalo NY.
Hell it even feels like that within Arizona. I drive 2 hours north and I'm in flagstaff which is like "no way this is Arizona and you guys are Arizonans"
I went to South Carolina for the first time this summer and it was just such a weird but cool feeling like I'm not in a different country but it almost feels like I am
msflagship@reddit
Landscapes, architectural styles, and chain stores and restaurants change but everything else feels the same.
DOMSdeluise@reddit
the landscape and weather are different but the people are not. Feels like the same country.
PomeloPepper@reddit
I used to travel to a lot of small and mid sized communities before there were good online maps. There are certain commonalties you can generally rely on.
Courthouse and main police station tend to be in the old center of town. the Post office will have a flag flying. Fast food will be around major intersections.
Many times there's a pattern to street names. Not always, but if you're looking for Oak street, and you just passed Ash. Birch. Cedar. Dogwood. . .You're going in the right direction.
If you're looking for Violin street and you passed Guitar, Viola . . You're in the right neighborhood. Lots of developers use street names in the same "family"
Street numbers start from some central point in the town. Both n/s and e/w. If the street numbers are in the 300's, you're three blocks from the "zero" line.
Obviously there are exceptions, and older cities that grew more organically don't follow those rules.
effulgentelephant@reddit
I live in the northeast, and have lived up and down the east coast. Before this summer I’d never been to the southwest, and it was the coolest trip! We went to Europe a few years ago (my first time) and while that was an incredible and exciting trip, it was basically just New England in another language and with better public transport lol
The American southwest is like a different planet, for all of the reasons you named. It felt incredible and like magic.
Figgler@reddit
I tend to forget how accessible creature comforts are until I visit a city. I’m not used to Instacart, Uber Eats, light rail, 24 hour restaurants, rental scooters and a lot of other stuff. Granted I remember what it was like and can fall back in quickly, but I don’t have any of that stuff where I live.
Vachic09@reddit
It certainly does.
GhostOfJamesStrang@reddit
Sometimes it's warmer.